Soula·Oct 22How do I know if my partner is controlling before something obvious has happened?TL;DR: Most content about controlling relationships describes situations that are already obvious, visible patterns of abuse, clear…
Hillary Beth Trivette·Oct 17Coercion is Chartable; You’re Not Imagining ItI ran across some interesting history in the social sciences realm recently. Biderman’s Chart of Coercion is a framework developed in 1957…
Andrew Laing·Sep 26Being silenced: What Coercive Controlling Relationships Look LikeYou’re in the honeymoon phase of your relationship, infatuated and adoring your partner, they seem exactly what you’re looking for and your…
Rena·Jul 7Rebuilding Yourself After Someone Else Wrote Your StoryThe hardest part of leaving wasn’t learning how to live alone.
Jessi Brooks·Jun 25The Breakup TestThe first time I should have left… and why almost none of us do.A response icon4A response icon4
Cat Eyes·Apr 8Patriarchal Mindset in Modern Dating: How Controlling Men Disguise Control as “Boundaries” (Part 1)I met a guy on a dating app. He was a trainee pilot, working towards his CPL license — disciplined, ambitious, and hardworking. The kind of…
Gary Simons·Jan 26Sonnets for Ale (xi.)Don’t fear the world will label you a fool if in relationships with folks in need, or friends, or even just the larger pool of those about…
Karina Pawlak·Jan 14Can You Train A Narcissist?Controlling The Ultimate Control FreakA response icon3A response icon3
