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            <title><![CDATA[How to Stop Fighting Your Emotions and Use Your Daily Thoughts Better]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/how-to-stop-fighting-your-emotions-and-use-your-daily-thoughts-better-9ca30cfb4065?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1080/1*qrs84bbSej9sYSu8aI67nQ.png" width="1080"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">I already knew we have somewhere between 60&#x2013;80,000 thoughts a day. What I didn&#x2019;t realise was that we also speak around 16,000 words a day&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/how-to-stop-fighting-your-emotions-and-use-your-daily-thoughts-better-9ca30cfb4065?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2026 10:35:37 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Learn to Eat Bitterness. Building Real Workplace Resilience]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/learn-to-eat-bitterness-building-real-workplace-resilience-2bd9a216fd7c?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1080/1*wi00HwRNjm5SFkQNsZQ80w.png" width="1080"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Matt was role-playing in a company simulation exercise, pretending to be the CEO of a wealthy Chinese heiress. The remit was to challenge&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/learn-to-eat-bitterness-building-real-workplace-resilience-2bd9a216fd7c?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2026 15:15:45 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Long Game. Beat FOBO & Build a Career That Lasts in the New World of Work]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/the-long-game-beat-fobo-build-a-career-that-lasts-in-the-new-world-of-work-dcfd8871bcdb?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/832/1*tqBF4-pwhmxShlVzbaW8mw.jpeg" width="832"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Adrian (co-author) and I weren&#x2019;t planning on writing another book after The Shift, but it became evident that another follow-up book would&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/the-long-game-beat-fobo-build-a-career-that-lasts-in-the-new-world-of-work-dcfd8871bcdb?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2026 10:40:36 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[How To Survive The Struggles Of Daily Work]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/how-to-survive-the-struggles-of-daily-work-1daee6431447?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1080/1*AZbIFj9KQ9lPtJGce7Oi5A.png" width="1080"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">I saw a friend&#x2019;s WhatsApp weekday status recently. They were excited about the upcoming weekend. The Sunday status update showed a bullet&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/how-to-survive-the-struggles-of-daily-work-1daee6431447?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2026 13:25:05 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[99.9% Of Your Fears Are Pure Fiction]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/99-9-of-your-fears-are-pure-fiction-94084ed127f8?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1080/1*Xarq_cTXffplF7jKxyugww.png" width="1080"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Most people still treat them like facts. They feed the noise, freeze, and call it caution. While AI keeps moving into every corner of work&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/99-9-of-your-fears-are-pure-fiction-94084ed127f8?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2026 17:34:11 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[What Does Mogging Mean? Collins’ 2026 Word of the Year and the Workplace Peacock Preeners]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/what-does-mogging-mean-collins-2026-word-of-the-year-and-the-workplace-peacock-preeners-c451b5e36a8f?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1080/1*F1rWaNHi5oz2oDx8NOoIoQ.png" width="1080"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Apparently, &#x201C;mogging&#x201D; has entered the Collins English Dictionary as one of the most popular words of 2026 (and its Word of the Year).</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/what-does-mogging-mean-collins-2026-word-of-the-year-and-the-workplace-peacock-preeners-c451b5e36a8f?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2026 11:11:32 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Feel Confident When Talking to Powerful People. 4 Practical Strategies]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/how-to-feel-confident-when-talking-to-powerful-people-4-practical-strategies-ebc8a9d48722?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1080/1*jBESCJZEa4OR9LsYpI5qlQ.png" width="1080"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Powerful people often look as if they own the room. But do they always &#x2018;feel&#x2019; powerful? Some are naturally confident. Others have done the&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/how-to-feel-confident-when-talking-to-powerful-people-4-practical-strategies-ebc8a9d48722?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2026 10:23:25 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why People Wear Masks at Work (And How to Drop Yours)]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/why-people-wear-masks-at-work-and-how-to-drop-yours-22133df0489a?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1080/1*fzfApUiR3zs59LA0_uL_aw.png" width="1080"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">I&#x2019;ve worked with a few people in a couple of Fortune 500 companies who were emotionally exhausting to deal with. I wouldn&#x2019;t want to get to&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@pervincoach/why-people-wear-masks-at-work-and-how-to-drop-yours-22133df0489a?source=rss-e85c667032b8------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <title><![CDATA[People-Pleasing Is Exhausting. Try This Instead]]></title>
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