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            <title><![CDATA[Money on the Unicorn]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/self-crafted/money-on-the-unicorn-cd3bc2c3a942?source=rss----ee094ca71cbe---4"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2048/1*oafg4Y5AIFOykH2m6wc2jQ.png" width="2048"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">A short story about a boy, a girl &amp; a poem on the wall</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/self-crafted/money-on-the-unicorn-cd3bc2c3a942?source=rss----ee094ca71cbe---4">Continue reading on Self-Crafted »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 04 Jun 2024 14:10:06 GMT</pubDate>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 04 May 2024 23:59:09 GMT</pubDate>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Self</h4><h4>A reflection</h4><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*aZ9PbXzyfCh1GrRrPucarw.jpeg" /><figcaption><strong>Not writing, but it looks like I was having a good self-esteem day! </strong>Photo by Pablo Pereyra (2024)</figcaption></figure><p>To be a writer or creator, we need to have a reasonable degree of self-esteem. It is necessary to believe in oneself. To believe in what we have to say. To be convinced that what we say is more than noise to fill the ether.</p><p>Otherwise, why write? How do we press publish? How do we conjure the courage to tell our stories? The stories that are important to us.</p><p>If we have no self-esteem, how can we consider our story important enough for us so to feel it deserves to be said? How can we tell it beyond receiving validation or the lack of it?</p><p>By writing and the acts of creation, we reclaim our story and, through words, regain the right to craft our future, our essence, the atemporal part of us beyond what others tell us we are.</p><p><a href="https://medium.com/u/f2bfc38ba8e2"><strong>Pablo Pereyra</strong></a><strong> 2024. <em>Thank you for reading.</em></strong></p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=5b55865ed503" width="1" height="1" alt=""><hr><p><a href="https://medium.com/self-crafted/self-esteem-and-writing-5b55865ed503">Self-Esteem and Writing</a> was originally published in <a href="https://medium.com/self-crafted">Self-Crafted</a> on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[I’ve never been to Thailand, but I’ve been told…]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/self-crafted/ive-never-been-to-thailand-but-i-ve-been-told-f88c9ba665de?source=rss----ee094ca71cbe---4"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1369/1*_ejg-EInrS_phGPiDQdX-Q.png" width="1369"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">There&#x2019;s a restaurant on the beach somewhere&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/self-crafted/ive-never-been-to-thailand-but-i-ve-been-told-f88c9ba665de?source=rss----ee094ca71cbe---4">Continue reading on Self-Crafted »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 29 Sep 2023 11:45:31 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Three Queens]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 07 Jan 2023 06:10:09 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Leaves like Prayers]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/self-crafted/leaves-like-prayers-dc65545af793?source=rss----ee094ca71cbe---4"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2268/1*06gbjfCWqi27RiQ1GCA6BA.png" width="2268"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Sending Love in a Kyrielle after the Flooding, with a Photo Story of our Wisteria</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/self-crafted/leaves-like-prayers-dc65545af793?source=rss----ee094ca71cbe---4">Continue reading on Self-Crafted »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2022 01:13:44 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Veil Between Worlds]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/self-crafted/the-veil-between-worlds-2e912e7799b7?source=rss----ee094ca71cbe---4"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1556/0*MuZJeOInDYPVKhAH" width="1556"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">An All Hallows&#x2019; Eve sonnet &amp; a spooky 20-word story</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/self-crafted/the-veil-between-worlds-2e912e7799b7?source=rss----ee094ca71cbe---4">Continue reading on Self-Crafted »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 04:24:24 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Coin Between Us]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[James G Brennan]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2022 15:59:43 GMT</pubDate>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>POETRY</h4><p>Product Placement</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*sAk6g34cAhY9Ylnecw1Hxw.png" /><figcaption>Photo: J G. Brennan.</figcaption></figure><p>It’s a rare occasion, one engaged in out of due respect,<br>to put money on the wealthy church plate.<br>Born out of childhood influence,<br>born out of control important to you.</p><p>The trouble is, that coin placed on my lap<br>as you would a six year old child,<br>does not sit well on the lap of a matured man<br>who now feels devalued, an elder brother to the deflated coin.</p><p>I place it in the space between us, chiding you<br>for your insolence, suppressing frustration I’d rather not,<br>in a place I’d rather not, while your face turns red<br>at the audacity of this child who’s grown too big for their boots.</p><p>The same child who just weeks previously<br>had tried to make porridge their own quirky way; with water!<br>It did not end well, with a red face and excuses.<br>This time, there were no excuses with that coin between us.</p><p><a href="https://medium.com/u/cab83351e96d">James G Brennan</a> 2022</p><p><em>Thank you, </em><a href="https://medium.com/u/b70f1475c784"><em>Lee Ameka</em></a><em> for giving my words a platform. </em>🙏🙏</p><p><em>Thank you all for reading and your precious time. Always. J.</em> 🙏☘💎💥🙏</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=213b6b412ec2" width="1" height="1" alt=""><hr><p><a href="https://medium.com/self-crafted/the-coin-between-us-213b6b412ec2">The Coin Between Us</a> was originally published in <a href="https://medium.com/self-crafted">Self-Crafted</a> on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[That Wilding Woman who ‘Launched’ the Queen]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/self-crafted/that-wilding-woman-who-launched-the-queen-d1a21b23d330?source=rss----ee094ca71cbe---4"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/640/1*LOsARauyZsrQd9Aa7wdkcg.jpeg" width="640"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Dorothy Wilding: Self-Made Superstar Photographer</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/self-crafted/that-wilding-woman-who-launched-the-queen-d1a21b23d330?source=rss----ee094ca71cbe---4">Continue reading on Self-Crafted »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Lee Ameka]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Sun, 11 Sep 2022 14:09:30 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Stone Prince]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2022 14:11:33 GMT</pubDate>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Lee Ameka]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2022 16:42:05 GMT</pubDate>
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