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        <title><![CDATA[Stories by Leonard Tillerman on Medium]]></title>
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            <title><![CDATA[Twenty Years Later, I Still Hear My Grandfather’s Rocking Chair]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/nudge-write/twenty-years-later-i-still-hear-my-grandfathers-rocking-chair-e61fc931caf2?source=rss-a3eefbe35fbd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1536/1*xNGhJFL_-Isq7woWGbX2WA.png" width="1536"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Some losses don&#x2019;t become smaller with time. We simply learn to live with them, until an ordinary sound reminds us otherwise.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/nudge-write/twenty-years-later-i-still-hear-my-grandfathers-rocking-chair-e61fc931caf2?source=rss-a3eefbe35fbd------2">Continue reading on Nudge »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2026 10:32:13 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Hardest Part of Losing Friends Is Realizing You Never Really Had Them]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Leonard Tillerman]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2026 07:20:48 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Spent Years Defending Someone Who Was Slowly Breaking Me]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/nudge-write/i-spent-years-defending-someone-who-was-slowly-breaking-me-4a74929b8369?source=rss-a3eefbe35fbd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1536/1*ZaD4WuzgTEMlYXF1PFa0CA.png" width="1536"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Why we make excuses for the people who hurt us, even when the truth is right in front of us.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/nudge-write/i-spent-years-defending-someone-who-was-slowly-breaking-me-4a74929b8369?source=rss-a3eefbe35fbd------2">Continue reading on Nudge »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Leonard Tillerman]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2026 09:17:07 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Difference Between a Boss and a Leader Changed the Course of My Life]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/nudge-write/the-difference-between-a-boss-and-a-leader-changed-the-course-of-my-life-52006946ff1a?source=rss-a3eefbe35fbd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1671/1*woKG09zs2u10pDiXmEVh3A.png" width="1671"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">I was ready to walk away from the career I loved until one principal showed me what true leadership looks like.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/nudge-write/the-difference-between-a-boss-and-a-leader-changed-the-course-of-my-life-52006946ff1a?source=rss-a3eefbe35fbd------2">Continue reading on Nudge »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Leonard Tillerman]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2026 09:22:57 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Unapologetically Me — A Writing Challenge]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/clear-kind/unapologetically-me-a-writing-challenge-e4225b9453b9?source=rss-a3eefbe35fbd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1536/1*lqzCPoRCaVKPcnEUJC1EHg.png" width="1536"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">I Overthink Everything, and I&#x2019;m Not Planning to Stop</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/clear-kind/unapologetically-me-a-writing-challenge-e4225b9453b9?source=rss-a3eefbe35fbd------2">Continue reading on Clear &amp; Kind »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Leonard Tillerman]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2026 04:18:18 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Learned to Read a Room Before I Learned to Read Myself]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/infinite-impulse/i-learned-to-read-a-room-before-i-learned-to-read-myself-12da7dbe2917?source=rss-a3eefbe35fbd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2056/1*7_q5rccUwz00syfN9fS6mA.png" width="2056"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Introducing The Unspoken Self, a new Substack publication exploring the hidden psychology behind our thoughts, relationships, and the&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/infinite-impulse/i-learned-to-read-a-room-before-i-learned-to-read-myself-12da7dbe2917?source=rss-a3eefbe35fbd------2">Continue reading on Infinite Impulse »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Leonard Tillerman]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2026 06:24:23 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Man I’ve Become Would Disappoint the Boy I Once Was]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/nudge-write/the-man-ive-become-would-disappoint-the-boy-i-once-was-ea3216889b28?source=rss-a3eefbe35fbd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1536/1*4BDOswLHaABFn5CN3SZ7-A.png" width="1536"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">I thought I knew exactly who I needed to become. Life had other plans.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/nudge-write/the-man-ive-become-would-disappoint-the-boy-i-once-was-ea3216889b28?source=rss-a3eefbe35fbd------2">Continue reading on Nudge »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Leonard Tillerman]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2026 09:26:56 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Got Sober. I Wasn’t Prepared for Who I’d Have to Face.]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/nudge-write/i-got-sober-i-wasnt-prepared-for-who-i-d-have-to-face-93a5eae8b1bc?source=rss-a3eefbe35fbd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1536/1*JqpiMrLJuQ8_flPsdRwr0Q.png" width="1536"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Removing alcohol didn&#x2019;t get rid of the reasons I reached for it in the first place.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/nudge-write/i-got-sober-i-wasnt-prepared-for-who-i-d-have-to-face-93a5eae8b1bc?source=rss-a3eefbe35fbd------2">Continue reading on Nudge »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Leonard Tillerman]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2026 10:26:29 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Psychology Behind Why We Sometimes Treat the People We Love the Worst]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Leonard Tillerman]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2026 06:52:54 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Twenty-Nine Words]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Leonard Tillerman]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2026 07:28:18 GMT</pubDate>
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