Be the person you wish was there for you.

Heal, grow and inspire by becoming the support you longed for.

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Any person who has felt alone has wanted someone to comfort them, boost their confidence, or help them.

It’s possible that we were looking for someone who knew what was going on, like a parent or teacher.

There is a chance that we needed help, support, or thoughtful care.

Be the kind of person others find helpful, not just the kind we want for ourselves.

We no longer need to wait for other people to take care of our wants.

1. Make other people want what you want them to want.

Thoughts of shame, pain, and guilt can either break us or change us.

Getting hurt and not getting enough help and kindness were what really helped us grow as people.

. There will be help soon.

You shouldn’t think about whether you need help or time before you ask for it.

Don’t think about whether you should help other people or not.

To begin with, though:

love yourself. Instead of always giving us what we need, it might be better to heal us by giving us…