Everything I thought I wanted

is right here,

particularly when the sun

is making such a comeback,

and the lilac engorged

with purple has recovered

from its severe pruning,

and you will be back soon

to dispel whatever it is

that overtakes me like leaf blight,

even on a day like this .I can still

hear remnants of the rain

in the swollen streams

behind the house, in the faint

dripping under the eaves,

persistent as memory.

And all the things I didn’t think

I wanted, cut like the lilac back

to the root, push up again

from under ground.

We’re socialise to be competitive, so comparing ourselves to others is natural. But it can be dangerous. There’s just no point in comparing yourself to anyone else on the planet because there’s only one you. Rather, focus on yourself and your journey.

In that same vein, don’t worry about what society thinks or expects of you. You can’t make everyone happy, so this is a waste of time and will only slow you down on your journey to being the best you.

We’re told again and again from a young age “nobody’s perfect, everyone makes mistakes.” But the older you get, the more pressure you feel never to fail. Cut yourself some slack! Make mistakes so you can learn and grow from them. Embrace your past. You’re constantly changing and growing from who you once were into who you are today and who you will be one day.

So, forget about that voice in your head that says you need to be perfect. Make mistakes — lots of them! The lessons you’ll gain are priceless.

If there’s someone who is bringing toxicity into your life and they won’t take responsibility for it, that might mean you need to step away from them. Don’t be afraid to do this. It’s liberating and important, even though it may be painful.

Feeling afraid is natural and human. Don’t reject your fears — understand them.

The world is full of harsh words and critique — don’t add yours to the mix. Speak kindly to yourself, and don’t call yourself mean things. Celebrate yourself. You’ve come so far and grown so much. Don’t forget to celebrate yourself, and not only on your birthday!

I Am So Glad You’re Here

I think people are so beautiful

when their eyes light up and they say sincerely,

“I am so glad you’re here"

In other words

You bring joy to my life.

You bring relief to my rooms.

I am struggling in.
You bring me hope

When I need it most.

You make the world
A little bit easier to live.

I love you for making me feel better.

I’m so glad you’re here.