It was evening. One word was spoken, but everything remained unsaid.

Sometimes, the hardest things to say are the ones we keep to ourselves. When she said “Fine” and I replied with “Okay,” so much was left unsaid. Our tea just sat there and got cold.

When someone says “fine,” it often isn’t just a word. It can feel like a wall.

The pressure cooker stopped whistling.

That was the first sign. The kitchen was completely quiet. The ceiling fan kept whirring softly. There was no steam coming from my tea.

My Mother sat across from me and hadn’t even stirred her tea.

I asked her the same question I always do.

“Are you okay?”

She looked at the cup. She didn’t look at me, just at the cup.

“Fine.”

Just one word, one syllable. It was the shortest sentence she’d ever said.

But that word didn’t land the way words usually do. It seemed to sink into the table, then the floor, down to the place where she’d spent years pretending she was all right, always saying, “I’m fine.”

After those words, there was a pause.

It wasn’t a long pause, maybe just two or three seconds.

But in those few seconds, I could hear everything she hadn’t said.

I could hear about those dreams she gave up long before I was born.
I could hear the resentment she had held onto for so long, enough to set her jaw.
I could hear the exhaustion inside her bones, the kind she had never named.
I could hear the love she felt, the kind she couldn’t fully put into words.

Then I heard my own voice, quiet and empty, asking again, “Are you sure?”

She nodded, picked up her cup, and took a sip. The tea was cold.

This is what I didn’t say.

I didn’t say, “You’re not fine. I can see that. I see the weight you’re carrying, and I remember the woman you were before you became my mother.”

I didn’t say, “You can tell me. You can put that burden down. You don’t have to carry it all by yourself anymore.”

I didn’t say, ‘I’m sorry for asking a question when I already knew the answer.’

What I did say was, “Okay”

Then I picked up my cup and took a sip. The tea was cold.

That was the moment.

It wasn’t the words themselves. It was the pause that came after.

In those two seconds, we both of us understood everything. The kitchen seemed still. The ceiling fan kept spinning, not sure what else to do.

That pause said more than any words possibly could.

I’ve spent years thinking about that evening.

I remember how she looked at the cup instead of me. She said ‘fine’ like the door had just closed. I said ‘okay’ as if I had accepted it.

I often wonder what might have happened if I had said something different. What if I had reached across the table and put my hand over hers? What if I had said, “You don’t have to pretend you’re ‘ok’ in front of me”?

But I didn’t. Back then, I was very young and didn’t yet understand how to read between the lines.

Now I get it.

“Fine” isn’t just a simple word. It’s a wall. When you can’t be honest about how you really feel, it becomes a place to hide. In some ways, it’s even a gift to the person asking. It’s a way to keep them comfortable.

‘Are you okay?’ isn’t always just a question. Sometimes it’s a test. Other times, it’s a sign of promise. It can also mean, ‘I see you. I’m here with you. Please let me into your world.’

My mother still says “fine”, even when she really isn’t.

I still ask “are you okay?”, even though I already know the answer.

But something has changed. I’ve learned to sit quietly and let the peace be. Now, after she says “fine,” I tell her, “I’m right here. Let me know when you’re ready.”

She doesn’t always answer, but sometimes she does.

Sometimes, after a pause, she says, “I’m tired.”

And I say, “I know.”

We just sit together. The tea grows cold. The ceiling fan keeps spinning.

And that’s enough.

Is there a pause that has stayed with you?

What do you think was really said between the lines?

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It was my last viva of second phase, and we were almost a day away from entering our final year.

We were called in pairs, and he had been my viva partner since the first year.

"The next two," the external examiner called.

I was like, Not again!

He used to disappear five minutes before his turn every single time.

And then I saw him.

A boy walking towards me in a maroon shirt and beige formals, with a white coat completing the combination so perfectly. Apparently, he had finally learned the language of good colour combinations.

Someone asked us to bring a notebook page inside to write down the questions.

I was still looking for one when he divided his page into two and handed me half.

Our eyes met after almost two years.

This time, it felt nostalgic. Almost like the first year.

I noticed his right ear was a little red.

Back to 11 December 2023, the first week of our college.

I was walking through the corridor when I saw him in a sky-blue hoodie, black jeans and sports shoes, adjusting his white coat with a little anxiety on his face.

That was the first time our eyes met.

I had almost forgotten that moment, except for one random detail my heart had somehow decided to remember.

One of his ears had turned red.

I noticed the same thing during his first presentation, too. Whenever he felt anxious, his ears would turn red.

People had their own reasons to admire him. Someone thought he was the most handsome boy in class. Someone admired his height, facial features and manners.

But I noticed different things.

How he would look away whenever I caught him staring. How we would smile at each other during embarrassing moments. How he sometimes seemed to notice me even in a room full of people.

Once, I missed my attendance because I was busy talking to my friend. When sir called his roll number next, he marked his attendance and looked at me with the most ridiculous smile.

The moment I raised my eyebrow, his smile disappeared, almost as if he had suddenly become scared of me.

My heart smiled at that memory for a long time.

We never really talked…Not once… Not casually… not during exams…not even a hello.

But we had countless little moments.

The eye contacts, witnessing the worst vivas together, catching each other staring.

I remember the dissection classes, too. How he would struggle to find me among all those people and sometimes stand behind me so I wouldn’t get scared while making wrong incision.

And the blush I would hide behind my mask.

Until one random day, I found out he had started dating someone else.

Slowly, I stopped noticing him.

We were still in the same group, attending the same lectures and sharing presentations, but I no longer cared whether he was present or absent.

He noticed me avoiding his eyes and keeping my distance. So he took a step back, too.

And from that day, our eyes never met again.

Until that last viva day.

After the viva, everyone gathered to collect their journal books. I was standing among almost fifteen other people, struggling to find mine.

I hadn't even noticed whether he was there.

Until he appeared with my books in his hands.

He didn't look at me. He simply handed them over and left with his own.

I stood there with a few questions.

How did he know where I was standing among all those people?

Why had he brought my books?

Why did he even care?

Did I really mean something to him once, too?

I don't know.

And strangely, I didn't feel the need to find out.

I came outside and sat on the stairs, thinking about how quickly time had passed.

Three years.

I am in my final year now.

The next year, he wouldn't be my next roll number. We would have different shifts, different schedules and eventually, different lives.

That day, I felt a strange fear of losing something I thought I had already lost long ago.

Maybe it wasn't just about him.

Maybe it was about the version of me who had walked into this college three years ago.

Had I really lived these years, or had I spent too much time waiting for something to happen?

Neither does he look at me anymore, nor do I find myself looking for him.

The boy who once made me notice the smallest details has become just another familiar face in college.

Three years ago, we were just two strangers who wanted a few more glances at each other amidst all the mess around us.

Now, we are still almost strangers, getting ready to leave the same place with so much left unsaid between us.

And perhaps that's what growing up looks like.

Not every story ends with a conversation. Not every connection needs an explanation. Sometimes, people simply become part of a particular version of our lives, and time quietly moves them into our memories.

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I quit working at the cat sanctuary recently, leaving my son in charge. Let it be known I didn’t walk away from the cats. I also don’t wish the sanctuary had never existed. Instead, I’ve chosen to no longer be the one who holds everything together. Unfortunately, this is harder to explain than it sounds.

This kind of tired isn’t about work.

Sure, I was exhausted. This isn’t something a sanctuary cares about, nor is it what finally drove me to quit.

In a little over a year, we lost five cats.

If you’ve ever loved an animal, you know grief is real. If you’ve been the person responsible for their daily care, who knew their habits and their favorite spots and which ones needed the pill hidden in the food, you know it hits differently. Loving them meant losing them, again and again, and at some point I realized I had run out of room to keep absorbing it.

From the very beginning I’d made it clear I wasn’t here for hospice care. That work takes someone very special and I’m not made for it. Nevertheless, here we were, losing cat after cat. The one that hurt the most was Cosmo. In his nine weeks of life we bonded like I’d never bonded with any other cat before. He was a fighter, a road tripper, and my soul cat. Although he fought to the very end, his body gave up this past Monday and he died from pneumonia.

The truth that lies underneath it all is this…

It’s the part that’s harder to say.

I’ve spent most of my life wanting to be wanted. Not a grand, movie-style romance, just the plain, ordinary thing of being someone’s person. Being thought of without having to ask. Having someone notice I was struggling before I said a word, and having someone worry about me for once.

Today I’m 50 years old, and up to now I’ve always been the one who loves harder and gives more than most people do in a lifetime. I show up, do the work, carry the responsibility, and then make sure everyone else is okay. While this is something I’m good at, it’s also something I’m tired of being good at.

Looking back, I think the sanctuary was built partly on that same wanting. I made a home where every cat was wanted, and part of me was hoping to feel wanted too. I gave these cats everything I’d been hoping to receive. This isn’t sad. I feel it’s one of the better things I’ve done with a longing I couldn’t fill any other way. However, as I tell everyone in my life, a person can only pour out for so long before the cup runs dry.

The feeling of guilt and freedom at the same time is unique.

Stepping away from the sanctuary, I thought I’d feel tremendous relief. While I do get this some days, most days I feel a combination of guilt and freedom, both pulling in opposite directions.

The guilt comes from being responsible for everything. Not being responsible feels like failing, although I know I couldn’t keep going.

The other I almost don’t want to admit to feeling: freedom.

Sometimes I do wonder what my life would look like if it didn’t revolve around taking care of everyone else’s needs.

In the past I didn’t think feeling both guilt and freedom at the same time was even possible. Somehow I thought those two feelings had to cancel one another out. Now I know they can sit side by side.

Guilt is what love looks like when it’s been trained to put itself last. Freedom is what shows up when training finally loosens.

What do I want now?

I’d love to say I have either a tidy lesson or a bucket list of things I want to do now. However, my honest answer is I don’t know.

I’ve wanted things for so long I’m tired of hoping. I want to be careful here, because tired of hoping is not the same as hopeless. I hoped for years. I loved, I built, and I kept showing up. My hope wasn’t missing. It was spent, almost entirely on other people and other lives. During that time, every time I hoped for something and got it, it was taken away from me somehow. So now I ask myself, “What’s the good of hoping anymore?”

What do my days look like now?

Now I have ordinary days in which I owe nobody anything. I have plenty of time for me.

Mornings are slower. I don’t have to answer a phone during breakfast because there’s an emergency to tend to. There aren’t any long lists for me to conquer. It’s just me, my breakfast, and a mobile game to enjoy.

A trip. I don’t even want to go anywhere far or fancy. I simply want to choose to get up and go somewhere for no reason except I wanted to go there.

An old hobby. I’ve let so many hobbies pass me by, so many projects lay unfinished because there was always something more urgent needing my time. Now I’ve picked some of them back up, curious to see whether my hands still remember them.

None of this is a grand plan, and it isn’t a triumphant reinvention. It’s three small doors. For the first time in a long time, I’m allowed to wonder what’s behind them.

I spent years making sure everyone else was wanted. Maybe the next chapter starts with letting myself want something, and, who knows, maybe even with being wanted back.

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November always brings back a particular kind of happiness to me. Not the happiness of festivals, new clothes, or celebrations, but something much simpler—the smell of freshly collected honey, the warmth of maize rotis, and the company of my Dadaji.

In my childhood, November meant honey season.

We had small wooden boxes in our house where honeybees made their homes. Every year, around this time, collecting honey became a little adventure. I would eagerly wait for the day when Dadaji and I would go together to collect it.

He had his own way of doing things. He would take a piece of khadi cloth, set it on fire, and use the smoke to make the honeybees move away from the boxes. As the bees flew around, we would carefully collect the honey.

For me, it was never just about honey. It was about being with him.

I loved watching him work, following his instructions, and feeling important because I was part of something that adults usually did. Those small wooden boxes seemed like treasure chests, and every drop of honey felt like a reward for our little adventure.

But one November day, things did not go as I had imagined.

That morning, nobody was available to take the cattle to the hills. Someone had to go, and that responsibility landed on me.

Dadaji looked at me and said that he would collect the honey himself that day. He would burn the cloth, take care of the bees, and bring the honey home. I, instead, had to take the cattle out to graze.

I cannot explain how disappointed I was.

I did not want to go to the hills with the cattle. I wanted to stay with Dadaji. I wanted to watch the honey being collected, help him, and enjoy the little adventure that November had always promised me.

I started crying. Not just a little, but the kind of crying that comes when a child feels that the most important thing in the world is being taken away.

But childhood has its own rules. Sometimes, even after crying, you still have to do what you are told.

So, with a heavy heart, I took the cattle and walked towards the hills.

The morning passed, and the sun climbed higher. I spent my day in the hills, watching the cattle graze. The hills were beautiful, the open sky was above me, but my mind was somewhere else. I kept imagining Dadaji collecting honey without me. I wondered how much honey he would bring home and whether it would be as exciting without my little participation.

I had no idea that he was preparing a surprise for me.

By 2 p.m., Dadaji was back.

And what he brought home was enough to make me forget all my morning tears.

A vessel full of freshly collected honey, nearly two kilograms of golden sweetness, and two warm maize rotis.

I still remember the sight of that vessel. It seemed enormous to my little eyes. The honey was fresh, thick, golden, and delicious. The maize rotis made the whole experience even more special.

Perhaps no expensive dessert in the world could ever compete with that combination.

I shared the honey and rotis with my friends, and together we enjoyed every bite. The disappointment of the morning slowly disappeared, replaced by the happiness of having something so special to share.

Looking back, I realise that Dadaji had given me much more than honey that day.

He had given me a lesson in love, patience, and the quiet ways in which people care for us.

That morning, I thought he had taken away my favourite November activity. But by afternoon, he had made sure I did not feel left out. He had collected the honey himself, remembered what I loved, and brought me a share of the sweetest part of the day.

I don't remember every detail of that November, but I remember the feeling.

Today, I may buy honey from a shop, and maize rotis may be available whenever I want. But neither will ever taste quite like that honey did.

Perhaps because that honey carried the fragrance of our home, the warmth of the hills, the innocence of childhood, and, most importantly, the love of my Dadaji.

November comes every year, but that particular November never returns.

And sometimes, when I see a jar of honey, I don't just see honey.

I see a little girl crying because she has to take the cattle to the hills.

I see a grandfather collecting honey without her.

And I see him returning at two in the afternoon with a vessel full of sweetness, quietly telling her that even when she cannot be part of every adventure, she is never forgotten.

Some memories are not preserved in photographs. They are preserved in taste, in fragrance, and in the hearts of the people who loved us.

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