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            <title><![CDATA[Choosing the Best App to Support Your Mental Health]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Tara Well, PhD]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2023 21:57:10 GMT</pubDate>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/500/1*lY4Zr23Dokxo5CERvHJkaQ.jpeg" /></figure><p>More people are turning to apps to help manage stress than ever before. How do you choose the best one? Our negative beliefs can be a significant source of stress. Our stories about life events often hold these negative thought patterns in place. If you find yourself stuck in a story, consider trying an app like <a href="https://www.neome.info/">Neome</a> that uses the principles of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to identify key negative beliefs in typical scenarios that may hold you back from feeling calm and confident while you achieve your daily goals.</p><p>Hypothetical scenarios in the <a href="https://www.neome.info/">Neome</a> app are a powerful tool for helping you overcome negative beliefs and emotions by providing a safe and structured way to explore and reframe your thoughts and feelings.</p><p>The scenarios can guide you through challenging and reframing negative thoughts. The researchers at <a href="https://www.neome.info/">Neome</a> use a unique technique called <strong><em>affirmative refactoring</em>,</strong> which is a method for rewriting limiting beliefs. It combines elements of CBT with a unique way of accessing unconscious thought patterns.</p><h3><strong>Six Key Steps of Affirmative Refactoring</strong>:</h3><h4>1. Problem articulation</h4><p>This stage involves thinking about and verbalizing the problem. You take the time to articulate the essence of the situation clearly.</p><h4><strong>2. Transforming the problem into an ideal resolution</strong></h4><p>You set a specific goal and create a perfect scenario for how you want the problem resolved.</p><h4>3. Taking responsibility for solving the problem</h4><p>You activate your internal locus of control and take responsibility for solving your problem.</p><h4>4. Looking for an internal cause and hidden benefit</h4><p>Using an analytic approach, you are guided to find the inner cause of your problem and the hidden benefit you derive from its existence.</p><h4>5. Discovering the underlying belief</h4><p>You are guided to discover the belief underlying the problem and articulate it clearly.</p><h4>6. Working with the belief</h4><p>The most essential stage involves changing the belief through a unique transformation text that combines the techniques of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and systematic desensitization. At this stage, you play the transformational text aloud. Listening to the text activates the process of forming new neural connections and weakening older connections.</p><p>This magical process underlies the transformation of limiting beliefs into positive thinking, self-confidence, and personal freedom. If you have negative beliefs that are holding you back, you can use the <a href="https://www.neome.info/">Neome</a> app to transform them.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=fb0a142a4447" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Transforming Negative Beliefs: The Power of Mental Health Apps]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 05 Nov 2023 04:31:56 GMT</pubDate>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1000/1*JScHEsPNB730Q4n08bn7NA.jpeg" /></figure><h3>Hypothetical scenarios can create powerful shifts in awareness.</h3><p>In today’s fast-paced world, stress and anxiety have become commonplace. In fact, 55% of Americans report feeling stressed daily. A leading source of stress and anxiety is negative thoughts and beliefs. Negative mindsets can have a profound impact on our mental well-being and overall quality of life. Mental health apps have become increasingly popular as a way of managing stress. There are over 10,000 mental health apps in the US alone. These mental health apps have the potential to provide a low-cost and time-sufficient approach to managing life’s daily stresses.</p><p>But how do you choose a mental health app that will be most effective and best meet your needs?</p><p>The source of our negative thought patterns is often the stories that we tell about life events. If you find yourself stuck in a story, consider trying a mental health app like <a href="https://www.neome.info/">Neome</a> that uses the principles of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to identify key negative beliefs in typical scenarios that may be holding you back from feeling calm and confident while you achieve your daily goals.</p><p>Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is an evidence-based psychotherapeutic approach that is widely used and highly effective for a range of mental health conditions. Yet, the time and expense involved in one-on-one therapy sessions might not always be practical or convenient.</p><p>Hypothetical scenarios in an app like <a href="https://www.neome.info/">Neome</a> can be a powerful tool for helping people overcome negative beliefs and emotions by providing a safe and structured way to explore and reframe their thoughts and feelings.</p><p>Why are hypothetical scenarios so effective?</p><h3><strong>1. Emotional Distance</strong></h3><p>Hypothetical scenarios allow you to step back from your own personal situations and emotions. This emotional distance can make it easier to approach sensitive or distressing issues without feeling overwhelmed.</p><h3>2. Practice and Skill Development</h3><p>Scenarios provide a space for you to practice coping strategies and cognitive restructuring techniques in a controlled environment. You can experiment with different ways of thinking and reacting to hypothetical situations before applying these skills in real-life scenarios.</p><h3>3. Identification of Cognitive Distortions</h3><p>Hypothetical scenarios are designed to include common cognitive distortions (e.g., catastrophizing, overgeneralization) that contribute to negative beliefs and emotions. By recognizing these distortions within the scenarios, you can learn to identify them in their real-life experiences.</p><h3>4. Cognitive Restructuring</h3><p>The scenarios can guide you through the process of challenging and reframing negative thoughts. The researchers at <a href="https://www.neome.info/">Neome</a> use a unique technique called <em>affirmative refactoring</em>. For instance, a scenario might present a negative belief and then offer prompts to help you explore alternative, more balanced perspectives.</p><h3>5. Empathy and Perspective-Taking</h3><p>Hypothetical scenarios can encourage you to consider the perspectives and feelings of others involved in the scenario. This perspective-taking can promote empathy and help you understand that there are multiple viewpoints to consider.</p><h3>6. Stress Inoculation</h3><p>Scenarios can be designed to increase in complexity and emotional intensity gradually. This feature allows you to build resilience and tolerance to stressors over time, preparing you to handle real-life challenges more effectively.</p><h3>7. Self-Reflection</h3><p>After engaging with a scenario, you can reflect on your emotional responses, thoughts, and behaviors within that context. This self-reflection helps you gain insight into your own beliefs and emotions, facilitating your personal growth.</p><h3>8. Generalization to Real-Life Situations</h3><p>With practice in hypothetical scenarios, you can transfer the skills and insights gained to real-life situations, enabling you to better manage negative beliefs and emotions in daily life.</p><p>In summary, mental health apps that use hypothetical scenarios, like the <a href="https://www.neome.info/">Neome</a> app, offer a structured and supportive way for individuals to explore, challenge, and reframe their negative beliefs and emotions. By providing a safe and controlled environment for practicing new thought patterns and coping strategies, these scenarios can empower users to develop healthier mindsets and emotional responses.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=2d02f78c7fc6" width="1" height="1" alt=""><hr><p><a href="https://medium.com/swlh/transforming-negative-beliefs-the-power-of-mental-health-apps-2d02f78c7fc6">Transforming Negative Beliefs: The Power of Mental Health Apps</a> was originally published in <a href="https://medium.com/swlh">The Startup</a> on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Does Self-Awareness Make You More Anxious?]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://tarawell.medium.com/does-self-awareness-make-you-more-anxious-40251fa53cb2?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/600/0*qVG3rGC8Rry0f0x1" width="600"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Self-awareness seems like a good thing because it allows you to know yourself, understand your motivations, and ultimately make better&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://tarawell.medium.com/does-self-awareness-make-you-more-anxious-40251fa53cb2?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Tara Well, PhD]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Fri, 10 Mar 2023 16:02:50 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Becoming a Small Talk Expert]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://tarawell.medium.com/becoming-a-small-talk-expert-854c2b2d4afd?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/600/0*EzZyrTgndN1d448r" width="600"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Many people noticed that their social skills got a little rusty during the pandemic. In a segment of the Daily Show with Trevor Noah&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://tarawell.medium.com/becoming-a-small-talk-expert-854c2b2d4afd?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Tara Well, PhD]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Wed, 08 Mar 2023 17:01:34 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Is Keeping a Journal Hard for You? Try a Video Journal To Start a New Season]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/swlh/is-keeping-a-journal-hard-for-you-try-a-video-journal-to-a-new-season-96c95b3b8c5a?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/600/0*ei06r337fNidFAHv" width="600"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Spring is here! The first season of the year and a fresh start. How can you make the most of it? Instead of writing accomplishments and&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/swlh/is-keeping-a-journal-hard-for-you-try-a-video-journal-to-a-new-season-96c95b3b8c5a?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2">Continue reading on The Startup »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 06 Mar 2023 22:33:02 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[3 Important Reasons Why There Are Mirrors in Elevators]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://tarawell.medium.com/3-important-reasons-why-there-are-mirrors-in-elevators-ebb253aeca30?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/600/0*e9Y_xKMYatbvEAgI" width="600"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">The elevator is a modern miracle. Its invention has allowed us to build and inhabit buildings taller than our ancestors could have&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://tarawell.medium.com/3-important-reasons-why-there-are-mirrors-in-elevators-ebb253aeca30?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 06 Mar 2023 21:19:06 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why You Don’t Think Your Photos Look Like You]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://tarawell.medium.com/why-you-dont-think-your-photos-look-like-you-80a68f4ab573?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/600/0*0yulfSo_shT42KTp" width="600"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Have you ever seen a photo of yourself and thought, &#x201C;That looks nothing like me,&#x201D; but your friends and family love the picture and think&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://tarawell.medium.com/why-you-dont-think-your-photos-look-like-you-80a68f4ab573?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 06 Mar 2023 21:08:22 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Navigating Post-Pandemic Social Anxiety]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://tarawell.medium.com/navigating-post-pandemic-social-anxiety-110a5cbd8293?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1254/1*hJor7xq8LQYe5nJFT9nyZg.jpeg" width="1254"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">In the past 2 years, you&#x2019;ve changed! If you&#x2019;re feeling uneasy about in-person social events, here are some tips to find new freedom.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://tarawell.medium.com/navigating-post-pandemic-social-anxiety-110a5cbd8293?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Tara Well, PhD]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2022 21:13:15 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Mirrors and Reflections Can Help You in More Ways Than You Think]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/swlh/mirrors-and-reflections-can-help-you-in-more-ways-than-you-think-4f4559d6cdbc?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1000/1*22HmzFZIjEPffe2o9hlMMQ.jpeg" width="1000"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">In 2020, my blog in Psychology Today, &#x201C;The Clarity,&#x201D; reached over a million readers. One of my favorite topics is the science of mirrors&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/swlh/mirrors-and-reflections-can-help-you-in-more-ways-than-you-think-4f4559d6cdbc?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2">Continue reading on The Startup »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Tara Well, PhD]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2021 22:01:32 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Feel Less Lonely: Face Yourself]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/swlh/how-to-feel-less-lonely-face-yourself-36ecd3f1bf25?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2259/1*2lnwvOQoZY7z2TJ6hDI8XQ.jpeg" width="2259"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Three ways to shift your perspective on loneliness.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/swlh/how-to-feel-less-lonely-face-yourself-36ecd3f1bf25?source=rss-19bcc18dccd------2">Continue reading on The Startup »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Tara Well, PhD]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2020 20:06:42 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2020-09-30T01:53:21.736Z</atom:updated>
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