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            <title><![CDATA[For All Mine]]></title>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Good Parent]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2026 12:01:00 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Tending the Fire]]></title>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Stay Whole in the Ruins]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2026 06:03:21 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Water Logic]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 01:15:28 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Lent at the Bedside]]></title>
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            <title><![CDATA[Humor as an Expression of Hope]]></title>
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