My Avoidant Ex·3h agoWhy Fearful Avoidants Get Defensive Whenever You Bring Something Up in Your RelationshipHow a simple conversation can turn into an argument when your fearful avoidant partner feels criticized, even when you haven’t criticized…
My Avoidant Ex·3d agoHow Being Forced to Grow Up Too Soon Can Turn Children Into Fearful-Avoidant AdultsA Little Bit of Insight Into the Role of Parentification in Fearful-Avoidant Attachment
Chris Mattice·Oct 85 Ways Disorganized Attachment Can Make You Numb Instead of AngrySometimes “I don’t care” is what happens after your system decides anger is too dangerous to feel.
My Avoidant Ex·Oct 1The Anxious-Leaning Fearful Avoidant Abandonment Wound: What Happens When Their Biggest Fear Gets…I’ve been coaching someone recently who’s been dealing with a challenge involving an anxious-leaning fearful avoidant partner that I…A response icon2A response icon2
My Avoidant Ex·Aug 21When Fearful Avoidants SmotherMost people who dig into attachment research on fearful avoidants do so because they’ve experienced the avoidant side of their partner.A response icon1A response icon1
My Avoidant Ex·Aug 10This Is Exactly What to Do When a Fearful Avoidant Pulls BackManaging the ebb and flow of a fearful avoidant relationshipA response icon2A response icon2
My Avoidant Ex·Aug 7The Post-Argument Trap With a Fearful AvoidantA woman I know recently had one of those arguments that should have been small.A response icon1A response icon1
My Avoidant Ex·Aug 35 Things That Make Fearful Avoidants PursueToday, I want to focus on an unhealthy game I have noticed all over the “get them to chase you” side of the dating world.A response icon3A response icon3
My Avoidant Ex·Jul 31My Fearful Avoidant Partner is Still Friends With His Ex — Should I Be Worried?I love teaching about attachment through stories, so I’ll walk you through the story of one of my clients…A response icon3A response icon3
My Avoidant Ex·Jul 23Do Fearful Avoidants Need Reassurance?Not long ago, someone stopped me after group therapy and asked, “How do you make an avoidant obsessed with you?”
