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            <title><![CDATA[How Much To Clap or Not to Clap]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/@tjgoerlitz/how-much-to-clap-or-not-to-clap-e72be3fed3ab?source=rss-b18817e2797d------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/0*dhPzWCxQtA8DPH5s" width="5743"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">The struggle is real for over-thinkers.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/@tjgoerlitz/how-much-to-clap-or-not-to-clap-e72be3fed3ab?source=rss-b18817e2797d------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2020 00:48:00 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Discovering My Input Isn’t Mandatory]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2020 02:43:39 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Inherited Poetry]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 01 May 2018 00:03:32 GMT</pubDate>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On this last day of National Poetry Month, I wanted to share the story of a poem that I inherited.</p><p>It all started with my answer to a Craigslist ad a few years ago. I was lucky enough to find a cutting table with tons of storage that was the perfect size for my art studio. When we went to pick it up, it was still full of a large selection of outdated, pastel-colored mat board. Thumbing through it was like paying a visit to the 1980s. Some of the edges were beat up and peeling. I wondered if I could even find a use for it.</p><p>The woman explained that it had belonged to her mother-in-law who was now in a nursing home and no longer needed her supplies. She had been a framer.</p><p>The daughter-in-law showed me a selection of tools and asked if I knew anyone who would be interested in buying them. I shook my head at the hodge-podge selection, not able to formulate suggestions. I offered to donate the scrap mat to the book arts center where I work. They were happy to load the boxes on top of the table we had nestled into our vehicle.</p><p>I delivered the extra scraps as promised, and over the years I’ve been able to use a considerable amount of the full size boards that came with the table. It’s come in handy for all kinds of school and craft projects. I never really went through all of it, and frankly don’t know what might be shoved to the very back of the slats that hold the materials in a vertical position. The woman had been meticulous, it was all sorted by colors, some of it was still in plastic protective wrap.</p><p>I was hardly ever going to pull it all out and investigate her selection. I was only ever interested in the table. The materials were just an extra bonus.</p><p>But last week, a long and narrow piece of yellowed paper fell away as I moved the remains of the boards around. It had the loveliest cursive handwriting that painstakingly spelled out the words to a lengthy poem. It was clearly a mock-up of a birth announcement the old framer had been designing. The backside had a stork sketched on it, (a very nerdy stork with spectacles), that was balancing a bundle in it’s beak.</p><p>It is titled, <em>Longfellow’s Appearance</em>.</p><p>I’m hardly a literary critic, and despite being friends with several poets, I rarely feel I have anything to offer by way of feedback when they share their work. All I’ve got is appreciation. Poetry is way above my pay grade.</p><p>What strikes me when I read this piece, though, is how much work and effort went into it and that in all likelihood never went any further.</p><p>For both writers and artists, the hard truth is that we often invest in projects that don’t turn into much of anything.</p><p>In fact at this very moment, I’m moving my home and studio and going through an immense amount of work that I’ve created over the years. I have a toss pile the size of a beaver dam. I’ve grown and changed enough to shed my artistic snake skin. This is a good thing.</p><p>I like to think of the framer as someone who had all kinds of important poems that were published in respected places. I like to imagine her as someone who earned a few grants or maybe a fellowship, that she had all the makings of a literary success. Then again, this could be the very first time she’s ever been published. This too, is a nice thought.</p><p>There is no name or date that I can credit this to, but I wanted to honor this woman who’ve I’ve begun to think of as my friend, the Unknown Framer. I’m a bit uncertain about the punctuation or that each line should begin with a capital letter, but I’m sharing it exactly as she wrote it, complete with her note, “Hours later,” which I find so endearing, as if she’s reaching back through space and time to tell me, “this poem took me hours.”</p><p>I think to myself<em>, I get it sister. I’m putting it out in the world for you</em>.</p><p><strong>Longfellow’s Appearance<br></strong>Author Unknown</p><p>One’s name is for a lifetime to carry,<br>So isn’t it an important task<br>For the expectant parents to tarry<br>Upon choosing baby’s title?, we ask.</p><p>The deciding factors of which to think<br>Are the approval of relatives grand,<br>And you in friendships glorious link<br>Our choice must also withstand.</p><p>Then, too, in years and years ahead<br>The name must suit the “sprout.”<br>It must not be too old or new fangled, ’tis said,<br>Or too long or hard to spell, without doubt.</p><p>We must forget old “flames” we once knew<br>Instead aim for meaning in Greek<br>And achievement of euphonic soundness pursue<br>Now, we’ve presented the qualities to seek!</p><p>Hours later —</p><p>It all seems to leave us quite cold and shaken.<br>You know you’re the ones to blame!<br>All the finest of names you’ve already taken,<br>And left for us Abigail, Horace and Adalbame.</p><p>Now if you cut us off without a cent,<br>And later baby disapproves our choice,<br>Just remember that we bewilderingly spent<br>Hours contemplating names of girls and boys.</p><p>We’re finally giving up in desperation,<br>With bloodshot eyes and wrinkled apparel,<br>To burn up the list, apply respiration,<br>And pull out this name from a barrel.</p><p>Just hope you’ll agree<br>___________________ is OK for the Ken Henry pedigree.</p><p>Date of birth ___________________________<br>Weight ____________________________<br>Height __________________________</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=8965965dd8b6" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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