Giana·Oct 5I’m Not Afraid of Being Alone. I’m Afraid of Losing Myself Again.You know what’s a trip? My blog, I Don’t Want to Do Shit for Men Anymore, is still getting comments on Medium and is still my most-read and…A response icon1A response icon1
Giana·Sep 22I Wasn’t Failing at the Script. The Script Wasn’t Written for Me.From my room, where I’m reconsidering every romantic movie that had me believing a man choosing me was the ultimate prize.
Giana·Sep 9The Worm That Connected the DotsAfter coming home from Saboten, before heading to my room to decompress, I chatted with my mom about my weekend. I told her about Sabo, the…
Giana·Jun 6Rainbow Flags and Conditional SolidarityWe made it to June. Gonna be real, it has been a rough 2026 so far.
Giana·Apr 22Comphet, Closets, and Safe NamesThis week is Lesbian Visibility Week, and with that comes the flood of posts honoring it. It got me thinking. Well, that’s not exactly…
Giana·Apr 11Superwoman in the RearviewFriday I woke up early, thanks to perimenopause. Recently, I decided to switch my work schedule an hour earlier, in part because I wake up…
Giana·Nov 2, 2025I Survived Comp Het — and the Costco Husbands Remind Me WhyI’ve worked hard to keep my feeds pretty queer-centered. I spent 47 years forced into compulsory heterosexuality, and once I finally came…
Giana·Aug 2, 2025Leaving the Cult: Comp Het, Catholicism, and Coming Home to MyselfI saw a TikTok I thought I saved, but of course, I didn’t. It was a video where a late-blooming lesbian compared leaving compulsory…
Giana·Aug 1, 2025Don’t Save Me. See Me.What I’ve learned about love, healing, and the quiet power of being witnessed instead of rescued.
Giana·Jul 26, 2025The Queer Ultimatum, Season Two: I Watched So You Don’t Have To (But Also, Let’s Unpack This Mess)I hadn’t planned on finishing The Queer Ultimatum season two. I really hadn’t. But my friend — who introduced me to the chaos of season…
