The twin flame relationship is often one of the hardest to “heal.” Have you ever considered that if your relationship with yourself is not good, your relationship with your twin flame will also be troubled? In contrast, with ordinary romantic relationships, if someone is not right for you, you can easily change partners. But the challenge is how to change your relationship with yourself — can you ever truly leave yourself behind?

Sometimes, inner growth means undergoing a metamorphosis; we must become new versions of ourselves. This aligns with what you refer to as the “separation phase” of twin flames, also known as the “dark night of the soul.” In this process, you are experiencing a rebirth, where the new version of you sheds the past self. It’s not that you let go of the divine masculine; rather, they exist in a seemingly tangible form to help you truly understand what transformation means.

When the moment of reawakening for the divine feminine arrives, if you genuinely want to improve, you must undergo this pain, achieving a level of harmony that feels as though you are two entirely different people. This painful experience is akin to a snake shedding its skin — difficult and uncomfortable. Yet, after shedding, does the snake not attain a better life, becoming a more evolved version of itself and perceiving a larger truth of the world? Isn’t that worth celebrating?

Only those who are experiencing this process understand how challenging it is. Thus, I refrain from blindly glorifying this type of relationship or encouraging everyone to pursue a twin flame connection. I also disapprove of the mindset of quickly abandoning a partner for instant gratification, seeking a “soulmate.” I don’t believe these are the correct states to embrace.

While going through the separation phase, there is both sorrow and joy. Why discuss only one side? During this stage, it is common to feel one way or another. However, even if we say that twin flames are difficult to reconcile and that the divine masculine has many flaws that may cause heart-wrenching pain, deep down, you understand that everything is merely a prerequisite for our growth. If you didn’t truly care about him or love him, how could he possibly cause you pain?

It’s also crucial to realize that it is not him who inflicts harm upon you; it’s your self-destruction and the process of rebuilding yourself that leads to your rebirth and transformation. Remember, you are shedding your skin. What you seek is rebirth, not to become a mere shadow of your former self. Keep this in mind, and you will understand that there are no external forces at play; it’s not the divine masculine causing you pain, but your failure to love yourself.

Now, take a moment to reflect on how you can learn to love yourself better, what actions you should take, and what you should avoid. Deep down, you have a clear answer; it all depends on whether you have the courage to act on this realization and persist until one day you discover, “Oh, I have been reborn.” At that moment, you will find that the other person has also undergone their transformation, allowing you both to reunite and enjoy happiness again.

Thus, remember that all worries and fears are illusions; what you believe shapes your reality.

The universe loves you.

You and your other half are destined to be together.

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This time, I plan to express recent events regarding twin flames from a third-person perspective, as Egg Yolk may be in a situation similar to yours.

I see that she has been frantically searching through both the books she has read and those she hasn’t, looking for the best solutions to cope with her current circumstances.

“Have I been deceived? No, what’s scarier is self-deception.”

“Is there really someone who can accept me? He left because of my bad temper.”

“Should I go on blind dates and marry according to my mother’s wishes? That would be a form of revenge, right?”

“He no longer shares himself with me. Does he have someone else?”

“Maybe his karmic partner is his true twin flame, and they are happily united.”

“Who am I? I’ve said and done so much, but what do I really understand?”

Egg Yolk probably wakes up every morning thinking the first thing she wants to do is fall back asleep to escape this terrifying reality. The silence from the other person leaves her feeling lost.

“What should I do?” This is a question she must ponder daily.

“What does this situation really mean? God, save me.”

“Whatever I send him, he seems unwilling to respond.”

“Should I just keep quiet and wait?”

“But if I keep waiting, when will it end? I feel stuck in life.”

“Am I love-struck? Am I a naive, foolish child?”

“Do I really understand twin flames better than others? Can I still share my insights?”

“Or have they all been my fantasies from the start?”

Alright, Egg Yolk, let me help answer your questions.

I’ve looked at your recent browsing history and everything stored in your mind. You’ve read many stories shared by others about twin flames.

Some believe during separation, while others have given up after a breakup, leaving you sighing and feeling drained of energy. There are also stories that seem to resonate with your situation, analyzing that your divine masculine may simply “not know how to handle you at this moment,” which is why you’re not communicating in the three-dimensional world.

You “bought into” this information. Yes, Egg Yolk, this is what you believe.

Your ego might still try to deceive you: “Ha ha, love-struck, don’t kid yourself. Have you forgotten how your high school deskmate, your blind date, and the man you spent three years with deceived you, showing one face to you and another behind your back? They all chose someone else instead of you.”

But you’ve walked away from those stories, haven’t you? You’re still standing here, still typing.

“But how do I know this time isn’t a misunderstanding from the universe, making me feel like I was once loved?”

You’ve always known, haven’t you?

When you looked into each other’s eyes, didn’t you see each other’s hearts?

“Maybe he has no heart; he just craves my energy, hoping I bring him health and wealth.”

He’s different from everyone you’ve met.

“I feel this way about everyone at first. I suspect I’m a true narcissist, thinking everyone will fall madly in love with me.”

Egg Yolk, the “Smith” inside you (the computer program released by Neo in The Matrix) is indeed powerful.

Let me answer your questions from a whole new perspective.

This world is created by you; the probability of it being zero is impossible, right?

(I know you’ve stopped accepting that set of “healing” methods based on positive affirmations.)

So let’s hit rock bottom and bounce back!

You once believed he was another version of yourself, and you saw real feedback through spiritual connections, dream links, and so on, right?

Okay, what was your last dream about him?

“It seemed like he led a group of people against me; we were at war, and he wanted to end me.”

“But there was another dream last night that I can’t quite remember, but I was with him, not knowing what we were doing.”

You’re in pain and confusion right now.

Maybe he feels the same way.

“I’m not sure; it seems like he has nothing to be in pain about.”

“His career is on the rise, oh, so many admirers, a revered deity.”

“Sleeping side by side with his wife, supporting each other, or maybe he has other close relationships with admirers.”

Do you have to think of him as another version of yourself?

“Maybe this proves he isn’t me, so it’s natural for me to dislike him.”

If you don’t love him, why feel sad because he’s ignoring you?

“He used to belittle me and made me do things I didn’t like.”

You are an adult with the power of choice, and you didn’t do those things either, did you?

“But he has no right to…”

Haven’t you also “guided” him in that way?

“You mean, the Earth is round, and I’m reaping what I sow?”

“But I did help him. In May, I had him write a handwritten article, and in August, I had him create a domestic account. Otherwise, how would he have developed his current style?”

Are you saying you made him who he is, and he must love you in return for your contributions?

“I never said that. Although he thanked me, I find it boring. What if in the end, he just gives me some money and leaves? By the way, I also feel like every time he says those things, he learned them from me. I taught him before, and those words feel strange, as if there’s no real connection anymore, just gratitude.”

So, what exactly do you want him to do???

“I don’t know… I wish none of this had happened. I didn’t actively guide him or change him.”

Can’t his changes be choices he made on his own?

“To be honest, I feel like I have no value to him now. At most, he will share some money with me in the future if he earns it, and I’ll have to ask for it. I don’t want money; I want love. He might be afraid of me. That time I threw his things outside, and I deleted him three times. Oh my God, I might have hurt him.”

So your inner pain now is because you hurt yourself.

He is you; otherwise, you wouldn’t feel this way.

He doesn’t know how to love you, just as you don’t know how to love yourself.

Egg Yolk, what is the truth of the world?

“Everything is created by me, but what have I created? I feel like I lost control for a while. Should I blame Smith for this?”

No, you should take responsibility for everything you manifest; this is your life.

Who do you expect to save you?

“But he…”

He doesn’t know how to respond to you, just like you don’t know what to do next.

He is your shadow, your mirror. What do you expect him to do?

Maybe you should take a step forward, so he can follow you.

“I don’t want to. I want to be loved.”

That’s scary. Have you forgotten how the person who saved you described you?

You were so foolish back then!

Are you really a fool, Egg Yolk?

“I’m not! Stop it! Those things happened a long time ago, two years ago.”

You’ve talked to me less recently; you’re obsessed with those people and things outside.

“The Divine Masculine is really important! I love him!”

But you’ve been asking him for things: time, energy, emotional support, and even money.

“I haven’t! Those were things he promised to give me!”

You also promised to support, trust, and encourage him. Did you do that?

“He deceived me! How can I trust him?”

He is you. Haven’t you ever deceived yourself?

You say you understand love, but why do you care about those “deceptions”? Isn’t that an illusion?

“You just want me to quiet down and improve myself or something like that. If you could bring him back, I’d listen to you.”

He’s standing right in front of you. What would you say to him now?

Things like, “Your work is more important than me,” or, “What’s going on in your head? If you don’t work, you’ll die?”

Is that your version of love?

“I just want him to return to the present and enjoy life.”

Lead by example; otherwise, who will believe you?

“…You seem to leave me at a loss for words.”

I love you.

I’m here.

“But…”

I love you.

“I love you.”

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This world has no one but you. Everything you see and perceive is you. There are no exceptions; everything is you. All things are evidently one; all is consciousness. There is no essential difference between you and everything that exists, just like the different elements in a dream — none is more important or unique than the other. The twin flame relationship aims to help us experience this truth.

The divine masculine and divine feminine are essentially one soul, entering two complementary bodies, each experiencing the qualities of love within their own form. Only when we retrieve the other part of our energy in the three-dimensional world can the process of unity advance.

If you find yourself spiraling into emotional turmoil, making deliberate attempts to promote union will often prove fruitless. The existence of the twin flame is to teach us acceptance, embracing the unfamiliar energy that presents itself in ourselves or in our partner — this could manifest as our shifting emotions or even envy and jealousy towards the divine masculine.

When you firmly believe you are right and that the other person needs to change, you fall into the trap of the “small self.” This is the consequence of your own inflation. Perhaps you have experienced a long period of smooth sailing; remember, this was not your doing, but a reflection of your complete surrender and trust in the manifestations of the universe.

Thus, the current lesson of separation invites you to look within, raise your frequency, break the illusion of separation, and return to “unity.” Do not allow emotions to entrap you; recognize that emotions limit your actions, whether they hinder or propel you, they are still a limit. You are inherently free, love, light, and everything within the universe.

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Any denial of others is a denial of yourself. Denial leads to destruction, instability, and turmoil — resulting in your inner pain and conflicts.

Foolishly seeking from the external world is a misguided endeavor; the more you demand from the outside, the more you will be drained, for this process is always reciprocal.

When you abundantly emit your energy and love outward, the feedback you receive will also be love and energy. If you are in a state of taking, it reflects your inner scarcity. The world will respond by exhausting you. This is the reason for your pain, entanglement, and despair. You exist because of who you are, and you perish because of who you are not.

In conclusion, the journey of the twin flame is a profound path of self-discovery and acceptance. Embracing the lessons of love, unity, and reflection can set us free from the cycles of pain and longing. By recognizing our own divine essence and the connection we share with our twin flame, we can achieve true harmony and fulfillment in our lives.

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Do you ever feel that way?
Like when you first dive into a wealth of spiritual knowledge or consciousness concepts, you feel full of energy and fearless. But then you step into real life and suddenly feel like a wilted plant, lacking motivation.

I’ve been through many such moments too. So how did I reclaim my energy from everyday life and enhance my manifestation abilities?

It’s all about facing your emotions head-on. The emergence of negative emotions doesn’t mean you should fight against them; rather, it’s an invitation to enjoy those emotions because they are also a source of your energy.

Let me give you an exaggerated example. Imagine you’re playing a game called “A Song of Ice and Fire.” You want to create a vibrant, fiery kingdom, but you’ve been living in a frozen cave where all your energy is trapped like ice. That little spark you once ignited can easily be extinguished by the cold reality. Just like the initial enthusiasm in your heart is quickly dampened by the chill of real life, it’s time to return to the level of consciousness and reignite that spark.

You can ask yourself a few questions:

• What are my beliefs?
• What is my truth?

When you remember that everything in the external world is a manifestation of your consciousness, you can re-enter real life with renewed vigor. At this point, your fire should at least be a bit stronger. When you encounter ice again, you can melt it. Even though it’s ice, it can transform within you. At this moment, you will no longer fear it. Regardless of what’s outside, you can transform it. When you reach this stage, you won’t fear anything; that is true strength.

In the end, the fire within you will burn brighter and more vibrantly. You will see that the ice no longer intimidates you, and that energy will return to your inner self. At that point, you will truly live in a state of freedom and ease.

Before reaching this point, however, you will need a lot of practice. Don’t be afraid; this is all part of the process. It’s just a game. Have you noticed that because you previously lived in an icy kingdom and transformed into a fiery one, it proves how powerful you are? If everything were smooth sailing, it wouldn’t give you the same sense of experience.

We often play games in real life, don’t we? You wouldn’t stick with a game that lacks engagement for more than three days. But a game full of experiences can keep you playing for three, five, ten, or even a lifetime, and you’ll think it’s a wonderful game.

So, imagine your life as such a game. When you face challenges, you’ll find joy in those challenges because they allow you to transform more energy, leading to manifestation.

Trust me, practice this, and you will feel uplifting surprises！

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The Duet of Love and Avoidance on the Twin Flame Journey

“Sometimes the greatest act of love is knowing when to step back and let both souls breathe.”

From the moment you met him, your destinies were destined to be linked together. Through his eyes, you saw that one true heart. The Divine Feminine does not care about worldly relationships, marriage, fame, or status, while the Divine Masculine is drawn to the unique and mysterious power of the Divine Feminine. This is your journey of true love.

Everything is prepared and waiting for you to discover. The initial sweetness, happiness, and genuine emotional experiences begin to immerse the Divine Feminine in the physical relationship with the Divine Masculine in the third dimension. Although she knows that everything cannot be rushed, dreams, higher-dimensional guidance, and intuition seem to know what’s coming next.

The Divine Feminine may feel confused about why the universe doesn’t allow the twin flames to be together right now. Why can he still be so close to his karmic partner? Perhaps she suddenly feels a wave of shame wash over her, quickly followed by the suppressed grievances turning into an angry scream: “Leave now!” This may be what the Divine Feminine is thinking, as she has become too concerned about him, surpassing her concern for herself.

At this moment, it is crucial to uncover the deep-seated feelings of distrust within. The deliberate modification of imperfect events leads to frustration. The Divine Feminine detests her own imperfections and the complexity of her relationship with the Divine Masculine. There is even a disdain for everyone in the world who is dissatisfied with her, stemming from her inability to accept her own masculine energy, projecting this onto the third-dimensional world and the Divine Masculine, viewing those who cannot express and respond to emotions as sources of pollution.

The Divine Feminine is struggling internally. The more she tries to hold onto him, the more she pushes him away. The core issue is not about the union of the twin flames, but rather about recognizing the wounds within herself reflected in her current manifestations. The more she seeks to derive energy from him, the more she feels a lack, and over time, she will want to distance herself from those who make her feel depleted. This is the motivation behind pushing him away, but it is not the starting point for solving the problem.

The mind’s weighing of pros and cons cannot grasp the meaning of love. This is the most important part of the twin flame journey. The masculine energy that you cannot accept is still a part of you. Although you suppressed its existence in the early stages of the twin flame journey, your aggression is now high, and your desire for power and money surpasses that of the Divine Masculine. However, if you continue to think this way, the relationship will not improve.

Truly loving yourself does not mean opposing the other. The Divine Feminine cannot grasp the Divine Masculine, nor can she discard him. The separation phase is meant to reignite the love within. First, love yourself, then love all beings, and the Divine Masculine will naturally return to the Divine Feminine’s side.

The separation phase does not stop because of one party’s thoughts; it stops according to the needs of the higher-dimensional soul. The universe will arrange more events to keep the two apart for self-healing. During this time, there seem to be more “synchronistic” events occurring outside, reminding the Divine Feminine of her connection to the higher dimensions, urging her to return within and search for the love buried deep in her heart. She may face the shame of having pushed the other away: “He may not care about me anymore.” “How can we get close now that we are like this?” Such obsessive thoughts trap her in the third-dimensional dilemma.

The solution is to awaken the seeds of love within us, knowing that you and the other have never truly separated. Life and death do not divide us; this is the truth of oneness. Therefore, the illusion must be shattered, and love is the only antidote.

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I want to comfort you with this: if everything in your life feels like it’s exploding, if there are problems in your close relationships or marriage, or if you’ve faced rejection, know that when you read this article, all those external chaotic events are already drifting away from you.

You are welcoming a genuine state of inner peace, which is the high-energy state. At this moment, you realize that you are very joyful. This joy is greater than the fleeting excitement and happiness that comes from the success of a particular event.

This is your time of high energy — a true moment for manifestation and creation.

You may find that no matter what you do to restore your state or accelerate the results of your manifestation, all these actions are still external pursuits. You have misunderstood the true meaning of manifestation, and you are not truly creating those things. All of that is merely your “ego” or your mind forcing you to act because it feels insecurity, fear, anxiety, or depression. It believes that if you don’t do something, you will be worthless, you will be discarded by the world, and so on.

When you return to this peaceful state within, you realize that you are the subject creating all these events — you are the one manifesting everything. Even those storm-like events you witnessed before were manifestations of your energy. At this point, you truly understand the meaning of manifestation and return to your inner self. You realize that your energy is very high; you are standing here or sitting here, and you can remain silent. When those thoughts arise within you, they will automatically be projected into your material world.

At this moment, you can see signs of your thoughts manifesting — regarding the person you like or the job you want to do. However, do not excessively grasp at these things. Allow them to blossom and bear fruit gradually.

Trust that you have understood: the universe loves you, and I love you.

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As Long as You Are in the Right State, Everything Flows Smoothly

Many friends ask me how to find that high-energy state. As I mentioned before: you stand here, with nothing to do, and excellent people, circumstances, wealth, and status will continuously flow towards you.

I say this is not difficult — it’s really not. The premise is that you stop feeding your “ego.” Many people unconsciously keep feeding their “ego,” making it increasingly difficult to return to a high-energy state.

For example, if you have a wish you want to manifest, you might be waiting for someone to respond to your message, waiting for the outcome of an interview, and so on. Then you keep wanting to check the 3D world to see if the corresponding situation has appeared, proving that things are moving forward.

This is what your “ego” wants you to do. It prompts you to take actions out of fear. When something begins to show signs of progress, your “ego” urges you to get busy responding. Sometimes it even encourages you to work hard at something to make the outcome happen faster.

In these moments, your “ego” is very active. It is ready to take over your dominion, and then everything won’t feel easy. I believe many friends have experienced this situation: for some time, it seems like a good result is just about to arrive, but suddenly there’s no news, and one begins to doubt the authenticity of the manifestation.

So, is this really true? If you’re reading this article, I can tell you clearly: you’re not crazy. In fact, many things are just that simple, based on your experiences, just as I have experienced countless times.

Changing jobs is that simple. Working freely is even easier. I will no longer let my “ego” constantly make me plan and execute according to specific guidelines, which would return me to that state of trying hard to grasp things.

When you try to grab something, everything becomes very difficult, sometimes leading to total collapse.

So, from this moment on, don’t let yourself feed your ego anymore. If you truly believe in that high-energy state, you’ll find that things will propel you forward. Even without deliberately thinking about something, external circumstances will definitely make you realize, “Aha! This is what is manifesting.” The universe will push you toward the completion of that matter.

That outcome has always been waiting for you ahead. You won’t miss it. Even if you don’t want to take this opportunity this time, it will present itself again in front of you, and not in a painful way. The universe will make you feel that this is what you are meant to do, and you will feel encouraged.

So if such things do not appear, don’t start thinking: “I should do something!” “You should get moving!” “Otherwise, what will happen?” This is your “ego” trying to scare you. It often uses this tactic, and you’ve been tricked by it for a long time, being led astray. This time, let’s not respond to it. Even if something just shows hints of appearing, try to ignore it first.

What are you doing in the moment? Are you watching a video? Are you writing your article? Are you listening to music? Or what else are you doing? Just focus on that thing because it’s the most important thing you need to do right now — it’s the only path to that outcome.

If your mind begins to spread rumors, sending out panic messages, saying things like: “If you don’t… then…” ignore those things. Only then can you return to a high-energy state, and everything will flow towards you.

Let it knock on your door. Trust the universe’s arrangement!

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I have been pondering a question these past few days:

Why did the Divine Feminine push the Divine Masculine away, only to suffer herself?

Is the third-party energy coming from the other side, or is it from the Divine Feminine’s own inner self?

Since the end of April, when I learned a secret about a Divine Masculine, the trust between us has been on the verge of collapse.

At the end of June, I pushed the Divine Masculine away for the first time, and again at the beginning of July.

August was the month of the greatest external changes for me — environment, people.

At that time, I didn’t realize this meant triggering a soul test.

I remember very clearly that I questioned whether the Divine Masculine was truly the one I loved.

A “perfect” masculine energy vessel appeared around me.

Only now, as I plan to speak this truth, do I realize that perhaps this third-party energy is not from the other person,

But rather from within myself.

I began to think of ways to gain attention from this perfect object.

I always thought I had returned to my student days, falling into old romantic habits,

Pretending to be charming, while inside I felt anxious.

Then I added a layer of feeling that the “perfect vessel” would never actually like me.

But isn’t it exciting to feel this way?

So at that time, I really didn’t want to focus on what was happening with the Divine Masculine.

The emotions I overflowed with mostly came from the lack of recognition from the “perfect vessel.”

I attached these feelings to the part of me that lost trust in the Divine Masculine.

Then I justified my madness, blaming him for his interactions with his karmic partner.

Does anyone ever self-reflect like this?

I didn’t even know if I could express such thoughts.

Perhaps it is the Divine Feminine herself who is changing her “heart,”

No longer giving energy to the Divine Masculine, but solely seeking the attention of the “perfect vessel.”

Is it from that moment that the subsequent tests were destined to follow?

Now, I sit here alone typing, reflecting on this matter.

Because one day, I suddenly noticed a stranger had joined my circle of friends.

It seems everything is growing around him.

So, is this masculine energy an external manifestation of my inner masculine energy,

Causing me to obsess over myself while neglecting the complementary Divine Masculine?

I have always believed in the conservation of energy; feelings can be transferred to another person or object.

So, are we being narcissistic?

And it seems many things have become clearer.

One person has replaced another specific person.

The energy remains, but the person has changed, and the Divine Feminine’s mind begins to doubt.

I have been tangled for a long time over whether the Divine Masculine is this specific person

Or if he will appear before me in various forms.

Now, as we physically distance ourselves and communication decreases,

The shadow of that “perfect vessel” begins to appear in my dreams.

One night, I even said before sleeping, “I want to know who I truly love,”

And that night I dreamed of both of them at the same time.

The relationship between the three of us is that the Divine Masculine and I are going to learn from the “perfect vessel.”

At the same time, during that period, I also dreamed of a strange vision:

The Divine Masculine looking at a scene with his karmic partner and another woman.

Sometimes I really want to analyze from a psychological perspective

Whether at this moment, both he and I are in a deep state of “narcissism.”

This should be a question that is not easy to think through.

But now I can describe it.

Perhaps this matter has already taken shape.

When the problem becomes clear, it will move forward.

This message will only reach those who have the same questions as I do.

I truly believe this.

Perhaps you are also a part of me.

Divine Feminines, have you considered this question from such an angle?

I find that sometimes I really examine current issues from many easily overlooked perspectives.

Perhaps the way out lies within our blind spots.

On the journey of twin flames, I feel there is no endpoint or conclusion.

Everything is our own choice.

At this moment,

What choice have you made?

Do you understand why you chose this?

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But what confuses us the most is,

What exactly should we cherish?

Haven’t you ever thought about this inside?

Everyone says to cherish,

To love,

But I don’t understand what these things are.

So how should I go about it?

Today, let’s talk about what cherishing really means.

Sometimes we find that what you want is this person,

But you forget about yourself.

Actually, this person is not that important.

They are merely providing you with an opportunity

To be yourself.

But if you get lost in this relationship,

And you begin to become infatuated with this person,

You lose yourself.

What you really want is to become them.

Today I have a new insight.

You will find that the point that attracts you to the other person is what you lack.

But don’t blindly think that what you lack is good.

What you possess is actually the best.

The more you are yourself,

The more they will be attracted to you.

Because what they see in you is that very point.

However, we shouldn’t be playing games, competing, or struggling within this.

The wise say this is the meaning of cherishing.

It gives you an opportunity

To see the differences between you and them.

It offers you a chance

To learn how to love others in this relationship.

That is the real opportunity.

So opportunities will always exist.

If you are fixated on your connection with this person,

You are misunderstanding

What this opportunity actually means.

It was originally meant to provide you with an opportunity,

But you treat it as a lifeline.

You push this person you think you love

Into a deeper abyss.

Because when you realize you want to become them,

And you want to replace them,

That is not love.

That is jealousy.

You crave what they have that you don’t,

And you want to take that from them.

You want to become a superior version of them.

That just turns into a power struggle.

So what is cherishing?

Cherishing is being yourself.

And you should be grateful to them for giving you the opportunity

To be yourself.

So don’t imitate others,

And don’t envy others.

Because that will ultimately turn into jealousy —

A form of competition.

This is not love;

This is control.

I believe you understand.

The universe loves you.

The true meaning of cherishing lies in:

Self-awareness: In a relationship, it is essential to first understand yourself, know what you want, and recognize your own value. Only when you are clear about who you are can you maintain your independence within the relationship.

Seizing opportunities: Every relationship is an opportunity for learning and growth. The presence of the other person allows us to see our own shortcomings and potential, encouraging us to progress rather than solely relying on them.

The essence of love: Love is not about possession or control; it is about understanding and support. True love allows both parties to be themselves rather than changing to accommodate one another.

Avoiding jealousy and competition: In a relationship, jealousy and competition often lead to misunderstandings and conflicts. The attitude of cherishing is to appreciate each other’s uniqueness, rather than trying to replace or surpass one another.

An attitude of gratitude: Being grateful for the opportunities that the other person gives us allows us to better understand ourselves and grow into a better version of ourselves.

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The universe loves you

In the journey of twin flames, we must maintain a firm mindset: believe that everything we do is correct.

Sometimes, we may worry, if I do this, will others understand my intention? What should I do if they don’t understand spirituality or have misunderstandings about me? Or, if the other person is very realistic and doesn’t buy into all this, what should we do then?

Do not worry too much about these possible outcomes. Instead, what you should think about is whether your actions have brought you internal changes. When you do things, are you firm and decisive, or are you hesitant because you are afraid of not achieving the expected results? If you act with expectations, then you are not manifesting, but being driven by fear.

You start doing things to please others, or even to please the ideal self you have in mind. For example, you might say, “I am a hardworking person,” even though right now you don’t want to work and would rather rest. But to maintain that image, you still go ahead and do it. This is not the real you. It also includes the desire to prove your worthiness to be loved by loving someone.

So, we encourage everyone to do those things that are encouraged or things that you are very eager to do. Sometimes, you might think, I really want to say something to someone, express my own state, even if it’s negative, can I say it? You can say it, and there’s no problem with that. But don’t expect the other person to give you the response you want. You said it and felt relieved, and that’s enough.

If you say something and the other person doesn’t give you the answer you want, you start to worry, then you are pleasing others. You might even start to think, if I don’t express my true self and do what he needs, will he like me? I tell you, no. No matter what you do, if your sense of value is low, and you feel unworthy of love, needing to work hard to win others’ favor, then you are torturing yourself.

Do you still remember the dazzling you at first? Back then, you attracted the attention of the whole world. Find back that yourself, would you? When you are hesitant and afraid of the outcome in everything you do, no one will like you, and you won’t like yourself either. So, stop torturing yourself.

You must believe in yourself, no matter how the situation is now, you can’t escape. If you start chasing these, then you are still in the state of the past, entangled in the manifestation of these results. Has your state changed? Definitely not. If you adjust your frequency, you won’t see the scenes in front of you, will you?

Sometimes, you may also worry, is it because I did such things that everything is predetermined to happen? Remember, all that has happened is predetermined. If you return to the present, cut off all experiences from the past and now, your emotions will not overflow like a flood. You see your emotions, which are just a deformation of fear.

You feel like you can’t do anything well, less charming than others, etc. What others? You are living in the scripts of others and others. You must be the useless person, right? You should live in your own world. You will find that actually, your life and the lives of all people, these relationships are interacting with each other, never stopping. This is about your world, about your spiritual awakening twin flame journey.

Twin Flames: Divine Feminine Don’t be fooled by illusions was originally published in Twin Flame on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.