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            <title><![CDATA[Being a Good Person Doesn’t Mean You’re Good at Treating People Well]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@saikikeshi/being-a-good-person-doesnt-mean-you-re-good-at-treating-people-well-344ef161e3e9?source=rss-58222712c8ee------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1200/1*rql3pnNTDDizCnKbPkeS8w@2x.jpeg" width="1200"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Emotional maturity begins when we stop using our intentions to excuse the impact of our behavior</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@saikikeshi/being-a-good-person-doesnt-mean-you-re-good-at-treating-people-well-344ef161e3e9?source=rss-58222712c8ee------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <title><![CDATA[People Will Keep Treating You Like Someone You’ve Already Outgrown]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2026 14:50:15 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Nobody Warns You That You’ll Have to Grieve People Who Are Still Alive]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@saikikeshi/nobody-warns-you-that-youll-have-to-grieve-people-who-are-still-alive-eae6aa93c476?source=rss-58222712c8ee------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/600/1*hyxWsgUwUcApGkWF_oo_Fw@2x.jpeg" width="600"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Some people don&#x2019;t leave your life. They just slowly stop being part of it</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@saikikeshi/nobody-warns-you-that-youll-have-to-grieve-people-who-are-still-alive-eae6aa93c476?source=rss-58222712c8ee------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2026 15:09:12 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Sometimes, People Love You but Still Don’t Know How to Love You]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@saikikeshi/sometimes-people-love-you-but-still-dont-know-how-to-love-you-cbc2596ef510?source=rss-58222712c8ee------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1200/1*euFVEqWiu533NclSfNpxtQ@2x.jpeg" width="1200"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">On good intentions, emotional responsibility, and why caring about someone isn&#x2019;t always the same as knowing how to love them</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@saikikeshi/sometimes-people-love-you-but-still-dont-know-how-to-love-you-cbc2596ef510?source=rss-58222712c8ee------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 13:51:22 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[What If You’re Not Falling Behind, but Just Tired of Racing?]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@saikikeshi/what-if-youre-not-falling-behind-but-just-tired-of-racing-e3817634c186?source=rss-58222712c8ee------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1080/1*cFxmFOpL0M4MkbVMziyQDQ@2x.jpeg" width="1080"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Somewhere along the way, we started treating life like a race we never agreed to join</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@saikikeshi/what-if-youre-not-falling-behind-but-just-tired-of-racing-e3817634c186?source=rss-58222712c8ee------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <title><![CDATA[You Can Love Someone Deeply and Still Not Know How to Love Them Well]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2026 12:55:08 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Nobody Told Us Adulthood Would Be This Much of a Guess.]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2026 14:33:41 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Perhaps, To Love Someone Is to Keep Meeting Them as They Change.]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@saikikeshi/perhaps-to-love-someone-is-to-keep-meeting-them-as-they-change-167b5999cb53?source=rss-58222712c8ee------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/600/1*1zPYUiG2UrZai8wlvW8FHw@2x.jpeg" width="600"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">What happens when neither person stays exactly the same</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@saikikeshi/perhaps-to-love-someone-is-to-keep-meeting-them-as-they-change-167b5999cb53?source=rss-58222712c8ee------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2026 13:48:00 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Perhaps Growing Up Is Just Learning to Disappoint Your Younger Self]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2026 13:43:35 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Perhaps, We Are All Ships of Theseus.]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2026 13:49:46 GMT</pubDate>
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