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            <title><![CDATA[I’m Not Competing With Another Woman for a Man Who Knows Exactly Where I Stand]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/hello-love/im-not-competing-with-another-woman-for-a-man-who-knows-exactly-where-i-stand-71ff88aebb4e?source=rss-6bb1aa229a7e------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1200/1*YnxG90Jw-dkB43GgZzTjCQ@2x.jpeg" width="1200"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Somewhere along the way, I realized that constantly worrying about being replaced was making me abandon myself.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/hello-love/im-not-competing-with-another-woman-for-a-man-who-knows-exactly-where-i-stand-71ff88aebb4e?source=rss-6bb1aa229a7e------2">Continue reading on Hello, Love »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2026 19:06:01 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Thought Punishing Myself Proved I Was Sorry]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2026 06:04:22 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Devil Himself: What Gaslighting Does to a Woman Who Loved Him]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2026 04:21:04 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[One Day You’ll Remember The Woman Who Walked Away]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/illumination/one-day-youll-remember-the-woman-who-walked-away-67ea992255bf?source=rss-6bb1aa229a7e------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1448/1*VxGogKGLnmKjx28NU5afmA@2x.jpeg" width="1448"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Sometimes the greatest consequence is losing the person who kept choosing you.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/illumination/one-day-youll-remember-the-woman-who-walked-away-67ea992255bf?source=rss-6bb1aa229a7e------2">Continue reading on ILLUMINATION »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 15:26:05 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Didn’t Know I Was Disappearing Until I Couldn’t Find Myself]]></title>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Didn’t Know Peace Would Feel So Unfamiliar]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/heartline-publications/i-didnt-know-peace-would-feel-so-unfamiliar-91d7796a8770?source=rss-6bb1aa229a7e------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1169/1*G6-GLc8nK9RtpU2IVjYfbQ@2x.jpeg" width="1169"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Healing isn&#x2019;t just learning to survive. It&#x2019;s learning to stop expecting disaster.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/heartline-publications/i-didnt-know-peace-would-feel-so-unfamiliar-91d7796a8770?source=rss-6bb1aa229a7e------2">Continue reading on Heartline Publications »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2026 19:08:33 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[He Says He Loves Me]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/be-open/he-says-he-loves-me-315da55ac92d?source=rss-6bb1aa229a7e------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1055/1*hM3NZjrKlkog1jAMqpgmuQ@2x.jpeg" width="1055"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">When words and actions tell two completely different stories.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/be-open/he-says-he-loves-me-315da55ac92d?source=rss-6bb1aa229a7e------2">Continue reading on Be Open - Writers &amp; Readers Pub »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[☽Karlee Alyssa]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2026 17:16:09 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[How I Love a Man When He’s Good to Me]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[☽Karlee Alyssa]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2026 14:41:00 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Loneliness of Being Loved Without Affection: When Intimacy Slowly Disappears]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/hello-love/the-loneliness-of-being-loved-without-affection-when-intimacy-slowly-disappears-be8ba1068d0a?source=rss-6bb1aa229a7e------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1536/1*XNxcHsJ8EBs3_aSCJ5E9eQ@2x.jpeg" width="1536"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">When affection fades inside a relationship, people often begin emotionally starving in silence.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/hello-love/the-loneliness-of-being-loved-without-affection-when-intimacy-slowly-disappears-be8ba1068d0a?source=rss-6bb1aa229a7e------2">Continue reading on Hello, Love »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2026 21:01:01 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[I’m Still Learning How to Unlearn the Parts of Me That Survival Created]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[☽Karlee Alyssa]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2026 23:01:01 GMT</pubDate>
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