How you show up transforms. Your work is (always) about more than you.

When the world is on fire, turn your practice toward more than yourself.

It’s so easy — and so common — when we use spiritual practice as part of our business decision-making to get into a habit of focusing on ourselves, our own challenges, our own hopes and desires.

But we live — our work exists — within a larger context, an arc of human experience and evolution — which we can not only witness, but we can impact.

Turn your practice to its own form of meta.

Invite the world into your prayers.

Ask from there what you can do.

Grieve.

Do not turn away.

And equally, do not set your work aside.

Rather, recognize that your work — both internal and external — is not only about you. (It’s never only about you.)

And it doesn’t only impact you.

Your work changes the world — in very real and concrete ways.

You change the world. (That is the power of how you show up.)

It’s difficult when the world needs so much.

When there is war, brutality, racism, homophobia, homelessness;

When people’s rights are being violated and taken away;

When there is so much pain and need, so much injustice;

It can feel selfish — and insignificant — to focus on yourself.

To release your own pain.

To cultivate your power and your voice.

To commit to your own wholeness — and the work that runs through you.

But it is a radical act — of service and transformation.

Because what you are untangling, we are all untangling.

What is in your way is in our way.

When you untangle it, you untangle it for all of us.

Energetically, you metabolize and transform it for all of us — both literally in the moment and in its ripple effect.

Because the energy of your presence, without it, impacts others.

You make it easier for others to metabolize and transform it.

You become a living example of what can be — and how we can be without it.

And you are able to midwife others through untangling it themselves.

Practically, you act from a very different place when you act without it: clear, empty, and in powerful integrity.

You are compelled to act.

You have the capacity to act (because you’re not distracted and derailed anymore by your own !@$%&).

And you no longer act out of fear, trauma or shame.

(Imagine a world like that.)

It begins with you.

(You cannot escape this — or skip it — by looking elsewhere. Nor would you want to.)

What you do for you (at this deep level of transformation and release) radically impacts what can be done through you.

This is an adapted excerpt from my book, This Again? Untangle the Root of What Distracts & Derails You from Your Life’s Work.

Available on Amazon as a paperback or ebook.

You might want ease and flow in untangling the root of what’s distracting and derailing you — and, most of all, as a result of untangling it.

(It might feel like it’s been way too hard for way too long — and spiritual practice and energetic alignment promise to give them to you, don’t they?)

It is true that you don’t need to be fighting to build or maintain things that are not meant for you — or in a way that is not natural for you.

(You do not need to fight with Life.)

But having ease is not the same as things being easy.

We have a cultural obsession with making things easy.

(This is a lot of why you swing the pendulum back and forth between your version of intense, focused activity and collapse-as-surrender.)

But spiritual practice doesn’t promise to make things easy.

Easy is the promise of consumer capitalism — through automation, convenience, and comfort.

Spiritual practice promises ease.

Ease is a cultivated sense of equanimity — that is rooted in an acceptance of what is.

It is not a frictionless path of change or accomplishment.

It is acceptance of the friction.

It is your capacity to navigate and engage directly with life — with relative compassion, perspective and grace.

To feel rage and shame and grief as equally intensely and gratefully as joy and love and hope.

And to be willing to feel it all and navigate it all without expectation that it should be different — and without taking it all so personally.

(You cannot spiritual practice your way out of being human.)

So, stomp, rage, grieve — and then let your expectations (that things be easy or otherwise) go.

Lay them on the altar of your practice.

Throw them in its fire.

Place them gently in the stream of Life — and let it wash over you.

Rest in the ease of (hard-won) trust.

Rest in the ease of (long-sought) truth.

Ask (the beloved of your longing) for help.

You are rooted in a deeper rhythm and sway — held in a Sacred dance with all that is.

(You are not forgotten.)

This is an excerpt from my book, This Again? Untangle the Root of What Distracts & Derails You from Your Life’s Work to be published September 21.

There is a space for you in a 6-week Intensive or a 6-month Mentorship — to untangle the root of what’s distracting and derailing you and find ease in doing the work you really want to do how you want to do it. You can click here to learn more.

Or schedule a 15-minute practice together to get clear on what’s at the root of it for you and how you can untangle it — to (finally) do the work you know you’re here to do and lead the way you know you’re here to lead. (I’d love to talk to you!)

As you untangle the root of what distracts and derails you, you will experience some shifts as fast and some shifts as slow.

(That might both frustrate and surprise you.)

Why?

If you will untangle your karma by interrupting time, why isn’t its impact instantaneous?

Why can it feel like it’s taking you such an extraordinarily long time to do the work that you really want to do?

And why does it seem to be taking you longer than others?

(You’ve been at this a long time already, after all.)

Time will feel like it works differently — because you will begin to understand and experience it as it actually is (and as you actually are).

Time is a vibration — an expression of the sacred force of creation itself — that we experience as a measure of our embodied experience.

(To be embodied, to be manifest, is to be conditioned within time.)

The cosmic dance of creation, sustenance and dissolution (of which you are only a part) operates outside of time — and over eons of time unfathomable to us.

(The potential for every single thing — and the memory of every single thing — is present in every single moment.)

The timing of this cosmic dance is not your timing.

(It operates by a different measure — of both instants and eons.)

And frustratingly, that timing can make little sense to you — especially if you’re “doing the work.”

Because when you act, you naturally expect a result.

And you expect it within your experience of time.

Popular messaging around (and obsession with) “manifesting” does little to dissuade you of this — and quite a good deal to encourage you that if it doesn’t work for you this way, something is (spiritually and energetically) amiss.

You are inundated with cultural messages that it’s supposed to be quick — and it’s supposed to be easy — if you’re aligned (energetically, emotionally, strategically).

You’re sold spiritual practice as a hack for material gain.

You’re told you can make a formula out of it. (There’s no formula.)

And you are equally inundated with messages that there is something wrong if things are not happening at lightning speed — or God forbid, you don’t want them to.

(You’re not ready. You’re in your own way. You’re . . . whatever deficit our hyper-individualistic and growth-obsessed culture is selling you.)

For example, in 2012, there was a popular (and dangerous) trope that “the Universe likes speed.”

The source of all — that universal field of potentiality from which everything arises and everything returns — is beyond space and time. It is timeless — and it is time itself.

It has the capacity for speed. (It has the capacity for immediacy.)

But, like speed — as in prefer and reward speedy action by you?

Reward you immediately with what you want if your actions are aligned and in integrity?

(And keep you wondering where you’ve gone wrong if it doesn’t?)

That’s some consumer capitalist bullshit.

And it is spiritual abuse.

It projects both human-centric preference and a human experience of time onto the Sacred — and claims that’s how it operates.

(How convenient when you have a “fast action discount” on your offer to teach me how to manifest.)

It presupposes that everything operates the same way — on the same timing — and that you can reduce it to a formula that you apply — and you will receive a result (the result that you want).

This process — and the reality — is the exact opposite of that.

Untangling the root of what distracts and derails you asks you to exchange your timing for the rhythm and flow of Sacred timing.

It asks you to understand that your actions are not what ultimately creates you a result — and that the results that you will receive from your actions are neither linear nor guaranteed.

(Which is a hard truth to accept — and a harder one to live — in a culture obsessed with speed and an economy untethered from any natural cycle.)

Likewise, the moment you reduce your spiritual practice, your life and your body of work to a formula, what you experience will change.

And you will no longer receive your anticipated and desired result.

Because what you’re longing for — what’s calling you (even through your work) — is not about that specific, material result.

It’s about your liberation.

It’s about your wholeness.

And it’s about the integrity of the work that wants to come through you — from that.

It’s about you finally laying down the burden of what you’ve been carrying — and stepping outside of the tangle of the karmic knot in which you’ve been bound.

(Any, ANY, material result is a by-product and in support of that.)

This will flip the object of your longing — from focusing on the material result to focusing on your journey to your Self, knowing that they are not separate.

And it will open the way for a different material result — beyond what you can let yourself imagine.

That is in full integrity — with that.

But it will likely feel perplexingly fast or slow in doing that.

In my experience, what you will experience as fast, and what you will experience as slow, is proportional to how attached you are to what you want.

(You knew I was going to say that, didn’t you?)

It’s proportional to how much karma what you want requires you to untangle — and whether what (you think) you want will satisfy you deeper, root-source desire.

(Your Self and the Sacred will seek to satisfy your root-source desire — and they will keep you from being distracted from it with shiny material objects and accomplishments.)

And (this is a big one) it is proportional to whether you’re being taught something that you would not learn if your conscious desire were fulfilled sooner (or via a different route).

If you feel like it’s taking you a long time to untangle the root of what distracts and derails you, you haven’t done it wrong.

You’re not missing something.

Something else is being asked of you.

Your path is a different one (that is not commonly tread and not commonly reflected).

When you are where you are, your dance with the Sacred is teaching you the rare and the uncommon.

Trust. Surrender.

Emptiness. Detachment.

Deep, deep listening — and action only in truth.

These are not concepts.

They are embodied ways of being — to act and to allow your work to come through you, in rhythm with the Sacred.

And it will appear and feel counterintuitive to the pressures and messaging of our economy (and the components of success itself).

Because (really hear me on this) how fast or slow it will feel to you is also proportional to how closely what you’re creating aligns with existing, well-tread social and economic structures.

Whether you can untangle what’s distracting and derailing you within those structures.

And how much the work that wants to come through you transforms those structures — or gives birth to something entirely different.

It is not that the Sacred cannot operate outside these structures — or open up an entirely new way. (It can and it does.)

It’s that our existing, well-tread social and economic structures are powerful collective karmic patterns — with their own force and momentum.

You can think about it like two rivers flowing: the river of our socio-economic systems and structures and the river of the pulse of the Sacred.

If you are in the flow of both, the current appears to move swiftly — and the gains are visible and material (because they match the conditions of our existing socio-economic flow).

If you are in the flow of the Sacred, and that flow is pushing against or redirecting the flow of our socio-economic systems, the current appears to move slowly — and the gains (at first) are invisible and non-material.

Because they do not meet existing conditions of socio-economic flow. (Instead, they likely meet resistance from it.)

And because more work is being done under the surface — energetically — in preparation for material socio-economic change.

(To me, this is the source and strength of your leadership.)

This is a condensed excerpt from my upcoming book, This Again? Untangle the Root of What Distracts & Derails You from Your Leadership & Life’s Work to be published September 21.

What’s your experience? What you find surprisingly fast and what do you find excruciatingly slow? Does this perspective help?

(You can learn more about This Again? and pre-order a signed copy here through Friday).

What you are untangling, we’re all untangling.

What is in your way is in our way.

When you untangle it, you untangle it for all of us.

(Which is why, while it might feel selfish — and insignificant — when the world needs so much, it is a radical act — of service and transformation.)

Energetically, you metabolize and transform it for all of us — both literally in the moment and in its ripple effect, because the energy of your presence, without it, impacts others.

You make it easier for others to metabolize and transform it.

You become a lived example of what can be, how we can be.

And you are able to midwife others through it.

Practically, you act from a very different place when you act without it: clear, empty, and in powerful integrity.

You are compelled to act.

You have the capacity to act (because you’re not distracted and derailed anymore by your own !@$%&).

And you no longer act out of fear, trauma or shame.

(Imagine a world like that.)

It begins with you. (You cannot escape this — or skip it — by looking elsewhere. Nor would you want to.)

What you do for you (at this deep level of transformation and release) radically impacts what can be done through you.

This is a condensed excerpt from my upcoming book, This Again? Untangle the Root of What Distracts & Derails You from Your Leadership & Life’s Work.

(It is on track to be published September 21! Advanced, signed copies to ship September 13.)

You can learn more and pre-order a signed copy here (through September 7).

You can choose to reclaim it.

The root of what distracts and derails you from your life’s work is bound up with our collective karmic knot of capitalism.

It is woven of the same threads — knotted in the same places.

An innate and wise part of you is left out of capitalism.

By design.

It was excised at the beginning.

(And its absence is being intensified and amplified by technology, the gig economy, and AI reducing the cost of labor — and now intellect and creativity — to zero.)

It is this separation — this casting out of part of you — that you are feeling.

It is this separation that creates your longing.

And it is this separation that untangling the root of what distracts and derails you — to reclaim the Sacred — will weave back together.

Untangling the root of what distracts and derails you inevitably asks you to:

See the braids of our collective karmic knot for what they are.

Tell the truth about how they ensnare you.

And choose to release rather than perpetuate them.

The price will likely feel high (and the task itself perhaps impossible).

It was for much of its history — and for women, black and indigenous people in particular — literally death.

The fear and the force is real.

You’re not spiritually (or strategically) deficient for feeling it and its momentum — or the potential consequences.

And it is not the only reality at play.

There is a deeper force, momentum and sway.

A deeper truth.

A Sacred truth — of a different way of doing and being.

That the root of what distracts and derails you is pointing you toward.

(You can choose to reclaim that.)

This is a condensed excerpt from my upcoming book, This Again? Untangle the Root of What Distracts & Derails You from Your Leadership & Life’s Work.

You can learn more and pre-order a signed copy here (through September 7).

Friday’s workshop, Reclaim the Sacred (in Your Unlikely Profession), is cancelled — for a spacious August for everyone and focused editing time for me.

This Again? is on track to be published September 21! (Advanced, signed copies to ship September 13. Pre-order yours.)

Our paradigm here in the West is only one way of doing things.

It is constructed.

It evolved over a millennium — with a great deal of intention and force.

But it feels to us like the only way of doing it.

Capitalism — with its braid of colonialism, white supremacy and patriarchy and its worship of productivity, efficiency and profit — is the densest collective karmic knot we are untangling.

(It lies at the root of Western culture — and it ensnares everything.)

Two things were eliminated from the economy — and culturally denigrated and vilified — in Europe’s transition to capitalism (1500–1700):

The body. And the Sacred.

A split was created, reinforced and codified.

Between the body and the mind, the material and the sacred.

And between women and men, non-white and white — physically, socially, legally and financially.

The mind was elevated above all else.

It was granted the attributes of will and reason.

And those, made sacrosanct, replaced the Sacred and ruled over the body.

The body was regulated into an ideal for production and profit — that had (and has) no relationship with any natural cycle or bodily capacity.

And the Sacred was eradicated — together with the women who were the keepers of its wisdom.

This happened over time — and at the same time.

Until the norms, the values — and the separation — were so effectively internalized, perpetuated and reinforced — individually and collectively — that:

You value the left-brain, logical, scientific and strategic parts of yourself and your work.

And you devalue the right-brain, intuitive, creative and sacred parts of yourself and your work — without even thinking about it.

You are willing to charge (and willing to pay) high fees for left-brained, logical and strategic skill sets.

You hold them in high esteem — with respect, admiration and aspiration.

You understand your identity through them — and your success and value.

You are willing to charge (and expect to pay) lower fees for right-brain, creative, intuitive and healing skill sets.

You might wonder if anyone will pay you for them at all — or if you can or should charge for them (or a premium for both).

You hesitate to bring them forward in your work — for fear you will no longer be seen or respected for your left-brained, logical and strategic skill sets.

You denigrate them — even if inadvertently — referring to them as woo-woo, or judging them less serious and less rigorous than their logical, strategic counterparts (even when engaged in by you).

They remain suspect, regardless of their effectiveness.

You choose to invest and focus on an identifiable, logical and strategic solution (usually the same one you’ve reached for again and again).

You likely even make that investment (or lack of investment) the impediment to the creation, visibility or success of your body of work.

Rather than invest in cultivating your own presence, trusting your own wisdom, and reclaiming your own wholeness (let alone the sacred knowledge stolen from you).

You equate your productivity with the path to wealth, success — and your own worth.

You chide yourself for — and are constantly anxious about — not being more productive.

You negate the needs of your body for your perceived need to be productive (and fear either failure or survival or both if you were to work according to your body’s needs).

You feel like you need to pigeonhole your work — rather than integrate your diverse interests or pursue your multiple passions.

And if you do pursue your multiple passions, you keep them separate from each other, without seeking out the relationship between them and the thread that weaves them into a cogent whole, more powerful than their parts.

When you have tried, others have struggled to understand.

Which reinforced your not feeling seen.

And your questioning of the value of the work you really want to do.

But you feel the pain of the loss.

In the sense of wrongness and unruliness of your body’s needs.

In the lack of space for perimenopause — or the cyclic rhythm of menstruation.

Or food.

Or sleep.

In burnout — and busyness (that keeps you running from the work you really want to do).

In doubt and shame about the value of the work you really want to do — and the effectiveness of how you really want to do it.

In denial — and delay — of your own desires, your own brilliance, and your own wisdom.

And in longing . . . that is visceral and unnamed.

(Reclaim it with me on August 23. Details below.)

This is a condensed excerpt from my upcoming book, This Again? Untangle the Root of What Distracts & Derails You from Your Leadership & Life’s Work, where I trace this history of capitalism in more detail.

You can learn more and pre-order a signed copy here.

Source: Silvia Federici, Caliban and the Witch: Women, the Body and Primitive Accumulation (Autonomedia, 2014), 92–101, 135–142, 148–155.

Reclaim the Sacred (in Your Unlikely Profession)

Friday, August 23 at 3 ET

In this live, 2-hour workshop, you will:

• name the one thing at the root of why you hesitate to fully embrace the Sacred (especially in an unlikely profession);
• get clear on how that one thing distracts and derails you from doing the work you really want to do — and how to untangle and reintegrate it;
• learn 8 ways to reclaim the Sacred (even in an unlikely profession) to do the work you really want to do — and step into your natural capacity to lead;
• practice a simple, one-syllable Sanskrit mantra (no one will hear you chant) to get clear on the most potent and natural way for you to reclaim the Sacred (in your unlikely profession);
• receive my insight + guidance (if you choose to volunteer) at the workshop and via Voxer through August 30th.

Yes! There will be a recording.
(Feel free to register even if you cannot make it live.)

$250. Click here to register.

Can we talk about wholeness?

I help professional women lead from wholeness.

It sounds hokey.

And vague.

And too simple.

(Plus when I started doing this work in 2011, it wasn’t considered “effective” as a value proposition. “People don’t walk around thinking they want wholeness; they want a solution to a specific problem.”)

But that’s where it started — my own desire for professional wholeness.

My own pursuit of running a law practice from wholeness.

And, isn’t that what we all want, really?

Wholeness.

(We do walk around feeling a longing for wholeness.)

Our economy and our culture have split us in (at least) half:

right- and left- brain

masculine and feminine

strategic and sacred

But we — we are both.

And that fundamental integrity was stolen from us.

There is historical evidence of this explicit split in Western culture during the transition from feudalism to capitalism in Europe (from 1500–1800): the Age of Reason; the 200-year persecution of witches (200 years!); the enslavement and sale of African peoples; and the colonization of the Americas.

If capitalism didn’t require it, as some historians argue, it did exploit it.

(You didn’t know that I majored in European history, did you?)

I believe that your longing — visceral, persistent and unnamed — is to reclaim what was stolen.

And to weave back together what you know to be a false divide with you (and your profession).

It has the power to transform your business and your life — our culture and our economy.

And it’s time.

(You are poised — and you are called — to lead in this way. I see you.)

Reclaiming the Sacred is your path to doing the work you really want to do how you really want to do it — without sacrificing professional respect or financial stability — and stepping into your natural capacity to lead.

Reclaiming the Sacred is how you will create a potent (and profitable)new body of work that:

• integrates all of your experience, training, and expertise — with your depth, passion and brilliance;
• creates both a deep and highly-sought-after transformational experience — and profound, concrete results; and
• uniquely positions you as a leader of holistic change in your profession.

Reclaiming the Sacred is how we untangle, heal and evolve 800 years of socio-economic history.

Join me on Friday, August 23 to reclaim the Sacred in your unlikely profession — to do the work you really want to do and step into your natural capacity to lead.

All the details are below.

Friday, August 23 at 3 ET

Reclaim the Sacred (in Your Unlikely Profession)

In this live, 2-hour workshop, you will:

• name the one thing at the root of why you hesitate to fully embrace the Sacred (especially in an unlikely profession);
• get clear on how that one thing distracts and derails you from doing the work you really want to do — and how to untangle and reintegrate it;
• learn 8 ways to reclaim the Sacred (even in an unlikely profession)to do the work you really want to do — and step into your natural capacity to lead;
• practice a simple, one-syllable Sanskrit mantra (no one will hear you chant) to get clear on the most potent and natural way for youto reclaim the Sacred (in your unlikely profession);
• receive my insight + guidance (if you choose to volunteer) at the workshop and via Voxer through August 30th.

Yes! There will be a recording.
(Feel free to register even if you cannot make it live.)

$250. Click here to register.

When I was in law school, I had a psychologist who periodically would say to me, “Well, you’re a special case.”

And, of course, he meant the exact opposite, pointing out the absurdity that everyone around me was worthy of grace, forgiveness, whatever, but not me.

I was a special case (in all of humanity).

I say it to my clients, in choice moments, when their minds won’t allow them the possibility of untangling from the knot they find themselves in.

Well, you’re a special case.

It’s possible for everyone else, but not for you. (You’re a special case.)

Every single one of them laughs. Because we all know how absurd it is.

And in that moment, the possibility opens up.

So, if you’re thinking, “I am going to be the only one, again, for whom these practices don’t work. One more thing that doesn’t work for me . . .”

That could be — because, clearly, you are a special case.

(You’re not.)

Come try it for yourself with me live, next Friday, July 19.

All the details are below.

Friday, July 19 at 3:30 ET | Untangle the Root of What Distracts + Derails You

Get clear on the one thing at the root of what distracts and derails you from your life’s work and leadership — and how to untangle it.

In this live, 90-minute small group, you will:

• learn why there is only one thing that’s distracting and derailing you — and why your current practices won’t untangle it;
• practice a simple, one-syllable Sanskrit mantra (no one will hear you chant) to get clear what that one thing is for you — and begin to untangle it;
• receive my insight + guidance on how to best untangle that one thing for you (if you choose to volunteer)

NOTE: This experience is live, and there will not be a recording.

$108.

Click here to register.

If you are wanting to untangle it fully (gently and swiftly — in exactly the right way for you), there is a space for you in a focused Intensive or a fully-supported Mentorship.

Click here for more information. I’d love to talk to you!

You don’t know if — and how — it will work out.

(You cannot possibly. You’re not there yet.)

And you don’t actually need to believe it will work out.

It is so ubiquitous to be told that you are not experiencing the results you want because you don’t believe they are possible — and to “change what you believe” because you need to believe it first.

No.

You don’t need to believe anything.

You can absolutely not know whether it’s going to work out.

You can even not believe it will.

Do not torture yourself trying to make yourself believe it will work out.

You don’t need to.

The act of saying that you don’t know opens the possibility of it working out.

The act of laying down your own insistence that it works out opens the possibility of it working out.

And the honesty of admitting that you don’t believe it — that you might never believe it — and that you don’t have to — brings profound, soul-sighing relief.

(You don’t need to hold up that artifice.)

The practice of mantra — and the Sacred — doesn’t need you to believe in order to give you what you want.

Your belief does not give breath to Sacred action.

The Sacred is the force of creative power — for anything, at any moment.

It has its own inherent wisdom.

You — and your wisdom — are a part of that (not the other way around, which so many popular practices wittingly or unwittingly confuse).

You hold — and you see — and you understand only a part of that wisdom at any given moment (or at all).

And the wisdom you hold, you receive from it.

(The longing you hold, you also received from it. Why would it not fulfill it — when it’s dancing with itself?)

You don’t even need to believe it will work out to receive it when it does, however it does.

(Tell yourself the truth: How much time have you spent trying to convince yourself to believe it — to trust that it’s going to happen and to expand your capacity to receive it?)

You don’t need to. Why?

Because when it does happen, however it happens, you’ll have proof.

All you have to do — and this is your practice then — is meet it in the moment.

Open to it in the moment.

Stand and face how confronting it is.

Say, “Yes,” and, “Thank you,” and “This fucking terrifies me, what do I do now? I spent so many years longing. What is this new reality?”

That is a practice for your new reality — in that moment.

Believing it or not believing it won’t do a thing for you — now or then.

Believing it will not will it into existence.

Read that again.

(Can you feel how strained the energy is in that — working to will it into existence? It’s like being constipated.)

And (I want you to really hear this) not believing it will not prevent it from happening.

You can stop believing that you need to believe it.

(You are not the force of creation.)

You can say, “I don’t really believe that it’s going to work out (how is it even fucking possible?!), and I want it.”

“This is what I know to be true. This is who I am. This is what I’m called to do. That’s all I know.”

Because that is all you need to know.

You do not need to trust that it will work out.

You only need to trust what you know, right now.

There is a space for you in a focused Intensive or a fully-supported Mentorship — to cultivate this trust in what you know as the way your work wants to come through you.

Message me here for more information.

When we work together 1:1, we untangle the root of what distracts and derails you — by rooting into what is true right now.

And my clients experience miraculous results in every aspect of their businesses and their lives.

No joke. (You actually don’t have to believe it. Just stay curious.)

I will tell you what I tell my clients.

I cannot tell you that you will get rid of it — that you will untangle that one thing at the root of what distracts and disrails you and then you will never experience it again. Ever.

I don’t know.

I can tell you that you will shorten the time you experience it — and the time that it takes you to metabolize it.

You will shift if — and for how long — it brings you to your knees.

And you will greatly increase your capacity to use it for what you are here to create and who you are here to be.

You will become adept at discerning what wants your attention, what wisdom it has — and what is stale and empty, like an echo of a habit that just wants to be picked up again.

You will develop a sense — and a practice — of witnessing it, so that you are observing it — and not identifying with it.

“Huh, there that is again. Interesting.”

(That alone will set you free.)

I will also tell you that it can have a miraculous impact.

And that it has had a miraculous impact on both me and my clients.

You can be free of patterns and experiences that you’d thought you’d have to experience your entire life.

You can experience shifts in intractable relationships and surprising resolutions to seemingly insurmountable situations.

You can experience what you will call a miracle. (Truly.)

My clients consistently experience concrete and miraculous results — in ways that they would never have let themselves imagine.

They belong to themselves.

They shift seemingly intractable situations — including in intimate relationships.

They finally do the work they really want to do — how they really want to do it.

They step into their natural capacity to lead holistic (and much needed) change in their professions.

You can anticipate that you can and will experience — and will do — the same.

What you personally will experience — how and when — is specific to you.

You will follow exactly what you need, exactly when you need it — in exactly the way you need it.

That’s exactly as it should be. As it needs to be.

You are learning to source your own wisdom for yourself — with sharp clarity and profound trust.

You are learning to listen to the subtle energy of the Sacred — for what you know and for what you need — in any moment and situation.

And you are learning to metabolize, use and release everything else — fear, shame, anger, confusion, procrastination, all of it.

(When we work together, I am midwifing your return to this sacred knowing.)

Once you learn this, once things shift, you will not lose it, because it will be in you.

Clarity will be in you.

Truth will be in you.

You will know what to do with fear.

You will know what to do with shame.

And you will be able to put that to use for anything.

You will show up as YOU.

Your work will deepen and evolve — to move in the world with clarity and power.

You will be fearless, satisfied — and fully alive.

Leading how you are here to lead — by being exactly who you are here to be.

There is a space for you in a focused Intensive or a fully-supported Mentorship. Click here for more information.