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Epic second part to “Will of the Many”. An awesome fantasy novel that just came out and I bought it on the day of release. The world of quasi ancient rome with a twist of magic, that splits into three worlds and is incredibly well told, fast paced all leading to an epic ending which just makes me more impatient waiting for Book #3.

Fear — my father once told me, is simply our realisation of a lack of control. And that is why when we are afraid, sometimes the only way we can cope — the only way to dull the edge of that lack — is to put our faith in those who appear not to suffer it. WAIT. RUN.

“Foundation is like life. You can make no mistakes at all, and still lose.”

“None slower than the impatient, you know.” “What?” “Sorry.” She gave a deprecating half laugh at herself. “Just something my tutor used to say. Usually after my father passed through for his weekly critique. He used to tell me that I was so worried about being good enough, it was distracting me. That I was so focused on where I needed to be, I couldn’t see the space in between. ‘Improvement is not a destination,’ and all that.” Step-by-step is the only way to progress. I felt calmer for the reminder.

A pain promised is often worse than pain itself, my mother used to say.

Talent, as my father used to remind me constantly, matters only when it’s married to effort.

Competitiveness is insecurity in action. To which my smiling father immediately responded that a complete lack of it shows only apathy or arrogance. Ysabel stared back straight-faced, and shrugged.

And some small, pained part of me can’t help but wonder if it’s real. That’s the moment, I think, when I know. I do believe her. I believe her and I forgive her and I know that I cannot fault her for her secrets; mine are greater and deeper by far. But nor can I trust her. Not fully. Not ever, anymore. My parents were right. Love requires more. Anything less is a self-deception, a dream from which I’ll inevitably be woken.

“She told me that a child needs to hear and truly understand only three phrases from their father as they grow up. ‘I love you.’ ‘I will help.’ And, ‘I don’t know.’ The two of us were only just getting to that last one, Diago. You were only just beginning to see that sometimes, I had no answers. No simple way forward. It’s the hidden truth of how we eventually have to face the world — of being an adult. None of us know.”

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Book #1–3 summary here.

Book #4 came out and I bought it on the release date.

Super fun action story continues with all the epic characters and great humour. Really fun futuristic sci-fi.

Great adventure, fight scenes and epic cliffhanger to get you excited for #5.

“Sheep, sheep, sheep…I have bad news for you. It’s finally my turn.”

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By Casualfarmer

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Why This Book Matters to Me

This was book #200 on my summary list. Not exactly the profound milestone I had in mind when I started summarising books 8 years ago. But maybe that's the point.

I've been sharing book summaries on Medium for 8 years now. They're not flashy, but somehow they attract 15-20k readers every year. Honestly, they're mostly written for myself — so I can go back and find my favourite takeaways and quotes. Looking back, it's a reminder that you don't always know where consistency will take you. Some projects don't need to be "big" to matter. Sometimes they just need to exist — for you, cause it's fun, and for whoever stumbles across them.

So what better book for #200 than one that's literally about a guy who gives up the pursuit of power and just... farms? The irony isn't lost on me.

If you know me, you know I'm a massive fantasy nerd. I've devoured the Sword of Truth series (26 books!), got completely sucked into Stormlight Archive (all 8 before I knew it), smashed through Mother of Learning in 2 weeks, and burned through Mistborn, Cradle, Legend of Drizzt, and more. Beware of Chicken is a different kind of fantasy. It's a xianxia cultivation novel — a genre where characters train to become god-like martial artists — except the main character decides he wants absolutely none of that. He wants to farm. And it's hilarious.

What I didn't expect was how much the themes would resonate. Beneath the humour and the talking chickens and the sentient rice, there's a genuine philosophy about what matters in life. Connection over power. Community over individual glory. Giving to the land, and the land giving back. It's the kind of book that sneaks wisdom in while you're laughing.

Note: 4 out of 5 books are out, final book 5 coming out in Dec 2025.

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Super fun, easy and light-hearted fantasy novel. A traditional Japanese isekai where a modern Canadian is reborn into ancient China with magic. But instead of the traditional strive for power, he hilariously decides to give it all up and become a farmer. Ironically, he then becomes super strong because of his connection to Mother Earth. Fun magic system and good humour.

The Setup

Premise: Jin Rou, a modern-day Canadian, wakes up in the body of a cultivator in a xianxia world — think ancient China with martial arts, qi, and spirit beasts. Instead of pursuing the traditional path of power, he decides to peace out and start a farm.

Setting: The Azure Hills — a quiet, "backwater" region of a vast cultivation world. Jin's farm, Fa Ram, becomes the unlikely centre of the story.

Plot Core: By choosing peace over power, connection over combat, and community over cultivation, Jin accidentally becomes one of the most powerful beings in the world. His farm animals gain sentience and become cultivators themselves. Yes, including the chicken. Especially the chicken.

Core Themes: The value of simplicity, the power of community, the irony of gaining strength by not chasing it, and the idea that your choices define you.

Tone: Warm, funny, surprisingly philosophical. Think Stardew Valley meets Dragon Ball Z, but with a lot more heart.

The Land Waking Up

One of my favourite moments in the series:

He impressed upon them the most basic of the Master's profound wisdom. Their eyes widened, as they beheld the blessed land in all its glory.

We give to the land, and the land gives back.

There's something genuinely beautiful about this idea. In a world obsessed with taking — extracting power, hoarding resources, climbing over everyone else — Jin's philosophy is the opposite. He pours himself into his farm, his animals, his neighbours. And the land responds. Not because it has to, but because that's how reciprocity works.

On Choices

"While we are free to choose, remember the choices you make will always have consequences. Saving somebody may backfire, or it may not. Killing somebody may bring you great power, but it may also spell your doom. Our choices guide us. They forge us. We may make our choices, but in the end ... our choices make us."

This is the quiet thesis of the whole series. In a genre where characters usually chase the biggest power-up, the fastest cultivation shortcut, the strongest technique — this book says: it doesn't matter how powerful you become. What matters is the choices you make along the way. Your choices forge you. And ultimately, your choices make you.

The Style / Humour

Part of what makes this series work is that it doesn't take itself too seriously. The humour is constant but never forced:

I'd nearly fallen into the river. What was I, some kind of Spirit Beast magnet? ... or it's probably the food. I hope I don't have an entire ecosystem that's sentient. I want to eat meat, damn it. I swear, if my rice starts talking to me, I'm going to have a very, very sad time. I sighed, internally grumbling, and tossed my line back in.

And this one, which any fantasy reader will appreciate:

My first thought was incredulous and hysterical; of course the tournament arc always goes to shit.

The book is self-aware in the best way. It knows the genre tropes and plays with them without being cynical about it.

The Journey

"After all, the road you take to get there is just as important as the destination itself."

The heavens were not the goal.

They were the consequence of a path.

A consequence of one's Dao.

This is the core philosophy. In cultivation fiction, everyone is racing to "ascend" — to reach the heavens, to become immortal, to stand at the peak. Jin's insight is that the heavens aren't the goal. They're what happens when you walk the right path. The destination is a byproduct of living well, not a target to chase.

On Living

Some of the most resonant lines in the series aren't about combat or cultivation at all:

"What is joy, without sadness?" the Earth Spirit asked. "What is our time here, without others?"

'It is better to let someone in and be hurt, than to never let any in at all.'

Growing old is mandatory. Growing up is optional.

To stand alone at the peak ... was to stand alone at the peak. There were none to catch you if you fell. Here, they would sharpen each other and figure out a course of action. Together.

That last one is the anti-thesis of every "lone wolf at the summit" power fantasy. Standing at the top alone means there's nobody to catch you when you fall. The strength in this story comes from togetherness.

On Control

A wise turtle once spoke to a red panda of the illusion of control, using the metaphor of a peach pit. Both, honestly, had fair points. The red panda had declared that he could direct where the tree grew, that he could control it through sunlight and water. The turtle replied that he could, but no matter what he did, he could not force the peach tree to be anything but a peach tree. The answer, I had always thought, lay somewhere in between, even if actually living that advice was the hard part. To account for the things you could control, and accept and respect the things you couldn't.

Yes, that's a Kung Fu Panda reference woven naturally into the story. And it's genuinely wise. The balance between what you can control and what you can't — that tension runs through the whole series. Jin doesn't try to control the world. He tends to what's in front of him. And somehow, that's enough.

Who Should Read This

• Fantasy fans looking for something warm and funny — this is the antidote to grimdark
• Anyone who loves xianxia/cultivation fiction but wants a fresh take on the genre
• Readers who enjoyed Stormlight Archive, Cradle, or Mother of Learning and want something lighter
• People who need a "comfort read" — this is the literary equivalent of a warm cup of tea
• Anyone who's ever felt the pull of "maybe I should just quit everything and start a farm" — this book lives that fantasy for you

Original article: Book Summary — Beware of Chicken on Medium

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By nobody103 (Domagoj Kurmaic)

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Why This Book Matters to Me

I SMASHED through the 4 published arcs of Mother of Learning in about 2 weeks. Completely obsessed. Couldn't put it down. I even posted on LinkedIn asking for similar recommendations because I was chasing that high of finishing a series and wanting more.

Here's the thing about this book — the premise sounds like it should get old fast. A kid stuck in a time loop, reliving the same month over and over? Sounds repetitive, right? It's the exact opposite. Every loop Zorian runs through, he learns something new, unlocks a new skill, peels back another layer of the world. It's the most satisfying progression fantasy I've read.

If you know me, you know I'm a fantasy nerd. I've devoured the Sword of Truth series (26 books!), got completely sucked into Stormlight Archive (all 8 books before I knew it), and burned through The Legend of Drizzt, Mistborn, Cradle, and more. Mother of Learning sits right alongside the best of them — but it does something different. It scratches that itch of constant learning and self-improvement in a way that resonates beyond just fantasy. The idea that with enough repetition, enough persistence, and the right mindset, you can master anything — that's a theme I think about a lot.

Originally a web serial on Royal Road, this story is proof that incredible fiction doesn't have to come from traditional publishing. Some of the best storytelling I've found in the last few years has come from indie authors and web serials.

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Super fun, easy fantasy read. The premise feels like it would be repetitive — Zorian is stuck in a time-loop, reliving the month over and over again. But it is the perfect easy magic fantasy read of constant learning and self-improvement leading to an overpowered character in a magic world which has it all — different magic streams, dragons, artefacts, continents, teleportation, mind magic, etc.

The Setup

Premise: Zorian Kazinski, a gifted but emotionally distant teenage mage, becomes stuck in a Groundhog Day-style time loop.

Setting: A rich, magic-infused world with academies, politics, soul magic, and monsters.

Plot Core: As Zorian repeats the same month endlessly, he gains magical mastery, unravels hidden conspiracies, thwarts an otherworldly invasion, and matures emotionally.

Core Themes: Growth through repetition, the value of relationships, responsibility, and perseverance.

Pacing: Starts slow, but builds into one of the most satisfying long-form fantasy arcs online.

Favourite Quotes

"You're wrong," Zorian said. "First of all, everything matters. You are what you do, and if I were to start doing stupid things just because there is seemingly no consequence for them, those actions would eventually come to define me."

This one hits. In a time loop where nothing technically "counts," Zorian still chooses to act with integrity. The idea that your actions define you regardless of consequences — that's a principle, not a strategy. It's the kind of thinking I respect in founders and leaders too. Who you are when nobody's watching (or when the loop resets) is who you actually are.

"I know what you're thinking, and yes — my rapid growth as a mage is all due to the time loop. It doesn't just give time, you know. It's also given me nigh-limitless resources, access to restricted materials, and plenty of normally unobtainable experience. It's also put me under enormous pressure, keeping me constantly motivated in a way I otherwise wouldn't be. I honestly think anyone could do what I did if put in the same position. Well, provided they didn't just break under the pressure..."

I love the self-awareness here. Zorian isn't claiming to be special — he's saying the environment created the growth. The time loop gave him time, resources, pressure, and motivation. Take away any one of those and the outcome changes. It's a reminder that environment matters as much as talent. The best performers aren't always the most gifted — they're the ones who found (or created) the right conditions to grow in.

What Makes It Work

The magic of this book isn't just the magic system (though that's epic — mind magic, soul magic, alchemy, combat magic, divination, all of it). It's the structure.

Every time loop is a fresh experiment. Zorian tries something new, fails, learns, and carries that knowledge into the next iteration. It's like the ultimate feedback loop — literally. No wasted repetition. Every restart is a compounding advantage.

The world-building is massive without being overwhelming. Different continents, political factions, magical academies, underground civilisations, ancient conspiracies — it unfolds naturally as Zorian explores more in each loop. By the end, what started as a simple school setting has expanded into something truly epic in scope.

And the character growth is what ties it all together. Zorian starts as someone who's emotionally closed off, dismissive of relationships, and laser-focused on personal power. Through hundreds of loops, he learns — slowly, painfully — that the people around him matter. That relationships aren't a distraction from growth. They ARE the growth.

Who Should Read This

• Fantasy fans who love progression and magic systems — this is one of the best out there
• Anyone who enjoyed Cradle, Stormlight Archive, or Sufficiently Advanced Magic and wants something in the same vein
• People who've never tried a web serial — this is a great entry point. The quality rivals traditionally published fantasy
• Readers who love the "overpowered character earned through effort" trope — Zorian earns every bit of his power
• Anyone who likes the idea of Groundhog Day meets Harry Potter meets a conspiracy thriller

Goodreads Rating: 4.5 | Category: Fantasy/Story — on my book recommendations list.

Original article: Book Summary — Mother of Learning on Medium

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By Jonathan Haidt

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This book hit different. I'm a new dad — Rafa arrived in early 2025 and suddenly everything about kids, screens, and safety became deeply personal. This was the first book I got to read since he was born, and expectedly, it's about how to raise kids in a world full of phones. The book itself is probs too long — should have been a blogpost if I'm being honest — but the four recommendations at the end absolutely resonate with me. (1) No smartphones before high school. (2) No social media before 16. (3) Phone-free schools. (4) More unsupervised play and childhood independence. As someone who grew up playing in the streets of Austria with zero parental supervision and turned out... mostly fine... these feel like a no brainer. The data Haidt lays out on what happened to Gen Z is genuinely alarming. And now that I've got a little human of my own, I'm not reading this stuff academically anymore. I'm reading it as a dad trying to figure out how to get this right.

The History — How Gen Z Became the Test Case

Haidt opens with a massive historical claim, and he backs it up. This is the "oh no" section.

Gen Z became the first generation in history to go through puberty with a portal in their pockets that called them away from the people nearby and into an alternative universe that was exciting, addictive, unstable, and — as I will show — unsuitable for children and adolescents. Succeeding socially in that universe required them to devote a large part of their consciousness — perpetually — to managing what became their online brand.

Read that again. "Perpetually managing their online brand." These are 12-year-olds. That's wild.

They spent far less time playing with, talking to, touching, or even making eye contact with their friends and families, thereby reducing their participation in embodied social behaviors that are essential for successful human development.

This is the bit that got me. Less eye contact. Less touching. Less talking to people who are literally in the same room. I think about Rafa growing up and the idea of him sitting next to a friend but both staring at screens... yeah, that's not happening on my watch.

My central claim in this book is that these two trends — (1) overprotection in the real world and (2) underprotection in the virtual world — are the major reasons why children born after 1995 became the anxious generation.

Two trends working in opposite directions >> and both making things worse. We bubble-wrapped kids in real life while throwing them into the wild west online. That combination is the core argument, and it's a strong one.

Anxiety vs Fear — The Distinction That Matters

Anxiety is related to fear, but is not the same thing. The diagnostic manual of psychiatry (DSM-5-TR) defines: fear as "the emotional response to real or perceived imminent threat, whereas anxiety is anticipation of future threat."

This distinction matters heaps. Fear is about now. Anxiety is about what might happen. And social media is basically an anxiety machine >> it's a constant stream of "what might people think about me" running 24/7 in a teenager's pocket.

The Four Suggestions — Haidt's Action Plan

This is the payoff of the whole book. Four clear, actionable recommendations. I posted these on LinkedIn and the response was massive — heaps of parents saying "yes, this is exactly what we need."

They (suggestions) would provide a foundation for healthier childhood in the digital age. They are:

1/ No smartphones before high school. Parents should delay children's entry into round-the-clock internet access by giving only basic phones (phones with limited apps and no internet browser) before ninth grade (roughly age 14).

2/ No social media before 16. Let kids get through the most vulnerable period of brain development before connecting them to a firehose.

3/ Phone-free schools. In all schools from elementary through high school, students should store their phones, smartwatches, and any other personal devices that can send or receive texts in phone lockers or locked pouches during the school day. That is the only way to free up their attention for each other and for their teachers.

4/ Far more unsupervised play and childhood independence. That's the way children naturally develop social skills, overcome anxiety, and become self-governing young adults.

Simple. Clear. Defs something I'll be implementing for Rafa. The challenge is coordination >> you can't be the only family doing this or your kid becomes the odd one out. Which is why Haidt pushes for these to be collective norms, not individual choices.

Schools — The Phone-Free Battleground

This section is practical and immediately relevant for anyone working in education.

Most schools say they ban phones, but that typically means only that students must not use their phones during class. This is an ineffective policy because it incentivizes students to hide their phone use during class and increase their phone use after class, which makes it harder for them to form friendships with the kids around them.

A better policy is to go phone-free for the entire school day. When students arrive, they should put their phones into a dedicated phone locker or into a lockable phone pouch.

The distinction between "no phones in class" and "no phones at school" is massive. One is a rule you constantly police. The other changes the entire social dynamic. Kids actually have to talk to each other at lunch. What a concept.

Becoming a Play-Full School

Becoming a play-full school. The simple addition of a Let Grow Play Club — an afternoon option in K–8 schools of playing on the school playground, with no phones, plenty of loose parts, and minimal adult supervision — may teach social skills and foster resilience.

"Do something they have never done before, on their own," after reaching agreement with their parents as to what that is. Doing projects increases children's sense of competence while also increasing parents' willingness to trust their children and grant them more autonomy.

I love this. The "do something new on your own" exercise is basically what we did at Startmate with founders >> push them into uncomfortable territory, give them autonomy, watch them grow. Turns out the same principle works for kids. Who knew. (Everyone who grew up before smartphones, that's who.)

Playing — Why It's Not Optional

This section is backed by some epic research, and it's the part that made me most optimistic. We haven't lost the playbook for raising healthy kids. We just stopped using it.

Human children wait. They grow rapidly for the first two years, slow down for the next seven to 10, and then undergo a rapid growth spurt during puberty before coming to a halt a few years later. Intriguingly, a child's brain is already 90% of its full size by around age 5.

90% of brain size by age 5. Rafa is going to have a massive melon and I will defs be letting him run wild.

Wire up your brain by playing vigorously and often. Hundreds of studies on young rats, monkeys, and humans show that young mammals want to play, need to play, and come out socially, cognitively, and emotionally impaired when they are deprived of play.

In play, young mammals learn the skills they will need to be successful as adults, and they learn in the way that neurons like best: from repeated activity with feedback from success and failure in a low-stakes environment.

This is the same mechanism behind why founders learn fastest by doing, not by reading about doing. Low-stakes experimentation >> rapid feedback >> iteration. Play is literally nature's startup methodology.

If you do one thing to be a better gardener in the real world, it should be to give your children far more unsupervised free play, of the sort you probably enjoyed at that age. That means giving them a longer and better play-based childhood, with ever-growing independence and responsibility.

Growing up in Austria, I was out on the streets with my mates from age 6. Riding bikes, building things, getting into trouble, figuring it out. No helicopter parents. No tracking apps. Just kids being kids. I want that for Rafa — adjusted for 2025 reality, obviously — but the principle is the same. Let them play. Let them fail. Let them figure it out.

Social Media and Video Games — The Gender Split

Haidt gets into some really interesting data here about how social media and video games affect boys and girls differently. This is the section that probs generated the most debate.

A 2017 study in the U.K. asked teens to rate the effects of the most popular social media platforms on different parts of their well-being, including anxiety, loneliness, body image, and sleep. Teens rated Instagram as the worst of the five apps, followed by Snapchat. YouTube was the only platform that received a positive overall score.

Instagram worst. YouTube best. That tracks with everything I've seen anecdotally. YouTube is at least somewhat about learning and entertainment. Instagram is about comparison and performance.

Social media harms girls more than boys. Correlational studies show that heavy users of social media have higher rates of depression and other disorders than light users or nonusers. The correlation is larger and clearer for girls: Heavy users are three times as likely to be depressed as nonusers.

Three times. That's not a marginal difference. That's a massive signal.

Boys and Video Games

Do not find clear evidence that would support a blanket warning to parents to keep their boys entirely away from video games. The situation is different from the many studies that link girls, social media, anxiety, and depression.

Boys and young men withdrew much of their time and effort from the physical world (which was increasingly opposed to unsupervised play, exploration, and risk-taking) and invested it in the rapidly expanding virtual world.

Video games offer boys and girls a number of benefits, but there are also harms, especially for the subset of boys (in the ballpark of 7%) who end up as problematic or addicted users. For them, video games do seem to cause declining mental and physical health, family strife, and difficulties in other areas of life.

This nuance matters heaps. It's not "video games bad." It's "video games can fill the void left by the absence of real-world play and risk-taking." The answer isn't to ban games >> it's to make the real world more appealing and accessible for boys. Give them adventure, risk, and physicality IRL, and the pull of games reduces naturally.

Virtual vs IRL Connection — Why Online Community Falls Short

This is the most philosophical section of the book, and honestly one of my favourites. Haidt draws on Durkheim and religious studies to explain why virtual communities just don't scratch the same itch as real ones.

First, Emile Durkheim showed that human beings move up and down between two levels: the profane and the sacred. The profane is our ordinary self-focused consciousness. The sacred is the realm of the collective.

Groups become a cohesive community when they engage in rituals that move them in and out of the realm of the sacred together. The virtual world, in contrast, gives no structure to time or space and is entirely profane. This is one reason why virtual communities are not usually as satisfying or meaning-giving as real-world communities.

Having run Startmate for 8 years and built community as a core part of the job, this resonates deeply. The magic of Demo Day, of in-person cohort dinners, of sitting in a room together watching a founder pitch >> you can't replicate that on Zoom. The shared physical experience creates bonds that Slack channels never will.

Second, religious rituals always involve bodily movement with symbolic significance, often carried out synchronously with others. Eating together has a special power to bond people together. The virtual world is, by definition, disembodied, and most of its activities are conducted asynchronously.

Eating together. Moving together. Being in the same room at the same time. These aren't nice-to-haves >> they're fundamental to how humans bond. Haidt is basically explaining why every great community I've ever been part of had in-person rituals at its core.

Third, many religions and spiritual practices use stillness, silence, and meditation to calm the "jumping monkey" of ordinary consciousness and open the heart to others, God, or enlightenment >> meditation has been shown to promote.

The "jumping monkey" mind is a perfect description of what social media does to us. It feeds the monkey. Meditation calms it. The phone is literally the opposite of mindfulness.

Fifth, most religions urge us to be less judgmental, but social media encourages us to offer evaluations of others at a rate never before possible in human history. Religions advise us to be slower to anger and quicker to forgive.

Evaluation at a rate never before possible. Think about that. Every day, millions of teenagers are rating, judging, comparing, and being judged — at a speed and scale that no human brain was designed to handle. That's not a technology problem. That's a humanity problem.

The Case for a Social Media Age Ban (<16)

Haidt pushes hard on regulation here, which I think is necessary. Individual families can't solve this alone.

Require companies to treat minors differently than adults, with an extra duty of care. National governments should also raise the age of internet adulthood to 16.

Developing better age verification features, and by adding features that allow parents to designate their children's phones and computers as ones that should not be used freely.

I'm normally not a regulation-first person. But on this one? Yeah. When you've got a product that's been shown to triple depression rates in heavy users — and the users are children — you defs need guardrails that go beyond "just be a better parent." The platforms were designed to be addictive. Asking a 12-year-old to resist billion-dollar engagement algorithms with willpower alone is not a fair fight.

The Full Recommendations — What To Actually Do

This is the practical checklist at the end. If you take nothing else from the book, take these.

1/ No smartphones before high school.

2/ No social media before 16.

3/ Phone-free schools.

4/ Far more unsupervised play and childhood independence.

It should be to delay your children's full entry into the phone-based childhood by delaying when you give them their first smartphone (or any "smart" device). Give only basic phones before the start of high school, and try to coordinate with other parents so that your children do not feel that they are the only ones without smartphones in middle school.

The coordination piece is key. This isn't something you can do in isolation. You need your kid's friend group to be on the same page >> otherwise your kid is just the one without a phone, which creates its own social problems. Haidt's smartest insight might be that this requires collective action, not just individual parenting choices.

Including sending them to a technology-free sleepaway camp, going camping, and helping them find additional settings in which they can hang out with other children who are not carrying smartphones.

Encourage them to find part-time jobs and ways to learn from other adults. Consider an exchange program, a summer wilderness program, and a gap year.

Love this. Real-world experiences. Jobs. Travel. Wilderness. All the things that build actual resilience, not the performative resilience of curating an Instagram feed.

Most authorities recommend little or no screen time in the first 18–24 months (other than video calls with family members) and limited screen time through the age of 5 or 6.

Rafa is currently under 12 months and this is already our policy. No screens (except FaceTime with my parents in Austria). It's surprisingly easy when you commit to it. The hard part will be years 2–5, and then the real test comes when school starts and every other kid has a device.

Who Should Read This

• New parents or expecting parents — read this before your kid can hold a phone. Seriously. Having the framework early makes every decision easier.
• Anyone working in education — the phone-free schools section alone is worth your time. Practical, evidence-based, immediately implementable.
• People who grew up before smartphones and can't quite articulate why things feel different now — Haidt gives you the language and the data for what your gut already knows.
• Policy makers and community leaders — this is a collective action problem, not an individual parenting problem. You need the systemic view.
• Parents of teens who are already deep in the phone-based childhood — it's not too late. The recommendations section has specific steps for every age.
• Anyone who dismisses phone addiction concerns as "old people yelling at clouds" — the data in here is genuinely compelling. Give it a shot with an open mind.

I'm Michael Batko — 2x founder, 8 years leading Startmate, new dad to Rafa, now coaching founders and building in public. If you want more frameworks and startup insights, check out my newsletter or what I'm working on now.

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By Matthew Reilly

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Why This Book Matters to Me

I grew up on Matthew Reilly. If you're Australian and you read action books as a teenager, there's a very high chance you went through the Reilly phase — and honestly, you never fully leave it. The guy writes at a pace that doesn't let you breathe. Hover Car Racer is one of his more niche picks — it's a young adult novel set in a future where hover cars have replaced traditional racing — but it punches way above its weight class for what it is.

This is an easy, light-hearted, teenage story set in a future with hover cars and some fun, detailed racing stories. Basic hero-line and feel good. But it's also one of those books where the quotes hit harder than you'd expect. I came for the racing. I stayed for the life lessons buried inside a kid's adventure novel.

It's the kind of book you can smash through in a weekend. And sometimes that's exactly what you need.

Favourite Quotes

The quotes in this book are what elevate it from "fun read" to "genuinely memorable." For a young adult racing novel, Reilly sneaks in some real wisdom.

On Learning from Mistakes

'Don't resist your mistakes, Mr Chaser. Learn from them. To err is human, to make the same mistake twice . . . is stupid.'

Simple, but I love it. We all know we should learn from mistakes — but the way Reilly frames it hits different. The first mistake is human. The second one is a choice. That distinction matters whether you're a hover car racer or a founder.

On Defeat

It's not how we win that defines us, Jason, it's how we lose. Winners come and go, but the racer who goes down fighting will live forever in people's hearts.

This one stuck with me. We celebrate winners constantly — in startups, in sport, in life. But the people who genuinely inspire us? More often than not, it's the ones who got knocked down and kept going. The ones who lost with dignity and came back for more. That's the stuff that lasts.

On Heroes

A hero is not a person who doesn't get afraid. No. A hero is a person who takes action even when they are afraid.

Every leadership book I've read essentially says a version of this. Courage isn't the absence of fear — it's action in the presence of fear. The fact that a young adult hover car racing novel nails this definition better than most business books is both hilarious and kind of wonderful.

On Working Hard

This is the standout passage of the whole book:

'Because of everything you just said. You are better than me. You have heaps more natural talent than I do. But I work harder than you do. That's why I won. And that's why you've been scared of me all year — that's why you sent Dido to distract me, that's why you sent her to get information on me. And that's why, Prince Xavier, if we ever meet again on a racetrack, I'll beat you there too. Have a nice life.'

How good is that speech. Pure fire. This is the underdog story at its finest — talent vs hard work, and hard work winning. It's the kind of passage that makes you want to put the book down, go to your desk, and get after it. Doesn't matter if you're 14 or 40 — that message lands every time.

The "heaps more natural talent" line is peak Australian, too. Reilly knows his audience.

Who Should Read This

• Teenagers who love racing, action, or sci-fi — this is a gateway drug to reading
• Parents looking for a fun, values-driven book to give their kids
• Anyone who grew up on Matthew Reilly and wants a nostalgia hit
• Readers who need a palate cleanser between heavier books — this is a one-weekend read
• Anyone who believes hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard

Original article: Book Summary — Hover Car Racer on Medium

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By Will Wight

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Easy read. Crazy world. With lots of species, superpowers and where just the most unexpected keeps happening over and over again. And perfectly balanced with a great sense of humour and lightness. Think space opera meets magic system meets genuinely funny banter -- Will Wight nails the combo of high-stakes cosmic battles and moments that make you laugh out loud. I smashed through this one.

Why I picked this up

I'm a sucker for sci-fi/fantasy that doesn't take itself too seriously. When a book can mix galaxy-scale threats with laugh-out-loud dialogue, I'm in. Last Horizon sits in that sweet spot -- big ideas, wild powers, and characters who are genuinely fun to hang out with. It's the kind of book I reach for when I want something fast, entertaining, and surprisingly thoughtful between the action scenes.

Sentience

One of the things Wight does brilliantly is play with the idea of AI consciousness -- but with a wink:

"If it would help improve your performance, I could pretend to be sentient." Her face took on an unconvincing expression of doubt. "What is my place in this universe? What is my meaning? My impending mortality lends a sense of value to my rapidly dwindling life."

This cracked me up. In a world where we're all debating whether AI is "really" thinking, Wight turns the whole question into a joke. The fake existential crisis is perfect.

Humour

The humour in this series is next level. Wight has this knack for comedic timing in written form -- which is genuinely hard to pull off:

"Not murderers," the giant android repeated, in a deep synthetic voice that most definitely sounded like he was a murderer. "This is acknowledged."

And then there's this absolute gem:

"I am the Zenith Cannon! Now, a quick quiz before I see if you're worthy of wielding me. How many ships would you say you've blown up?" Sola shrugged. "That was the correct answer! Congratulations, you've passed all the trials to wield the Zenith Cannon!"

The Zenith Cannon scene had me grinning. It's that Terry Pratchett-style absurdism where the world's internal logic is so committed to being ridiculous that it somehow becomes more real.

Efficiency as a Gift

Shyrax's Technician gift was 'efficiency.' She could modify systems to work slightly better. Her magic evoked the power of her draconic predecessors, and her Combat Art operated on the principle of self-empowerment.

Efficiency as a superpower. I love this concept. Not the flashiest gift, but the kind that compounds -- making systems work slightly better, over and over. There's something very startup-y about that. The person who makes everything 5% better is often more valuable than the one with the big flashy move.

Romance

"Try it!" Lemon shouted. "When you hold onto a lemon, you'll find that it burns!" Omega staggered in place. "Lemon, are you single? I think I may love you."

The romance beats in this book are hilarious. It's not your typical slow-burn -- it's chaotic, unexpected, and delivered through some of the most absurd dialogue exchanges. Wight clearly has fun with it.

Body is a Vessel for your Mind

"Your body is the vessel for your mind," Shyrax called. "It is your most vital tool, and you should care for it as such."

Simple line. Sticks with you though. I've been thinking more about this lately -- the intersection of physical health and mental performance. It shows up in fiction, in leadership books, in conversations with founders. Your body is the infrastructure. Neglect it and everything else degrades.

Who Should Read This

• Anyone who loved Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy or Discworld and wants that vibe in a space opera
• Sci-fi/fantasy readers who want something fun and fast -- not a 1,200-page commitment per book
• People who enjoy creative magic systems (Brandon Sanderson fans, this one's for you)
• Anyone who needs a palate cleanser between heavy non-fiction reads -- this is it

I'm Michael Batko — 2x founder, 8 years leading Startmate, now coaching founders and building in public. If you want more book summaries, startup insights, and frameworks, check out my newsletter or what I'm working on now.

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By James Islington

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Why This Book Matters to Me

I'm a sucker for fantasy worlds that make you think. After every 3 to 4 business or psychology books, I need a fantasy novel to reset — it's how I keep my reading habit sustainable without burning out on frameworks. Will of the Many was one of those books that didn't just reset me. It rewired me.

The premise sounds wild on paper: a world where power literally flows upward through a hierarchy, where the people at the bottom give their life force to fuel the people at the top. It's a pyramid scheme — but with people's actual lives. And yet, Islington makes it feel entirely real. The world-building is intricate, the main character is genuinely fun to follow, and the plot kept getting more complex in the best possible way.

I was so absorbed that when I finished, I immediately went looking for the sequel — only to find it hadn't come out yet. That feeling of reaching the end of a book and being genuinely gutted there's no more? That's the mark of a great fantasy read.

What surprised me most was how many of the quotes landed outside the fantasy context. Lines about leadership, about nervousness as a gift, about the difference between complainers and doers — these stuck with me long after I put the book down. I've spent 8 years working with founders and leading teams, and some of the sharpest leadership insights I've come across were buried inside this fictional hierarchy.

1 Paragraph Summary

EPIC fantasy world of the ultimate pyramid scheme but with people's lives and powers. Such a fascinating world with fun twists and a light-hearted fun main character. A massive plot throughout the book which gets more and more intricate, and I was so sad when I finished the book but the second part hadn't come out (!)

A Bit of Humour

"So let's start again. Without the lies, this time."

"Alright," I lie.

This sets the tone immediately. Vis (the main character) is charming, sharp, and self-aware in a way that makes you root for him from page one. He's dropped into a world that demands deception just to survive — and he's very good at it. There's something about a protagonist who knows the game, knows it's rigged, and plays it anyway with a wink. It reminds me of the Gentlemen Bastards from Locke Lamora — that same energy of "I know this is absurd, and I'm going to lean all the way in."

The Lie of the Pyramid Scheme

"STRONGER TOGETHER. It's the great lie of the Hierarchy, proclaimed generation after generation by an ever-growing mob in thrall to the concept. Part of me understands why. There's a power to the phrase, an allure. It promises inclusion. Protection. Comradery. Common purpose. Belonging."

This passage hit me harder than I expected. It's fantasy, but it's also a mirror. How many times have you heard a version of "stronger together" used to justify a system that mostly benefits the people at the top? Islington is writing about a fictional hierarchy, but the critique lands because we've all seen versions of it in the real world — in companies, in ecosystems, in politics.

The brilliance of the book's world-building is that the hierarchy isn't just a metaphor. It's literally how power works. People at the bottom give their will (their life force) to those above them. It's visceral in a way that makes you uncomfortable — because the logic of it isn't that far from systems we accept every day.

Silence as a Statement

"Silence is a statement, Diago. Inaction picks a side. And when those lead to personal benefit, they are complicity."

This is my favourite quote from the entire book. It's the kind of line that reaches beyond the page.

I've been thinking about this a lot — in leadership, in the startup ecosystem, in life. One of my favourite daily reflection questions (which I picked up from an interview with Hannah Yan Field) is: "How am I complicit in creating the circumstances that I'm not happy with?" It's the same idea. Staying quiet, doing nothing, looking the other way — that's not neutrality. It's a choice. And if you benefit from staying silent, you're complicit.

Islington nails it in a single line. That's good writing.

Nervousness Is a Blessing

"It's true." He was always so gentle. "Nervousness means there's a fear to be faced ahead, Diago. The man who is never nervous, never does anything hard. The man who is never nervous, never grows." He stroked my hair. "Do all you can to think of it as an opportunity. A blessing. No matter how it makes you feel in here."

I've written about this idea before — the concept of reaching for the role just outside your comfort zone. That knot in your stomach before a big talk, a hard conversation, a career leap? It's not a warning to stop. It's a signal that you're about to grow.

This quote from a fantasy novel captures the feeling better than most self-help books I've read. The gentleness of it — a mentor reframing fear not as weakness but as evidence of courage. If you're never nervous, you're never stretching. I wish someone had said this to me in exactly these words ten years ago.

Complainers vs Doers

"There are those who see what should be, and complain that they do not get their due. And then there are those who see what is, and figure out how to use it to their advantage. Or at the least, overcome it."

This is the kind of line that separates people who build things from people who talk about building things. I've seen it play out hundreds of times across the Startmate ecosystem — the founders who succeed aren't the ones waiting for the world to be fair. They're the ones who look at the messy reality in front of them and figure out how to move through it.

Complaining is comfortable. It feels productive because you're identifying problems. But it's not the same as doing something about them. Islington puts this divide front and centre in a fantasy world, but the divide is universal.

Not One of Us Has the Right to Lead

"You need to be caring, and judgmental. You need to pre-empt but never unfairly. You need to be completely honest with your people, but be mindful of what information could harm them. You need to — "

"It's impossible," I said, somewhat impatiently. "You're saying there's no such thing as a good ruler."

"There isn't." He sounded surprised that I got the answer so quickly, though he didn't compliment me on it. "And this is the risk of our world, Diago. The flaw of our system is in its head. In us. The qualities of a king change the kingdom. And not one of us is perfect enough to have a right to lead."

This is the passage that made me pause and reread it twice.

The idea that nobody is truly qualified to lead — and that recognising this is actually what makes you a better leader — is something I've come to believe deeply. The best leaders I've worked with carry a quiet awareness that they're not enough. Not in a self-doubting, paralysing way. In a way that keeps them honest, keeps them listening, keeps them improving.

It echoes something I loved in Mistborn — Tindwyl coaching Elend on kingship, the tension between humility and decisiveness. Fantasy writers seem to understand something about leadership that business authors often miss: the contradiction is the point. You need to be caring AND judgmental. Honest AND careful. Confident AND humble. All at once.

Not one of us is perfect enough to have the right to lead. But someone has to. And the ones who know they're not perfect? They tend to do a better job.

What Makes This Book Special

Will of the Many stands out in the fantasy genre because its world-building isn't just clever — it's uncomfortable. The hierarchy isn't a backdrop. It IS the story. Every relationship, every power dynamic, every alliance is shaped by this system where human will literally flows upward. It makes you question the systems you live inside every day.

And then there's Vis. He's a protagonist you root for because he's smart, funny, and fundamentally decent — but he's also a liar, an outsider, and someone who has to hide who he really is to survive. The tension between who he is and who he pretends to be drives every chapter forward.

Islington manages the rare trick of writing a plot that gets more complex without getting confusing. Every twist earned its moment. Every revelation recontextualised something you'd already read. By the final act, I was completely locked in — and then it ended, and I wanted to throw the book across the room (in the best way).

Who Should Read This

• Fantasy fans looking for a fresh take — the "power as pyramid scheme" premise is genuinely original and brilliantly executed
• Readers who loved the political intrigue of Name of the Wind or Stormlight Archive — this has that same layered world-building with real stakes
• Anyone who appreciates a clever, likeable protagonist — Vis is charming without being annoying, smart without being infallible
• People who like their fantasy with philosophical weight — the quotes about leadership, complicity, and nervousness aren't throwaway lines, they're central to the story
• If you've read Mistborn, Lies of Locke Lamora, or Mother of Learning and want something in a similar vein — defs pick this up

Original article: Book Summary — Will of Many on Medium

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By Drew Hayes

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Why This Book Matters to Me

I picked up Super Powereds expecting a light, easy read — a fun superhero story to smash through between heavier books. What I got was four books that I genuinely couldn't put down. It starts out feeling like a young adult college novel, but Drew Hayes does something clever: he builds each character so carefully over the course of the series that by the end you're deeply invested in all of them.

What hooked me most were the mysteries. They keep popping up, layering on top of each other, and just when you think you've figured something out — Hayes pulls the rug. The ending of each book lands with a massive plot twist and/or fight. The end of Book 2 with Nick's big reveal was an absolute masterstroke. I did not see it coming.

If you're someone who loves fantasy and sci-fi but hasn't explored the superhero genre in book form — this series is a brilliant entry point. And if you've been looking for something fun, immersive, and surprisingly deep, Super Powereds delivers.

1 Paragraph Summary

Such a fun and easy read. Immersive world of superhuman powers that starts off like a young adult college book, but builds each character out over the course of the four books. Couple that with more and more mysteries which keep popping up and getting uncovered and I was hooked. What I loved in particular though was the ending of each book in a massive plot twist and/or fight. The end of Book 2 with Nick's massive twist was a masterstroke.

On Survival

"He had done quite well and had adhered to the primary tenants of survival in a new area: speak much, say little, and see all."

This applies way beyond a superhero novel. "Speak much, say little, and see all" — that's elite-level advice for anyone walking into a new role, a new company, or a new community. Say enough to be present. Reveal little until you understand the landscape. Observe everything.

On Experience

"What is experience if not the accumulation of scars and lessons that allow us to use our mind, bodies, and powers more effectively?"

This hit me. Experience isn't just time served — it's scars plus reflection. The people who grow fastest are the ones who actually learn from what happens to them, not just the ones who've been around the longest.

On Luck and Cheating

"Be good," Ms. Pips told him with a kiss on the cheek. "And always remember: luck is for tourists and losers."

"Winners cheat," she and Nick finished together in unison.

Nick is one of the most fascinating characters in the series, and this motto captures his entire philosophy. There's something about it that resonates beyond the book. The best operators I know don't rely on luck — they create asymmetric advantages and stack the odds in their favour. Not by being dishonest, but by being more prepared than anyone else.

On Paranoia

"Nick often thought of paranoia as nothing more than extreme preparedness."

I love this reframe. What looks like paranoia from the outside is often just someone who's thought three steps ahead. Nick lives by this — and honestly, most good strategists do too.

On Time as the Opposing Force

"An object at rest will stay at rest. An object in motion will stay in motion, unless it is acted on by an opposing force. Time is a tremendously effective opposing force."

Newton's first law applied to life. Time erodes momentum, dulls enthusiasm, and softens urgency. The people who maintain forward motion despite time working against them — those are the ones who build something that lasts. This quote is deceptively simple and incredibly true.

On the Impossible

"Sometimes, attaining the impossible was simply a matter of continuously putting one foot in front of the other, no matter what."

This is the core ethos of the whole series, really. The main characters were "Powereds" — people whose abilities were considered broken, uncontrollable, lesser. The whole story is about them proving that persistence and heart can close the gap that raw talent opens. One foot in front of the other. Over and over. Until the impossible isn't.

On Heroes and Unpopular Decisions

"Heroes don't cave to the pressures of hate. Heroes do what's right, no matter what. So what if some people don't show up? I say it's more important to set the example of acceptance even when, no, especially when it's an unpopular decision."

This is leadership advice dressed up as superhero philosophy. The best leaders I've worked with make the right call even when it costs them popularity. Especially then. Doing the right thing when everyone's watching and cheering is easy. Doing it when people are booing — that's the real test.

On Angels vs Monsters

"Vince, do you know what the difference between monsters and angels is? It's whether they're on your side or not."

Dark. True. Perspective shapes everything. The same intensity, the same power, the same relentlessness — hero or villain depends entirely on where you're standing.

On Being a Weirdo

"I'm not insinuating that these things were all your fault, I'm merely stating the simple truth that your lives are somewhat more unexpected than an average person's."

"That's probably the nicest way anyone has ever called me a weirdo."

The humour in Super Powereds is genuinely good. Hayes balances the heavy moments with lines like this that make you laugh out loud. The characters feel real because they can joke about themselves.

On Habits

"A person will lie with their words, face, and even actions. What they can't lie through is their habits. No one keeps doing things they hate, not long-term. Human, Super, Powered, everyone eventually weasels out of things they dislike. You want to know what matters most to someone? Look at their habits."

This might be my favourite quote from the entire series. It's basically the thesis of Atomic Habits compressed into a paragraph inside a superhero novel. You want to know what someone truly values? Don't listen to what they say. Watch what they do, repeatedly, over time. Habits don't lie.

On Love as the Ultimate Demon

"You know, people give things like greed and wrath a bad rap. Sure, they'll cause plenty of folks to make some poor, shortsighted decisions, but in the end they lack staying power. Now love, on the other hand, love is in a whole different category. Love is what can truly turn people into demons."

Hayes understands that the most dangerous motivator isn't anger or greed — it's love. Love makes people irrational, relentless, and willing to do things they'd never otherwise consider. It's the force multiplier of all human emotion, for better or worse.

Who Should Read This

• Anyone looking for a fun, immersive series that's easy to pick up but hard to put down — perfect between heavier reads
• Fantasy and sci-fi fans who haven't explored superhero fiction in book form — this is a brilliant gateway
• People who love character-driven stories where the "underdogs" earn their place through grit and perseverance
• Fans of series like Mistborn or Name of the Wind who enjoy deep world-building with a satisfying payoff
• Anyone who appreciates clever plot twists — Hayes is genuinely masterful at end-of-book reveals

Original article: Book Summary — Super Powereds on Medium

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By Brad Stone

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This book is wild. It's the full history of Amazon — from Bezos leaving Wall Street to build an online bookstore, all the way to the everything-machine it is today. What blew me away wasn't just the timeline (marketplace, Kindle, AWS, the lot), it was the operating principles underneath. Customer obsession. Ruthless long-term thinking. Frugality bordering on insanity. Some of the behaviour in this book is genuinely hard to stomach — the shouting, the tax games, the way warehouse workers were treated. But the lessons on decision-making, team structure, and communication? Absolute gold. I've referenced heaps of these frameworks with Startmate founders and they hold up every time.

The Regret Minimisation Framework

This one has stuck with me for years. Bezos used it to make the scariest decision of his career — quitting a Wall Street job mid-year to start Amazon.

When you are in the thick of things, you can get confused by small stuff. I know when I was eighty that I would never, for example, think about why I walked away from my 1994 Wall Street bonus right in the middle of the year at the worst possible time. That kind of thing just isn't something you worry about when you're eighty years old. At the same time, I know that I might sincerely regret not having participated in this thing called the Internet which I thought was going to be a revolutionising event. When I thought about it that way... it was incredibly easy to make a decision.

The "regret minimisation framework" >> project yourself to age 80 >> ask which decision you'd regret NOT making >> then just do that thing.

Simple but incredibly powerful. When I sold my business after seeing two pink lines on a stick, this exact framework was running in the back of my head. The short-term stuff (timing, bonuses, what people think) fades. The long-term stuff (did I take the shot?) never does.

I've seen this play out with founders too. The ones who hesitate for months about leaving their job to go full-time on their startup? They're optimising for short-term comfort. The ones who use the regret lens? They move.

Customer Obsession Over Competitor Obsession

This is probs the most important lesson in the entire book. Bezos was relentless about it:

Look, you should wake up worried, terrified every morning, but don't be worried about our competitors, because they're never going to send us any money anyway. Let's be worried about our customers and stay heads-down focused.

This is something I bang on about constantly. When I review Startmate applications, I jump straight to the customer question — not for the obvious reason, but to get a sense of one thing: customer obsession. You DON'T have to have revenue. We invest before founders have paying customers, before product, before an MVP, even at the ideation stage. What you HAVE to have is a love for your customers.

The founders who obsess over what competitors are doing? They build reactive products. The founders who obsess over their customers? They build things people actually want.

Bezos baked this into Amazon's DNA from day one. Everything — the flywheel, the pricing, the infrastructure — flows from "what does the customer need?" not "what is the competitor doing?"

Ignore the Stock Price

One of my favourite moments in the book. During the dotcom crash, Amazon's stock was getting absolutely hammered. Bezos's response?

Bezos scrawled "I am not my stock price" on the whiteboard and instructed everyone to ignore the mounting pessimism. You don't feel 30% smarter when the stock goes up, so when the stock goes down you shouldn't feel 30% dumber.

Then he dropped this Buffett quote that I've shared with heaps of founders since:

"In the short term, the stock market is a voting machine. In the long term, it's a weighing machine."

This applies way beyond public markets. Early-stage founders go through the same emotional rollercoaster — a big customer signs up and you feel invincible, a key hire falls through and you feel like a fraud. Neither feeling is accurate. The short-term signal is noisy. The long-term results are what actually count.

Stay heads-down. Do the work. Let the weighing machine do its thing.

The Amazon Flywheel

This is one of the most elegant business models ever drawn on a napkin:

Lower prices led to more customer visits. More customers increased the volume of sales and attracted more commission-paying third-party sellers to the site. That allowed Amazon to get more out of fixed costs like fulfilment centers and website servers. This greater efficiency then enabled it to lower prices further. Feed any part of this flywheel and it accelerated the loop.

I love flywheels. I've built them at Startmate and I tweet about them probs too much. But the reason they're so powerful is this >> every investment compounds. You're not just doing one thing well. You're making every other thing better by doing that one thing well.

The key insight from the Amazon flywheel: it doesn't matter WHERE you start feeding it. Lower prices, more selection, better logistics — any entry point accelerates the whole system. Most founders try to do everything at once. The flywheel says: pick one thing, pour fuel on it, and watch the rest spin up.

Communication Is Bad

This one is genuinely counterintuitive and I had to sit with it for a while:

Communication is a sign of dysfunction. It means people aren't working together in a close, organic way. We should be trying to figure out a way for teams to communicate less with each other, not more.

Wait, what? Less communication?

Bezos's argument is that if teams need to constantly talk to each other to get stuff done, the org structure is wrong. The fix isn't more Slack channels >> it's better team boundaries and clearer ownership.

Bezos then vowed to run Amazon with an emphasis on decentralisation and independent decision-making.

This connects to something I've seen play out at scale. The best-run companies I've worked with don't have endless cross-functional meetings. They have small, autonomous teams with clear missions who can move fast without asking permission.

Two-Pizza Teams

The structural implementation of that communication philosophy:

The entire company would restructure itself around what he called "two-pizza teams". Employees would be organised into autonomous groups of fewer than ten people — small enough that, when working late, the team members could be fed with two pizza pies. These teams would be independently set loose on Amazon's biggest problems.

Small teams. Clear ownership. No bureaucracy.

This is defs one of the most influential org design ideas to come out of the last 30 years. Every startup I work with eventually hits the "we need more coordination" wall around 15-30 people. The two-pizza team model is the answer >> don't coordinate more, restructure so you need to coordinate less.

Give each team a problem, give them autonomy, get out of the way.

Powerpoint vs. Written Narratives

This one changed how I think about meetings:

Powerpoint is a very imprecise communication mechanism. It is fantastically easy to hide behind bullet points. You are never forced to express your thoughts completely.

Oof. That hits hard. How many pitch decks have I seen where the bullet points sound impressive but the actual thinking behind them is paper-thin?

Bezos announced that employees could no longer use such corporate crutches and would have to write their presentations in prose, in what he called narratives. The S-Team debated with him over the wisdom of scrapping Powerpoint but Bezos insisted. He wanted people thinking deeply and taking the time to express their thoughts cogently. "I don't want this place to become a country club. What we do is hard. This is not where people go to retire."

Writing forces clarity. If you can't explain something in full sentences, you probs don't understand it well enough. Bullet points let you fake understanding. Prose doesn't.

I'm not saying throw out all your pitch decks (I've helped build enough of them). But the discipline of writing out your thinking in full — before you present it — is an epic forcing function. The best founders I know can write clearly about what they're building and why. The ones who can only speak in bullet points? They usually haven't done the deep thinking yet.

The Ruthless Side

I'd be doing the book a disservice if I didn't mention the darker parts. Stone doesn't shy away from them:

1/ Acquisitions — Bezos had heaps of failures early on, then regrouped and became absolutely ruthless. The Zappos acquisition story in particular is intense — Amazon basically built a competing product (Endless.com) to drive Zappos into a corner before buying them.

2/ Workplace culture — the shouting, the swearing, the public dressing-downs. So hard to imagine in the current day and age. It worked for Amazon's growth, but at what human cost?

3/ Tax avoidance — Amazon structured everything to be insanely frugal, walking right down the line of legality on worker treatment and tax structures.

This is the tension of the book. Many of the principles (customer obsession, long-term thinking, narrative writing) are genuinely brilliant. But the execution sometimes crossed lines that I'm not comfortable with. You can take the frameworks without taking the ruthlessness.

Who Should Read This

• Founders building marketplaces or platforms — the flywheel thinking alone is worth it
• Anyone who says "we need better communication" in their company — read the two-pizza teams chapter first
• Product people who want to understand what customer obsession actually looks like at scale (not just as a buzzword)
• Leaders making hard decisions — the regret minimisation framework is a keeper
• Anyone keen to understand how the biggest companies in the world were actually built — messy, ruthless, and human

I'm Michael Batko — 2x founder, 8 years leading Startmate, now coaching founders and building in public. If you want more frameworks and startup insights, check out my newsletter or what I'm working on now.

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