My Avoidant Ex·Sep 23What Porn Teaches Your Brain to Expect From SexIf porn and sex are both meant to satisfy sexual desire, why can one of them start feeling so much easier to want?A response icon3A response icon3
She Wrote It Anyway·Jun 12Wanting Sex Doesn’t Mean You Want Casual SexSomewhere along the way, we started treating sexual desire and the desire for casual sex as if they were the same thing.
Daniel Cooper·Mar 24About Last Night… (And Why It Wasn’t What You Thought)It probably crossed your mind.
The Flourishing Hedonists·Feb 10Let’s All Loosen Up When It Comes To SexThese days it seems a lot of people get offended just by hearing someone talk about sex. The hot sex scenes that existed in the movies of…A response icon2A response icon2
X-Plain·Aug 12, 2025If You Can’t Talk About Sex, You Probably Shouldn’t Be Having ItIf you can’t have an honest conversation about sex, you’re not ready to have it. Here’s why communication is the real foreplay, and silence…
The Flourishing Hedonists·Jul 28, 2025It’s Time To Stop Demonizing and Weaponizing SexAnna and I constantly notice how unhappy, anxious and unfulfilled most people seem these days. As hedonists we strongly believe the main…A response icon5A response icon5
Stratus Vir·Jun 24, 2025I Thought It Was Just a Fantasy. When Erotic Curiosity Becomes a Real ConversationWhat happens when the thing that turns you on won’t go away — and you finally say it out loud?
The Flourishing Hedonists·Jun 18, 2025What Is it Abut Sex That Scares Us So Much?Why are we so afraid of sex?A response icon4A response icon4
Richard Stan·May 23, 2025“Why No One Talks Honestly About Sex Anymore (But Everyone’s Doing It)”“We’ve never had more access to sex, and yet somehow, we’re still afraid to talk about it.”I find that fascinating.
The Flourishing Hedonists·Apr 12, 2025Overcoming Sexual GuiltOne of the first steps to following a life of pleasure is overcoming guilt, especially sexual guilt. When Anna and I began following our…A response icon2A response icon2
