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Why My Wife Both Hates and Loves My Growth as a Man
If you are unhappy with your partner, then what should you do ?
The common advice that you will receive are following -
#1 Talk with your spouse or partner.
#2 Set your boundaries.
#3 Go for a couple therapy session with a counselor.
#4 Try to understand the psychological issues of your husband or wife.
#5 Have patience.
But from my personal experience, I can tell you that for many people these things do not work at all.
No amount of patience, discussion, love and therapy helps out in many situations.
I know well, because I had candid discussion with my wife. She is not ready to listen.
We went for joint session with therapist. She was reluctant to attend. You can easily understand what will happen when your spouse don’t think counselling will help.
I tried to show patience, compassion and love. I got more thrash back.
None of these worked at all.
