Part 1 is my temporary problem, Parts 2 to 4 are my Soulutions.

The falsities of the “Self-change Willpower Myth?” that stop my self-change and make it difficult. The “Self-change Willpower Myth?” gives me nowhere to go if I fail to self-change

What is Willpower? Here are the current definitions and synonyms based on this “Self-change Willpower Myth”

· Willpower Definitions: the trait of resolutely, boldly, steadily, firmly controlling your own behavior, conduct, actions, performance, execution (What are other meanings of execution?).

· Willpower Synonyms: self-control, self-possession, self-command, self-will, self-possession. Determination, Resolve, Drive, Strength of will, Strength of mind, Iron will.

The “Self-change Willpower Myth” consists of these fallacies….

The only reason some people can self-change and others can’t is only because….

· Is only because they have more innate WILLPOWER.

· Is only because they have more natural backbone.

· Is only because they have more inherent “Strength of Character.”

· Is only because they they’re just stronger.

· Is only because they were born with the power to self-change.

So, when I fail to change what I want to self-change I THINK I know the reasons are only because…

· When I fail to change it is only because I believe I don’t have the innate WILLPOWER.

· When I fail to change it is only because I believe I don’t have enough natural backbone to self-change.

· When I fail to change it is only because I believe I don’t have satisfactory innate “Strength of Character” to successfully self-change

· When I fail to change it is only because I believe I I’m just not sufficiently strong to change.

· When I fail to change it is only because I believe I was not born with the power to self-change.

It keeps me in a distressing cycle for self-change of repeating heaps of effort, with no moving forward, again…

1. I become SO UNCOMFORTABLE because of my bad habit (or anything else of meaning to me) that I have to want to change to get rid of the pain, stuckness.

2. I begin again. I courageously (despite what happened last time) commit to self-change AGAIN. In pain and fear.

3. After a while my enthusiasm, motivation starts to disappear.

4. I begin to procrastinate, avoid performing my new actions I need to do daily for my self-change.

5. Instead, I begin to do my old unhealthy habits again.