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Rene' Schooler-Wiseman

Rene' Schooler-Wiseman

Truth-teller. Nervous system nerd. Writing about relationships, trauma recovery, spiritual grit, and emotional sovereignty. Featured on Lifetime TV.

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๐‘๐ž๐ฉ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ž๐, ๐‹๐ž๐š๐ค๐ฒ, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐‚๐ซ๐ž๐ž๐ฉ๐ฒ ๐’๐ž๐ฑ๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ ๐„๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐ ๐ฒ

3 min readFeb 6, 2025

โ€œHow Shame and Suppression Turn Healthy Desire into Uncomfortable, Leaky Energy That Repels the Connection You Craveโ€

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๐Ž๐ก, ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค ๐ข๐Ÿ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฑ๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ ๐๐ž๐ฌ๐ข๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐Ÿ๐š๐ซ ๐ž๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก, ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒโ€™๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐ซ?

๐‚๐ฎ๐ญ๐ž.

You can dress it up in spiritual bypassing, pretend youโ€™re โ€œabove all that primal stuff,โ€ or guilt-trip yourself into thinking that wanting sex, attraction, or connection somehow makes you unworthy.

But guess what?

The energy doesnโ€™t vanish โ€” it just leaks. And not in a fun, flirty, magnetic way.

No, it seeps out like a busted sewer pipe, creeping people out and repelling the very intimacy, friendship, and love youโ€™re secretly craving.

We all know someone whose energy feelsโ€ฆoff.

That person who never acknowledges their sexuality but somehow makes everyone around them uncomfortable.

Maybe itโ€™s the guy who insists heโ€™s just being โ€œnice,โ€ yet every interaction with women carries an unspoken undertone of please validate me sexually.

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Rene' Schooler-Wiseman
Rene' Schooler-Wiseman

Written by Rene' Schooler-Wiseman

Truth-teller. Nervous system nerd. Writing about relationships, trauma recovery, spiritual grit, and emotional sovereignty. Featured on Lifetime TV.