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            <title><![CDATA[How Adopting a Cat Changed My Life]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2016 17:41:55 GMT</pubDate>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>MILI</h4><p>The war between cats and dogs owners is a never ending war. But for me, the essence of having a pet is not what kind of pets you have, it’s the fulfillment of life.</p><p>I was once a very bitter person. Seeing life in the most negative way possible. Hates every minute I spent at home. But everything changed when Mili came into my life.</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*b21juXmtd5E3zpvuF8y46w.jpeg" /></figure><p>The truth, is it wasn’t me who adopted her at the first time. My brother-in-law gave her to my youngest brother as a present. She’s not the cutest cat alive. To be honest, I kinda annoyed when I have to face living with my mother, a younger brother, and suddenly a cat. She was just about three months when she first came. Day after day she always be there in front of the door when I came home and jumped onto my lap whenever I sat on the sofa. Licking my face over and over again. And that’s it. It took me only a week until I feel the love.</p><blockquote>No matter how fucked up you are, your pet will always love you unconditionally</blockquote><p>Now after six months having Mili at home, I guess I can say that I’m a different person. No more late night partying, no more late wake up. This little girl makes me a better person. And that I think is the essence of having a pet. And I’m truly grateful for experiencing that kind of love.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=ae5d92ecd0e8" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 07 Apr 2016 17:55:54 GMT</pubDate>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Momok yang satu ini emang selalu jadi momok mengganggu buat semua pengendara di Indonesia. Bukan masalah denda yang harus kita keluarin, tapi masalah ribetnya. Gw mau share pengalaman gw dengan tilang-menilang beberapa waktu lalu.</h4><p>Rabu jam 8 pagi, gw udah berangkat dari rumah gw di Cinere mau interview kerja di daerah kuningan. Langsung lah gw tancap gas ke arah pusat. Tapi baru sampe Daerah karang tengah sebelum Lebak Bulus, tiba-tiba ada razia dan motor gw di stop. Usut punya usut, pak Polisi nilang gw karena dengan bodohnya gw lupa nyalain lampu utama yang dimana notabene itu masih terang juga! Pak polisi ngasih liat pasalnya yang tertulis “Tidak menyalakan lampu utama pada siang hari denda maksimal Rp. 100.000,-”.</p><p>Polisi: “Gimana mas, mau sidang aja apa titip denda di tempat?”</p><p>Gw: “Kalo titip denda emang harus bayar berapa pak?”</p><p>Polisi: “seratus ribu mas”</p><p>Gw: “Sidang aja lah pak, masa ga pake sidang tau-tau kena denda maksimal”</p><p>Polisi: “Gak sanggup bayar denda di tempat mas?”</p><p>Gw: (Dalem hati) “SUEK!”</p><p>Jadilah gw dapet surat untuk sidang hari jumat dua minggu kemudian.</p><h3>Sidang</h3><h4>Skripsi belom, udah sidang</h4><p>Di surat tilang gw tertulis sidang pukul 09:00 pagi. Tapi berhubung gw anak disiplin, gw udh sampe pengadilan ampera jam 08:30 dengan harapan gw dapet sidang duluan biar gak lama. Begitu parkir gw berasa kaya ariel noah yang lagi dikerubutin wartawan. Cuma bedanya, yang ngerubutin gw calo sidang. Dengan teguh gw bilang ke mereka “Gausah pak, saya urus sendiri aja”. Beberapa tahun lalu gw pernah sidang tilang di pengadilan yang sama dan prosedurnya masih pake segala duduk di kursi tersangka berhadapan sama hakim. Gw sedikit excited untuk part ini. Entah mengapa gw ngerasa keren. Tapi ternyata prosedurnya udah beda. Pas dateng kita disuruh nuker surat tilang sama nomer antrian. Disana udah rame banget dan gw dapet nomer antrian 474. What the fuck?! Akhirnya untuk membuang waktu, uang dan batre handphone gw makan di kantin pengadilan sambil main game.</p><p>Jam 09:00 loket belum juga buka. Hawa makin panas. Ngerokok udah kembung.Akhirnya loket buka jam 09:20. Telat 20 menit di Indonesia udah biasa.</p><p>Ternyata pengadilan langsung buka dua loket sekaligus. Loket 1 untuk antrian 1–300, loket 2 untuk antrian 301–600. Disini saya merasa senang. At least ga harus nunggu sampe sore.</p><p>Setelah kira-kira dua setengah jam sok asik sama bapak-bapak sesama korban tilang, dua botol teh pucuk, dan gak kehitung batang rokok akhirnya nomer gw dipanggil juga. Gw berharap cuma harus ngeluarin duit 30–50 ribu aja karena udah memilih untuk jadi warga negara yang baik. Tapi ternyata semua itu khayalan belaka saudara-saudara. Gw dikenakan denda sebesar Rp. 80.000,-. Cuma beda 20 ribu dari denda di tempat. Akhirnya mau gak mau gw bayar denda itu demi kembalinya sim gw yang sebenernya fotonya aja gak gw akuin.</p><p>Pelajaran yang gw dapet dari pengalaman ini adalah:</p><blockquote>Jangan pernah sekalipun mattin lampu motor biar gak lupa</blockquote><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=9ff6205ff8f7" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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