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            <title><![CDATA[Indonesia is the Most Exotic Place to Commemorate World Tourism Day 2021]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 05 Oct 2021 08:28:17 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2021-10-05T08:28:17.275Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/800/1*efS_BVuJ4Jd_CQpbCy46VA.jpeg" /><figcaption>source : antaranews.com</figcaption></figure><p>The beauty of Indonesia’s nature is not only felt by local peakers and travelers. The world looks at the lyrics like it’s even a place to commemorate an important day for those cross-country explorers. So Indonesia be the place of Tourism Day in 2021.</p><p>Having a picnic and seeing the beauty of nature on the motherland is a powerful way to unwind for those of you who are busy hearing noisy traffic jams. Moreover, the beautiful unity of nature wrapped in a thick culture that strengthens the attraction of a thickened love.</p><p>Indonesia, which is the place of the equator of the tropical season and thousands of islands, presents thousands of beautiful nature plus a thick and ancestral culture. Starting from the coast to the mountains there is everything and is available in abundance and beauty. This makes tourists feel at home for a long time in this beloved country.</p><p>Commemoration of Tourism Day 2021 is an honor to hear the good news which was held in Indonesia on September 27, 2021 yesterday. This commemoration event has been held annually since 1980 by the World Tourism Organization or called UNWTO (United Nations World Tourism Organization). Any assistance and support from any party is an important point of this success. Meler Village, which is the choice of the world’s citizens, will hold this commemoration day. So why is it so far to see the beauty of foreign countries if you haven’t touched Indonesia yet?</p><p>The negative impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on the economy and society in all corners of both developed and developing countries, marginalized people are the most disadvantaged from this impact. UNWTO plans to revitalize tourism around the world as a form of recovery and economic growth from the impact of this pandemic. So that in the future it will provide fair benefits for all parties.</p><p>Meler Village, located in Ruteng District, Manggarai Regency, East Nusa Tenggara presents the best destination in the form of rice fields that look like spider webs. Eitts, the shape of this net has a philosophy of course. This spider web depicts fair and equitable citizens, and divides the roles and duties of each. This is in line with the vision of developing inclusive tourism in the community. The celebration of the tourism day which begins with welcoming the traditional natas (page) of the Gendar Meler House, the traditional elder of Kampung Meler, is an important point for the strength of the Manggarai culture. This is the theme of the 2021 tourism anniversary celebration “Tourism for Inclusive Growth”. In that slogan, UNWTO aims to invite all citizens of the world to see tourism which is not just numbers and statistics for recommended places, but culture and all community activists there.</p><p>Looking to the Future, UNWTO expects its members to remain committed to its mission to promote inclusive tourism growth. The hope is for world travelers to be able to provide opinions on how the tourism sector can grow more inclusively again as it was before the COVID-19 pandemic.</p><p>The government, the world of education, and the church take part in building the community through tourism. Manggarai culture which is a value and tradition is a valuable and priceless asset that must be cared for and can be used as local content. It is evident from tourists who stop by not only seeing the beautiful scenery offerings, knowing and learning about the culture is a plus point in itself.</p><p>What is the opinion of the government and local residents?</p><p>Reported from Antaranews.com, Shana Fatina as the President Director of the Implementing Agency for the Labuan Bajo Flores Authority (BPOLBF) supports and presents the best destination for Manggarai. Apart from that, he emphasized the importance of developing craft products based on arts and culture that are characteristic of the people of Kampung Meler. The development of every aspect and potential must be a learning process together in order to increase tourism and a classy sustainable creative economy to penetrate the world of Santa Claus.</p><p>From florescreative.co.id, the Head of the Tourism Commission of Ruteng Diocese, Pastor, Inosensius Sutam, joined the discussion with local residents. Actually, the residents themselves refused on the grounds that tourism was not beneficial for the community directly, which was inversely proportional to the beautiful love story in their beloved country.</p><p>Long ata lonto, lonto ata long which means that our citizens become spectators are a form of disapproval of the residents of Kampung Meler as a tourist place. Ino convinced the residents and thought about how to build synergies so that all parties benefited from this lodok, which made him the person involved in the development of this tourism. The message from Pope John Paul 2 about this tourism anniversary is a sign of the times which is an opportunity to become brothers without limits. Humans become an important point that is prioritized by the existence of moral and religious values ​​in tourism.</p><p>Ino hopes that this tourism will become a harmony to overcome extremism and radicalism that causes world division.</p><p>Pastor Ino’s efforts were finally welcomed by Meler villagers, one of them Marko Arifin. Local residents are quite difficult to develop tourism with limited human resources there. This is reinforced by the training that he did only one day. In the long term, tourism is the hope of the residents and the cog to generate other aspects in Kampung Meler.</p><p>Like a world citizen who appreciates and loves the beauty of the world, it is equally important as a local citizen to take part in the rebuilding of Indonesian tourism, the small things you do such as preserving the exoticism of Indonesia by NOT DISPOSING ANY WASTE are actions to preserve the tourism environment. For those of you who have done it, thank you and I salute you. Regards, Nico.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=1c0b46eea272" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[REIGN WITHOUT FEELING REIGN]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 02 Oct 2021 05:25:23 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2021-10-02T05:25:23.287Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/633/1*TOlRpgnpxd-paHf8W4MnGA.png" /></figure><p>How come you can rule without feeling ordered. This is one of the hypnosis techniques commonly used by politicians, demonstrators, and employees who simultaneously raise salaries. So how can they do that?</p><p>To make the other person do what they are told to do according to their will is to make them comfortable first. This comfort can be something related to problems that happen to you and that person. This is called pacing (containing undeniable facts). Pacing is the right first step to influence by relying on the emotions of the same problem and fate. After they agree on what you are talking about, just lead to the destination or suggestion that you want to command. This is called leading. These two ways become an easy and cliché but not realized by humans to influence other people. With these two techniques, there are many like-minded people from thousands and even millions of people so that they take part in demonstrations in the fields of politics, religion, racism.</p><p>The lessons of these two techniques will be valuable for all of you that can be used in everyday life or prevent you from being hypnotized in this way. Order without feeling order is the main title of the article I wrote because this technique relies on human emotions which can even be used in business. This is a powerful technique that can be used by clients to buy products that we sell ourselves. Of course the benefits are enormous, right?<br>These are the stages of building emotional closeness to the interlocutor, concrete steps to build closeness of rapport both internally and externally. Here are the steps and steps:</p><blockquote>1. Mirroring<br>Build intimacy with the interlocutor both verbally and non-verbally. This is necessary as a first step in approaching and agreeing with the other person.</blockquote><blockquote>2. Pacing<br>Familiarity that becomes biofeedback between you and the other person, talk to equate the model of the world you experience with that of the other person. This is an inner intimacy.</blockquote><blockquote>3. Leading<br>Lead your interlocutor to what you want. It becomes important when we discuss what is happening now to the state we want in the future.</blockquote><p>It’s easy isn’t it, share and apply the knowledge you get here, I pray for your good and use this knowledge as best as possible in a positive way. See you.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=f06f95224899" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[TONGUE AND SWORD (HYPNOSIS THOUGHT)]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 01 Oct 2021 00:49:22 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2021-10-01T00:49:22.213Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/642/1*bdzdhqLAc7liG8Cd_3MMsg.png" /></figure><p>All kinds of wars are all about ruse<br>** — Sun Tzu — **</p><p>Some people are rejected by the people they are addressing. It becomes normal for us to reject rejection itself. but how do we strengthen their belief in what we have to say and give even more? By attacking their subconscious mind will unwittingly bring out the right emotional. Generating and attacking your own subconscious mind is the easiest to imitate is to ask questions about his preferences. As an example:<br>“What’s your favorite song?”<br>“When you have free time, what do you usually do?”<br>“What are your hobbies?”</p><p>Subconsciously he will activate their subconscious mind by answering these questions and eliciting emotions.</p><p>After activating their subconscious mind, also learn the correct delivery technique for asking for something. Even though the goal is the same, but different delivery techniques can get different answers from “No” answers to “Yes I agree”. Check out some of the following tips:</p><p>1. Ask<br>How to ask for the right one even get approved right away. Several students conducted experiments according to the quote from Efvy Zam’s book entitled “Hypnosis for everyday life”. First he asked for money without telling the amount, and their success was only 44%. Second, they ask for money by telling the nominal limit, their success is 64%. While the third method, asking for money with a specific amount and nominal such as Rp. 5,000.00, will have 75% success. From this conclusion, the more specific our request, the greater our success in getting what we want.</p><p>2. Change “no” to “yes”<br>There is a story, a buyer is shopping at a souvenir shop and wants to offer a cheaper price by saying “Can it be less or not?”. What do you think of the seller’s answer? Of course they said “no” right? Now change the perception and what information we ask for to “Can it be less, sir?”. With that question they are led to answer “yes” in an instant, although it is difficult to accept, the seller will think while putting the goods you buy into a plastic bag. Another example of the barcode for the exact price of an item to be purchased, the buyer asks the seller directly “The price is right?”. Spontaneously the seller will answer “Yes, the price is right, Sis”. Magic isn’t it? How easy it is to manipulate people’s minds subconsciously by just changing that little word. These are important tips and tricks for those of you who like to bargain in purchases.</p><p>3. Directing<br>How to direct people according to our orders? Lead them to answer with narrower options, let’s give an example. A salesperson in a jewelry store sometimes always asks “Can I help you?”. Consciously confused buyers will say “Just see, see, sis”. Questions with general answers will make it difficult for us to always get the desired answer. Change to more specific questions such as “Want to buy gold or silver ma’am?”. Indirectly leading buyers to answer between the two answers, if not gold, then silver, right? Narrowing of answer choices is the most important trick to lead our listeners according to the concept we want.</p><p>These three tips are effective for those of you who apply them directly in social and community life, especially in the midst of this COVID pandemic itself. I wish you success and good health there.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=950ad39130b9" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[MASLOW THEORY THAT MAKE YOU THINK TWICE (HYPNOSIS THOUGHT)]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 30 Sep 2021 03:09:54 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2021-09-30T03:09:54.089Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*otnuF6nPzs-Zjsmbdwm_lQ.jpeg" /></figure><p>Armed with the theories presented by Maslow, and several leading psychologists. Where this theory is useful for you to influence other people and reap profits in the form of, money in business, voting in politics, and much more. Which quotes in the book Hypnosis in everyday life by Efvy Zam.<br>Money politics has become a hit among Indonesia, which I love. The reason is that officials give some money to several families to get votes from their people. This money can also be in the form of groceries. Why did it happen? The Indonesian economy, where many people are still below the poverty line, makes them only think about money to survive. In accordance with the article I wrote earlier. The pyramid of needs which is the basic foundation in life is to survive in terms of clothing, food, and shelter. Once they can offer a solution and give them what they want. Boom, voting will be directed at the politician who gave the money who could be the person who is evil and dissatisfied with wealth.</p><p>There are several levels of the pyramid of needs presented by Robert Fritz about the 16 basic needs that motivate humans, including:</p><p>1. Power<br>2. Reception<br>3. Respect<br>4. Family<br>5. Romance<br>6. Tranquility<br>7. Independence<br>8. Regularity<br>9. Idealism<br>10. Status<br>11. Eat<br>12. Curiosity<br>13. Savings<br>14. Social Contact<br>15. Revenge<br>16. Sports</p><p>Principle of Psychology according to psychologist William James from America, compiled a list of needs as follows:<br>1. Savings<br>2. Show off<br>3. Regularity<br>4. Shame<br>5. Revenge<br>6. Development<br>7. Family<br>8. Play<br>9. Avoiding Pain<br>10. Curiosity<br>11. Hunting<br>12. Sex<br>13. Group</p><p>It becomes important to learn what is needed by humans so that what we say can be understood even say “yes”. This is a consideration that must be understood about what makes them motivated and driven, Food?money?Sex? Try to lead them to something they need, after you’re done go to the important point of your goal. Surely they will be tempted and say yes to what they say. This is the basic principle of human survival. So choose what suits their needs.</p><p>How do you get what you say and ask others?</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=a04cfdd0663b" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[WHAT’S YOUR MOTIVATION? THE BEST WAY TO HYPNOSIS OTHER]]></title>
            <link>https://medium.com/@nphilosophy/whats-your-motivation-the-best-way-to-hypnosis-other-82c4faab2d64?source=rss-27170cac2dc6------2</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2021 23:47:35 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2021-09-28T23:48:00.907Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*0Qt9KxQ93NTY2mCO2vbhig.jpeg" /></figure><p>Motivation is an important part in stoking the fire of passion within. By knowing what we want, we are able to influence others easily? How to? This is related to the science of hypnosis which also captures various events in everyday life.</p><p>By telling them how they get what they want, they will listen carefully and you can influence them by telling them how to get what they want.<br>Nothing more than influencing other people in a complicated way using a coin that is tied and shaken to the other person’s face, this method and trick is even simpler that there are even quotes that say:</p><blockquote>“The only way on earth to influence another person is to talk about what he wants and show him how to get it.”<br> ** — -Dale Carniege — -**</blockquote><p>For example, most people go straight to skimming (speed reading) to understand the information they need by skipping what they don’t need. If an article or newspaper doesn’t interest you, you definitely won’t read it, right?<br>Likewise with listening, what should you do, that is, directly catch their attention? The method?</p><p>By thinking about what they want. Must be able to put yourself in situations that other people want. Take out the ego within yourself and enter the ego of the listener who listens to you.</p><p>When you can understand what the other person cares about, you are in a strong position. And ends by creating something that catches their attention according to their desires and interests as your listeners.</p><p>But before you want to learn to manipulate people’s minds, you must understand the basics of human psychology which is often understood by many people. There is a psychological trick coined by Abraham Maslow. He is famous for the theory of the hierarchy of needs. The level and level of needs according to Maslow became a popular theory.</p><p>Maslow’s early career in psychology researching monkeys. The monkey’s need for food and drink was researched to find out its own level. Maslow allowed the monkey to drink without eating and be strong for several days which was almost a week, while eating without drinking made the monkey go crazy and could die in a matter of days of only 1–2 days. It can be concluded from there that the need to drink is more important than eating itself.</p><p>For the same reason and experiment, if you are suffocating without oxygen rather than drinking, you will choose to breathe fresh oxygen and prioritize things that are crucial even when nearing death, they are more concerned with things that can save them.<br>This is the new knowledge that comes from Abraham Maslow in his explanation of the pyramid of needs:</p><p>1. The need for basic/physiological living<br>These needs include food, drink, shelter, and sex. People who have not met these basic needs tend to be easily influenced and provoked. Because the primary need itself supports them to survive longer.</p><p>2. Security needs<br>A sense of security and protection is a need for people to choose insurance. Why? with insurance, one gets security like a posse and body guard that protects oneself so that the masters can sleep soundly without worry.</p><p>3. Social Needs<br>It becomes a need that includes feelings. The feeling of being accepted by others as a member of the group and the feeling of wanting to be loved by the public like a mayor who continues to be trendy and humble to attract the people he loves.</p><p>4. Need for esteem/self-esteem<br>The need for wanting to be given status and being recognized by others is a need that should not be underestimated.</p><p>5. Self-actualization needs<br>This last peak need is continuous with self-understanding and development. The desire to keep working to the best of his ability is a form of self-actualization.</p><p>Those are some of the points that become the pyramid of human needs that we can learn to be able to analyze a person in what condition so that the thought of being able to influence can reach the desired level. So what do you think?</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=82c4faab2d64" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[PERSPECTIVE PEOPLE THAT MAKE YOU UNDERSTAND TO INFLUENT OTHER (HYPNOSIS)]]></title>
            <link>https://medium.com/@nphilosophy/perspective-people-that-make-you-understand-to-influent-other-hypnosis-3e3d3ec3b97d?source=rss-27170cac2dc6------2</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2021 02:46:56 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2021-09-28T02:47:23.725Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*4zj91uZgGcMP8aGfpMv5qQ.jpeg" /></figure><p>Point of view is an important thing that must be prioritized to influence others by means of hypnosis. By knowing other people’s point of view, we can take advantage of it, by showing products according to their point of view, if we want to influence, we just need to equate some words with one point of view.</p><p>Equalization of this point of view must be done as gently as possible by observing what the other person is saying. How? Research what words are often spoken by the other person. There are three types of human point of view based on what information they capture, including:</p><p><strong>1. Visual Type</strong><br>Visual is the sense that can see, namely the eyes. The eye is able to observe, judge, describe from an image that he catches. There are some words that are usually spoken by people of this visual type themselves, for example:<br>“I will <strong>look</strong> at the evidence first before judging….”<br>“Could you <strong>show</strong> me where the way is?”<br>“I can describe … for you to <strong>see</strong>”<br>“Wait and<strong> see</strong>…”<br>“Can you <strong>imagine</strong> what happened next?”<br>“It <strong>seems</strong>..”<br>Those are just a few examples of words that are often spoken in the conversation of a visual type that we don’t even notice. This is the right strategy to plan in the future by being able to categorize that he is a visual type. Let’s take the example of the product you sell, namely clothes, show them your beautiful and pleasing to the eye motif.</p><p><strong>2. Auditory Type</strong><br>Auditory itself is the type who gets the information he understands by listening through the ear. He enjoys listening to podcasts, teachers teaching, tuning music, even whatever words of wisdom he hears. Some of the words that are often thrown by the auditory type include:<br>“I <strong>listened</strong> to what….”<br>“<strong>Sounds</strong> good to…”<br>“<strong>Sounds</strong> good to me”<br>“<strong>Listen</strong> to this music the sound…”<br>“A lot of people <strong>say</strong> that…”<br>The <strong>tone</strong> is like…”<br>These are some of the words commonly spoken by auditory types, it is our advantage if the products we sell are related to what they can hear, for example you sell vehicle products, you can hear the sound of the exhaust and engine and say the beauty of the sound produced by the product. you to your auditory type of consumer.</p><p><strong>3. Kinesthetic Type</strong><br>This type of person is usually relaxed, has a slow tone of voice and says something what he feels, expressions that often arise from this kinesthetic type include:<br>“I <strong>think</strong> there are many benefits to doing this”<br>“Very <strong>comfortable</strong>, very <strong>soft</strong>, typical…”<br>“The story <strong>touched</strong> me”<br>“Feels like on the beach <strong>smelling</strong> the distinctive aroma of the sea”<br>When talking to your own kinesthetic type, make it a habit to let him feel your product. For example selling blankets, give him directions to feel how soft the blanket you are selling is. With them feeling the softness of the cloth, let alone being part of their first experience. He will not hesitate to buy your product.</p><p>To better understand in analyzing which category our clients fall into is by listening to what they say the first time they enter your store or company. There are several examples that you must be able to analyze, including what type of consumer you are<br>“This shop’s accompaniment makes me <strong>dizzy</strong>”<br>“AC is very <strong>cold</strong>”<br>“The cat toy <strong>looks</strong> cute waving”<br>Already understand where they can be categorized, now I will ask. When you go to a tourist spot, what do you like best?</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=3e3d3ec3b97d" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[FIRST IMPRESSION TO HYPNOSIS OTHER]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 27 Sep 2021 03:20:26 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2021-09-27T03:20:46.527Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*MpwURGCumuEU5bI8hGoN-g.jpeg" /></figure><p>Who says first impressions aren’t important? Although many people say don’t look at it because of its physical appearance, don’t look at the cover of the book, look at the heart and contents of that book itself. Yes, even though it’s true and being some of the quotes that we often hear in reality, it’s actually the opposite. Everything is judged by the first impression.</p><p>When you are about to buy a book, what do you see first? Title? Cover designs? Author? The contents of the book? Of course most people when looking at a book will see the title of the book first, then the cover design, and the author. Because the book is on the cover, we can’t see from the contents of the book, can we? At least look at the summary on the back of the book itself.<br>So imagine how do you see there is 2 people who approach you, the first is in disheveled clothes, long hair and disheveled. While the second people has neat hair and short, the clothes are nice and masculine. Will you answer and greet the first person? Of course you will prioritize the second person right? Appearances for first impressions are important for opening the gate of closeness with someone. It is undeniable that first impressions are very important and the words “Don’t judge a book by its cover” are meaningless.<br>There are several percentages to bind a person’s physical attractiveness quoted from the book Hypnosis for daily life by Efvy Zam, judged from several assessments including:</p><p>1. Visual appeal 83%<br>2. Hearing appeal 11%<br>3. Olfactory appeal 3.5%<br>4. Touch attraction 1.5%<br>5. Taste appeal 1%</p><p>This assessment becomes our reference to change our perspective to attract someone with a good first impression according to the percentage above. Visual attractiveness is one of the largest percentages of attractiveness, so we must change our appearance as best we can. In what way? Neatly cut our hair, dress well, smile when we first meet, wear fragrances even though the percentage of assessment is only 3.5% for human odor body.</p><p>When you dress neatly and feel comfortable, you will be more confident to make acquaintances, offer products, speak in front of many people. With a smile, like the article I wrote before, it will attract customers to smile and be happy to greet and talk to you.</p><p>More than self-confidence, you can change the neat impression according to your own version. Think about it and ask yourself, “Am I tidy? What makes my appearance more attractive?”</p><p>A president from Uncle Sam’s country once said and influenced many people there by saying things like this:</p><p>“If you want to invite someone into our struggle, first convince him that you are a sincere friend.”<br>**-Abraham Lincoln-**</p><p>There are several ways to improve the first impression of others based on experts and medical science. Important tips include:</p><p>1. On Time<br>When you have made an appointment with new friends, colleagues, consumers, your clients. Try to arrive on time and preferably early. When it’s too late, whatever excuses you say are meaningless to the person you just met. This has a negative effect on them.</p><p>2. Pay attention to tone and intonation when speaking<br>This becomes important considering the article that I discussed earlier, by following the tone and intonation of the other person. But still clear and understandable to them.</p><p>3. Search for small chats<br>While talking about serious things according to the needs of the company to be obtained. Give small talk on the sidelines of the time. For example, say where you live, what you often do in your spare time.</p><p>4. Be yourself<br>Being yourself becomes one of the important points because we can’t be the other person we want to be. This is important to our integrity going forward.</p><p>5. Confidence<br>The self-confidence that arises becomes our weapon to keep positive thinking and block whatever is being discussed by our interlocutor.</p><p>6. Keep Smiling<br>A smile is the most powerful weapon to conquer the various types of people we face. This virus transmits a positive aura that makes people smile and happy too.</p><p>Being yourself is an important key to making an important and lasting first impression and being the version you look like best at.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=f20bc5c36d3a" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[DO YOU LOVE YOURSELF? ITS SKILL TO HYPNOSIS OTHER]]></title>
            <link>https://medium.com/@nphilosophy/do-you-love-yourself-its-skill-to-hypnosis-other-15b1dcd22314?source=rss-27170cac2dc6------2</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 25 Sep 2021 01:58:08 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2021-09-25T01:59:55.288Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*THkLGR3JYASB_GEwABO4Gw.jpeg" /></figure><p>There are many ways to influence other people. Humans like someone who is similar to them, whether their hobbies, passions, television shows or favorite artists. With these similarities, many topics of conversation were discussed with enthusiasm with the interlocutor.<br>This is one technique to be able to influence both the sales technique and the ideology adopted. In this case, compatibility is needed if we are close to our customers or crush. So the science of hypnosis about this suitability is needed in everyday life.</p><p>1. Similarities<br>Theory says people prefer familiar objects to less familiar ones. And this fact will remain true, whether this resemblance lies in the area of ​​opinion, personal character, background, hobbies, or lifestyle. In that case we need to increase their dominance over us by displaying their resemblance to us in many ways. A technique for influencing the thoughts and behavior of others is to do so as closely as possible to the other person. The resemblance can be from the way of speaking, the way of expressing thoughts, the body language used. Why should we do it? The basic principle to know is that people like people who are like themselves. That’s why many people like someone who wears the same clothes, drives the same car, hangs out with people who share the same hobby. For example, Asian people living in America will be more familiar when meeting other Asian people. They even hangout together in their spare time.</p><p>If I ask, who is the person you love the most? The answer is yourself, right? There’s nothing wrong with liking yourself because most of us have our own self-love. So when we meet someone who is similar to us. “Wow, that person looks like me” with a happy smile to see him. Why to be like that? Because when other people are like us, in our minds, we are nothing to them. They will be more open because they feel they come from the same area, study at the same campus, have the same manager, the same lecture, and many more.<br>Then what if we are not from the same area, the same campus? Is it possible to have the same closeness? Of course we can, we can match verbally with the other person, in the form of:</p><p>a. The high and low tone of our voice with the other person<br>b. Pay attention to what words are often spoken<br>c. Pay attention to the position of the hands or feet<br>d. See sitting or standing position<br>e. Pay attention to the other person’s facial expressions (happy, calm, sad, or serious)<br>f. If you can, match the breathing pattern of our interlocutor</p><p>The process of forming this similarity is called the matching process until familiarity is established with each other which is known as rapport. But remember, this imitation process must have a pause. If it is too often and seems to imitate, our interlocutor does not like this equating process.<br>Rapport that has been established will open the minds of the interlocutors to be willing to exchange information with us, and the conversation will be more intense in the long term.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=15b1dcd22314" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[You can Joy With This Tips, TRY AND PROVE IT. Wherever you are in uncertain world]]></title>
            <link>https://medium.com/@nphilosophy/you-can-joy-with-this-tips-try-and-prove-it-wherever-you-are-in-uncertain-world-d94ef7a5c8a0?source=rss-27170cac2dc6------2</link>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2021 07:05:51 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2021-09-24T07:05:51.738Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*MGQt8vAfkrbug67RaJKaIA.jpeg" /></figure><p>Happiness is a gift that everyone wants. Regardless of how it exists. But true happiness itself is sometimes difficult to achieve. Given the many sufferings that occur in this world. Who doesn’t contemplate when someone we love gets sick or dies? Deep pain will happen right? The book of Joy describes true happiness in this dynamic and uncertain world.<br>The author’s experience of deep pain for a long time who someone he love was die, his personal teacher exactly. The question is, how can the writer rise from his deep sadness?<br>The author remembers the last message of his late teacher that he can give happiness to others who share the same fate as him. On the way to another city which takes 6 hours of travel, it makes you bored, right? Sharing experiences with the person sitting next to him about humor while traveling, the small joys he found, and anti-stress small talk.<br>The journey he had taken so far, was able to make him happy without being tired of feeling dizzy. He also launched several tips and ways to achieve true happiness that is obtained from his life experiences.</p><p>1. Accept suffering<br>Nelson Mandela before being appointed president of an African country. He was imprisoned for 25 years, the police aim to abort the spirit and pleasure of his life. but what happened? In fact, he has an infinity mindset that does not diminish his initial goal until he is appointed as president.</p><p>2. Seeing The Perspective<br>Believing that suffering will not last forever, this becomes one of one’s hopes to survive and live the best possible life. There is a story, a pregnant widow who is locked in a prison in pain. But he still managed to survive by hearing rumors that he would be released after World War I was over. With just a rumor gave life hope for him. The reality is heartbreaking, where after the war the captives remain in prison. The widow also died hearing the truth.</p><p>3. Bring Humor<br>Tensions between the two warring camps are difficult to defuse. There are times when Desmond (the writer) unites the two tribal chiefs from each camp. The tension of the conversation stopped after Desmond’s joking humor about the big nose and small nose. The atmosphere became broken and full of laughter at that time. With the final conclusion that there is no point in prejudice against certain groups. The problem was solved.</p><p>These three methods if applied in your life with confidence will result in a completely happy life even though the world is moving fast and uncertain. Change your life now for a better future full of happiness.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=d94ef7a5c8a0" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[HARMONIZED TO HYPNOSIS OTHER THAT YOU HAVENT HEAR BEFORE]]></title>
            <link>https://medium.com/@nphilosophy/harmonized-to-hypnosis-other-that-you-havent-hear-before-a18f297bb687?source=rss-27170cac2dc6------2</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2021 03:20:44 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2021-09-23T07:40:00.966Z</atom:updated>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*fet_jF01_k6CPJfMp-Cd6g.jpeg" /></figure><p>The science of hypnosis is important to learn as a reference for how we are close to that person, make friends or establish relationships, and even influence other people. Apart from that, hypnosis is often used as income for some people, this can be seen in various hypnosis shows on TV. This knowledge can be learned by various groups, teenagers, adults, and even the elderly. The use of this hypnosis should be done for a good cause and benefit people. Take, for example, hypnotizing a person who is afraid of heights (Acrophibia), is influenced and is in a trance. We eliminate the word fear of heights such as the subconscious affirmation “I’m brave, I’m not afraid of any heights” that can influence him to really not be afraid of heights at all. This knowledge can be learned and can be applied in everyday life.<br>So how do you apply it to your daily life? we can instruct children of their own volition without the child feeling compelled, influencing the students we teach efficiently, counseling doctors to patients so that they are calm and not panicking, offering our products to customers and he buying it right away, influencing buyers who were previously reluctant to buy into buying, influencing employees to be motivated about the work we ask, can even influence parents to buy something we want. Fun and many benefits, right? Actually there are many other examples that can be taken from this hypnosis science.<br>Then how can we influence new people we just met and didn’t even know before?<br>First we have to greet him with a smile, like a seller who offers his products and services to buyers. Then observe the speed of the tone, the movement is like putting his hand in his pants pocket, pay attention to the words he often says, for example feeling, hearing, feeling, from what he sees, or whatever it is. After the observation is complete, do the matching or match with the other person, both from movements, speech, words that are often discussed or habits. REMEMBER, do not let him know that we imitate him.<br>Following the speed of speech interlocutor becomes one of the important, because why? If we speak too fast but the listener’s tone is slow, it could be that the listener does not hear the whole conversation. If we are too slow while the other person is fast, it makes him bored. The conversation must be adapted to the interlocutor, especially the speed in speaking is an important point for making an approach.<br>Vocabulary must be chosen properly according to the interlocutor, for example when talking to college friends or academics, speak according to their character. Say something like, “According to Albert Einstein’s journal, light is a wave dualism consisting of particles and electromagnetic waves.” It will make the listener feel happy if the discussion and likes about it.<br>Harmony is also an important point. It’s not good when the boss says you did a good job but his head was ignored action. It really makes us wonder what the boss means. Harmonize what is said with body language. Like we praise someone by nodding our head, agreeing to the idea by raising our index finger to our head and saying “Good idea”. It makes our interlocutors happy with what we are talking about and closeness is established.<br>Make the science of hypnosis as a guide for everyday life to establish a good relationship with someone, sell our products until the customer is satisfied, and instruct someone well. This science is so efficient that we don’t put much effort into it.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=a18f297bb687" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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