anxious lifeaholic·Sep 8how being chosen relates to being the bestThere are two reasons that people strive for excellence. The first is that they are believed in from a young age, by their family and…
My Avoidant Ex·Sep 1Your Feelings Are Real, But They Could Also Be WrongWhy your insecure brain is keeping you and your relationships stuck in the past.
Ruchi Rathor·Aug 17Why High Performers Often Make Insecure LeadersBy Ruchi Rathor | Medium Blog on Conscious Leadership
My Avoidant Ex·Aug 2Do You Really Have “Daddy Issues”?“Daddy issues” is one of those phrases people use as though everyone already knows exactly what it means.A response icon1A response icon1
Yuefan Kuang·Jun 2Attachment Theory: You Can’t Hug a Baby Into DependenceA conversation with a friend sent me down a rabbit hole of attachment theory, infant sleep research, and one of the biggest parenting myths…
Pippa·Apr 12“It’s just a trauma bond; It’s not real love,” they would say…“Trauma bonds are tricky like that. It’s an illusion. It’s definitely not real love,” they insisted.
Attachment Styles·Mar 18Why Secure Love Can Feel Unsettling If You Are Used to InconsistencySecure, stable relationships can feel scary to people with insecure attachment
My Avoidant Ex·Mar 55 Reasons You Feel More Attached to Someone Who Pulls AwayThe psychology behind why emotional distance can increase attachment and make someone who pulls away feel harder to forget.A response icon1A response icon1
My Avoidant Ex·Mar 36 Things Secure People Do During Conflict That Insecure People Don’tFor many people, conflict is not the problem — the way we handle it is.A response icon5A response icon5