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            <title><![CDATA[Hey, So Everything is Super Expensive]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/heres-the-thing/hey-so-everything-is-super-expensive-2c07a76a16a2?source=rss-b92865838a3a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*TUu3QopFT2bFIrUmLgXUBw.jpeg" width="4480"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">I can&#x2019;t be the only one feeling this way.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/heres-the-thing/hey-so-everything-is-super-expensive-2c07a76a16a2?source=rss-b92865838a3a------2">Continue reading on Here’s The Thing »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2026 19:00:30 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Is Marriage the New Boogeyman?]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2026 18:25:54 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[This is 33]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2026 00:08:44 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Quit Dating and You Should Too]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/heres-the-thing/i-quit-dating-andyou-should-too-726967f25bdb?source=rss-b92865838a3a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*JMc_hlhfquw5ueLWLt_nfA.jpeg" width="4672"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">When I stopped actively dating, my life got astronomically better.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/heres-the-thing/i-quit-dating-andyou-should-too-726967f25bdb?source=rss-b92865838a3a------2">Continue reading on Here’s The Thing »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 22 Apr 2026 22:32:35 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[My Second Act]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2025 20:15:36 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[My Last Article Got No Claps]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/heres-the-thing/my-last-article-got-no-claps-049ec58af769?source=rss-b92865838a3a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*35P2PwBk6vzPvJkt-qtgIw.jpeg" width="3264"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">From top writer in Dating and Relationships to radio silence.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/heres-the-thing/my-last-article-got-no-claps-049ec58af769?source=rss-b92865838a3a------2">Continue reading on Here’s The Thing »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2025 16:43:30 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Man Hating TikTok Influencer Voted For Trump]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/heres-the-thing/the-man-hating-tiktok-influencer-voted-for-trump-d714df369780?source=rss-b92865838a3a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*KpJtpp2sE1srpfDM79g3SA.jpeg" width="4160"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Oh boy.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/heres-the-thing/the-man-hating-tiktok-influencer-voted-for-trump-d714df369780?source=rss-b92865838a3a------2">Continue reading on Here’s The Thing »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2025 21:23:58 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[How To Know If Someone Is Male-Centered]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/heres-the-thing/how-to-know-if-someone-is-male-centered-6316d42e978e?source=rss-b92865838a3a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*QOOLRZKMPigzVvnpXkPprA.jpeg" width="4480"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">This is inspired by The Wizard Liz story going viral right now.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/heres-the-thing/how-to-know-if-someone-is-male-centered-6316d42e978e?source=rss-b92865838a3a------2">Continue reading on Here’s The Thing »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2025 18:10:57 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[If He’s Single, He’s Probably Sleeping With Someone]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/heres-the-thing/if-hes-single-he-s-probably-sleeping-with-someone-e8d3d56c97e9?source=rss-b92865838a3a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2333/1*1ITqp-tvE7G3Fi1BE2bAVw.jpeg" width="2333"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">How this rule of thumb can save you a lot of heartache.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/heres-the-thing/if-hes-single-he-s-probably-sleeping-with-someone-e8d3d56c97e9?source=rss-b92865838a3a------2">Continue reading on Here’s The Thing »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2025 23:25:54 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Stop Dating Casually Before You Quit Dating Cold Turkey]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/heres-the-thing/stop-dating-casually-before-you-quit-dating-cold-turkey-a2b70fb17ff9?source=rss-b92865838a3a------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*laT8mrSbTSUXRAmKm-6LNg.jpeg" width="4480"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Revisiting my most successful article.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/heres-the-thing/stop-dating-casually-before-you-quit-dating-cold-turkey-a2b70fb17ff9?source=rss-b92865838a3a------2">Continue reading on Here’s The Thing »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 24 May 2025 21:02:00 GMT</pubDate>
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