I am a woman. I have come a long journey to become who I am now. I can identify myself as a woman. Psychically I have always been a part of woman’s world for sure. That’s whom I was born. But what makes every woman to feel herself a true part of feminine culture? You can wear the cutest dresses in the world, buy brandy perfumes and make-up accessories. You can look like beauty salon is your actual home and wearing high heels is your mantra. You can look gorgeously beautiful. But be dead inside. Totally empty. No light. No sunshine. No beauty trends can cover the emptiness inside. To be truly beautiful we need to get back to our roots. To recognize that throughout history society has put duties and roles women had to play. That we had to live within definite framework. It’s so convenient for the world and men to find women flexible and suppressed.

But sooner or later you’ll feel that hunger. Hunger of finding the way to your self. Wild self. Inconvenient for others. Real. You can be angry, sad, cheerful or depressed. Feeling yourself sexy or be dying slowly in bed when you have periods. Whatever you are and are to be, be yourself. In any situation, choose yourself.

And one day you’ll see it. How people look at you. The way they start treating you. How the sun looks brighter and life gets easier every day. You will notice a beautiful woman walking down the street. You will see the sparks in her eyes. She knows what she wants from life. She is calm and has the energy to fulfill all her wishes. She is so bright, that it makes you wanna stand near her to relish the vibes she brings into that world. She is life. She is death. She is Hambre del Alma. She is you.

Marriage. Most women’s dearest wish. Yet, there are so many pitfalls that our logic does not wanna see.

We all want a person with the same set of qualities. Gentle, good-hearted, strong, ambitious, successful.

Should he be handsome? Yes!

Making money like a pro? Hell yeah!

Let’s add to this cocktail spiritual and intellectual development, ability to build a house, plant a tree, and devotion to the family values.

Attention, ladies!

Here comes the question.

Why does such a rich, successful, goal-oriented, having no bad habits man need you?

It’s not a provocative question. No.

The key here is to know what you can offer in turn. You might say you are beautiful, shapely, smart. That you have Masters, PhD degree in science/your own apartments/money.

…so what. Do really all these distinguish you from other women? What matters is what you have inside. Maybe you can accept man the way he is. Maybe you can inspire, listen with genuine interest in the eyes. Or you are self-sufficient and have enough energy to share with others.

All relationships start with ourselves. Look what you got inside. Like attracts like. This law still works. You cannot have what you do not possess yourself.

Nowadays when people have all the possible technology and skills, we still don’t know the better way of protecting ourselves than building the walls and whole castles between us and the entire world. Emotions are locked away, feelings are frozen and people are thrown away further than the stars in the galaxy.

We are moving through the life line, and every person we meet on the road has their own story, scars that made them stronger…we all have the past.

And what we really need is a bit of sympathy, understanding one another, kindness and acceptance.

…humaneness still remains the biggest challenge to the entire world…

I could write about happiness. How to live the life by doing only what you want to without ‘must’ and ‘have to’.

I could talk about self-love and acceptance. The one and only body, all its shapes. Personality and habits, good or bad.

I could show the way of having what you want. All your dreams turning into reality easily and carefree. Because you deserve it just by being who you are.

If I had a chance, I’d tell a story when a boy likes a girl, and a girl likes the same boy.

If I could, I’d explain how it feels being grateful for the life that was given to you. For all the experience, people and events that changed you.

I’d have shown you the way of waking up in a good mood every day. Treating people nicely. Listening to your heart. Being mindful with your wishes and thoughts. Listen to the Earth’s song. Moving, dancing, singing, living here and now. Being real and live in reality. No rehearsal, but staying in this very moment, in this life.

…
I could write about happiness
but it’s clear to me
happiness
is not a bestseller to be
 …

The time will never be just right. Don’t wait to end up relationship you’re not comfortable with. Just choose to treat and love yourself the way you are. Don’t wait till next Monday to start a work out. Just respect and value your body as the most beautiful friend you’re to live with your entire life. Do only what you wanna do. Don’t do what you don’t wanna do. If you don’t like something — say it.

Live your life passionately, fully, indulge yourself with great food, nice people, never-to-be-forgotten travel destinations. Meditate, listen to yourself carefully. Don’t wait for a better time, don’t wait for a better place. This is just the right time. Choose the life you wanna be in. And be careful with what you wish, as wishes become a reality one day.

I admire people who know the true value of time. Who understands that all we have is 24 hours a day, and a number of yet limited, but our choices what to do with this time ⏳ Meet a friend, stay home, walk the dog, buy fresh fruits at the market, stare at the ceiling for a while, run on a treadmill, scroll down the facebook news section. In a rhythm of home-work-home, to find time and finally finish that sewing course, learn how to ride a horse, handle the basic hip-hop movements, take an octave higher than last month, sign up for the meditation classes on Saturdays. And in all those from A to B motion, what truly matters is with whom you decide to share all those moments 💫

In a continuous flow of information and life events, when our schedule seems not to fit any extra mile to go, we choose people who we want to be in our life 🙌🏻 And in between the different countries, cities, airports and train stations, on the way back to see our parents and loved ones, we do prioritize. Whom we really want to see. Who will truly be there for us in the moments of sadness, joy and love to be shared. Who will make us smile and start believe in miracles again. and…when people choose us…they do like us more than the sewing course.