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            <title><![CDATA[my pilates instructor told me not to trust my brain]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/my-pilates-instructor-told-me-not-to-trust-my-brain-70170603d2d1?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2560/1*02hZ1b_K6vkfZeeeRBew_A.png" width="2560"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">let the brain guides you on the things you wish to improve, but don&#x2019;t give it the power to dictate what you can and cannot do.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/my-pilates-instructor-told-me-not-to-trust-my-brain-70170603d2d1?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2026 01:03:13 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[how to control your thoughts]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/how-to-control-your-thoughts-d62d53dad81a?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*EOdT810tSnDAyVOMby66YA@2x.jpeg" width="4896"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">&#x201C;life come from you and not at you&#x201D;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/how-to-control-your-thoughts-d62d53dad81a?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2026 12:09:58 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[25 lessons before i turn 25]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/25-lessons-before-i-turn-25-7ee518794d2f?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/1*jMMzT0KOGdfwY66y_cZMtA@2x.jpeg" width="4896"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">personal insights i&#x2019;ve collected along the way.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/25-lessons-before-i-turn-25-7ee518794d2f?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2026 00:54:04 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[how to say sorry]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/how-to-say-sorry-35bf7b2be542?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/736/0*_RNEdPNSGe2UTbfF.jpg" width="736"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">To apologise is to confront our fears, our pride and our shame. It is an uncomfortable act. But discomfort is always a requirement for&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/how-to-say-sorry-35bf7b2be542?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2026 04:05:39 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[how to be okay with being who you are]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/how-to-be-okay-with-being-who-you-are-d969217b17f0?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/735/0*hR3qzLZhRqTPEs1T.jpg" width="735"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">the only way for you to become more is to accept that you are already enough</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/how-to-be-okay-with-being-who-you-are-d969217b17f0?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 04:54:44 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[the art of becoming less self-aware]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/the-art-of-becoming-less-self-aware-b85d6f6f765b?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/735/0*gQy0P8pMHEPTWHAe.jpg" width="735"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Self-awareness should bring you closer to your life, not pull you further away from it.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/the-art-of-becoming-less-self-aware-b85d6f6f765b?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2026 04:51:52 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[how to take care of your mind]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/how-to-take-care-of-your-mind-725040b7a5a5?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/735/0*1G0wvzP57FW7Ik_m.jpg" width="735"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">A healthy mind is one that fully returns.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/how-to-take-care-of-your-mind-725040b7a5a5?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2026 23:24:47 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[you cannot be behind in a life that is yours]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/you-cannot-be-behind-in-a-life-that-is-yours-171eb6ccf3c0?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/735/0*JHaRMAa9ANkJwlag.jpg" width="735"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">perhaps we should stop asking whether we are ahead or behind, and start asking whether the life we are moving toward actually feels like&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/you-cannot-be-behind-in-a-life-that-is-yours-171eb6ccf3c0?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2026 01:35:32 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[“to speak or to die?” “to write and to live.”]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/to-speak-or-to-die-to-write-and-to-live-25270967ab15?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/736/0*Ojj4IK0r8FzB0wsJ.jpeg" width="736"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">a little more of One Cup of Tea &#x1F375;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/to-speak-or-to-die-to-write-and-to-live-25270967ab15?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2026 03:34:04 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[you don’t have to be special to feel like you’re special]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/you-dont-have-to-be-special-to-feel-like-you-re-special-40952113c980?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/720/0*JbHQW2nzr6_m-Ums.jpg" width="720"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">there is no universal benchmark for human excellence, and there shouldn&#x2019;t be.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@onecup.oftea/you-dont-have-to-be-special-to-feel-like-you-re-special-40952113c980?source=rss-4c3341faf4cf------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2026 04:06:26 GMT</pubDate>
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