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            <title><![CDATA[We Grew Up in the Same Home — We Did Not Have the Same Outcome]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/we-grew-up-in-the-same-home-we-did-not-have-the-same-outcome-c2c75725f761?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/0*7_6zqgCNlYX9MSPC" width="4608"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">My brother and I lived through the same childhood trauma, but it followed us down very different paths.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/we-grew-up-in-the-same-home-we-did-not-have-the-same-outcome-c2c75725f761?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2">Continue reading on Know Thyself, Heal Thyself »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2026 18:06:01 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[When Love Comes in Breadcrumbs]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/catharsis-chronicles/when-love-comes-in-breadcrumbs-accdcd81c053?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1672/1*B6idNUCs8Sdh2sD2TywKEQ.png" width="1672"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">I spent years trying to understand people who hurt me. Now I am trying to understand why I kept reaching back.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/catharsis-chronicles/when-love-comes-in-breadcrumbs-accdcd81c053?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2">Continue reading on Catharsis Chronicles »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2026 02:01:47 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Thought No One Would Come]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/hope-healing-and-humour/i-thought-no-one-would-come-4667db66358d?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1672/1*PsyazEvIX6Aoh4EZl9nIMw.png" width="1672"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Two years later, I can see that the night I expected to feel invisible was one of the first signs I had finally found where I belonged.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/hope-healing-and-humour/i-thought-no-one-would-come-4667db66358d?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2">Continue reading on Hope, Healing, and Humour »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2026 06:39:04 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Six Organs Gone. Am I Still a Woman?]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/illumination/six-organs-gone-am-i-still-a-woman-2cfbe48bf6c0?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1536/1*sWprYCzkvRmkOOUmKE6lTg.png" width="1536"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">My body changed again. My identity had to catch up.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/illumination/six-organs-gone-am-i-still-a-woman-2cfbe48bf6c0?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2">Continue reading on ILLUMINATION »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2026 14:48:01 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Distance Between Longing and Belonging]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/middle-pause/the-distance-between-longing-and-belonging-6b5115218a2f?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1536/1*7xiW4g3B4LXppenyB1-eDg.png" width="1536"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">COVID taught me how to stay connected from a distance. I&#x2019;m still learning how to feel close again.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/middle-pause/the-distance-between-longing-and-belonging-6b5115218a2f?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2">Continue reading on Middle-Pause »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2026 19:33:54 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Wasn’t Just Trying to Prepare. I Was Trying to Feel Safe]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/dancing-elephants-press/i-wasnt-just-trying-to-prepare-i-was-trying-to-feel-safe-1812320c5260?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1672/1*9WbReynFz2XHOAL5aiTgsg.png" width="1672"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">One unfinished school schedule sent me into a weeklong shutdown and taught me something about my need for control.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/dancing-elephants-press/i-wasnt-just-trying-to-prepare-i-was-trying-to-feel-safe-1812320c5260?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2">Continue reading on Dancing Elephants Press »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2026 14:04:27 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[When Everything Went Wrong at Grammy’s House]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/hope-healing-and-humour/when-everything-went-wrong-at-grammys-house-2e401588b4be?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1672/1*noc4w7Ela6NZfeUPc8NOtQ@2x.jpeg" width="1672"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Our carefully planned visit disappeared, but something more meaningful took its place.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/hope-healing-and-humour/when-everything-went-wrong-at-grammys-house-2e401588b4be?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2">Continue reading on Hope, Healing, and Humour »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2026 04:16:40 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Is AI Really So Different From Sliced Bread?]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/dancing-elephants-press/is-ai-really-so-different-from-sliced-bread-d5ad813e9dc0?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1672/1*jIi7c-iX2FKFyRjOndjTwQ.png" width="1672"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">We have always embraced inventions that make life easier. The question is what we give up when convenience starts doing the thinking for&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/dancing-elephants-press/is-ai-really-so-different-from-sliced-bread-d5ad813e9dc0?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2">Continue reading on Dancing Elephants Press »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2026 17:24:47 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Wanted to Quit When My Teaching Assignment Changed]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/hope-healing-and-humour/i-wanted-to-quit-when-my-teaching-assignment-changed-cbdd49acabf6?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1672/1*r2MNMyrfuzb6KiCDHNBzLg.png" width="1672"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">After the shock wore off, I realized I could not control the decision, but I could control what I chose to notice.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/hope-healing-and-humour/i-wanted-to-quit-when-my-teaching-assignment-changed-cbdd49acabf6?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2">Continue reading on Hope, Healing, and Humour »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2026 01:45:05 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[It’s 12 AM, Put on Your Mask]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/modern-women/its-12-am-put-on-your-mask-eda6b71e7c83?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1448/1*-3XnAKsnxgPL5yr0P-hAxg.png" width="1448"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">A Mama&#x2019;s Midnight Vigil</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/modern-women/its-12-am-put-on-your-mask-eda6b71e7c83?source=rss-895d9b68cb16------2">Continue reading on Modern Women »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Shayla Renae ]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2026 22:38:46 GMT</pubDate>
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