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00:00Let's talk about the inflated balloons, we meet them everywhere, sometimes even in the mirror, they are the ones
00:08who seem full of hot air always ready to take off with their self-confidence they know it all
00:14They have done everything better than you and they never miss an opportunity to point it out to you but it only takes one
00:20uncomfortable question and they immediately deflate because they bother us so much maybe because they put us
00:28in discussion or maybe just because they are boring arrogance turns every dialogue into a competition
00:34and listening to them is like watching a match where you already know the result but behind the facade there is often
00:42only fragility, those who are truly sure of themselves don't need to shout it, arrogance is just a volume
00:50too loud to cover an inner silence is a defense an armor made of big words for
00:57hide insecurities so next time you meet one see them for what they are
01:04a balloon that fears being punctured the secret not to get dragged into their game is a
01:12It's a question of style and intelligence, and let's face it, observing them from the outside is almost funny.
01:18where the inflated balloons are hidden everywhere in the office there is always the colleague who knows everything and is
01:29takes credit for your ideas at school or college is the one who asks questions just to
01:36showing off or correcting the professor at dinners with friends has always traveled more
01:42read more seen movies that you don't know in the gym is the unsolicited expert who corrects you
01:50even when it is not necessary they transform every conversation into a competition every environment into their stage the
01:58their habitat the whole world you can't avoid them but you can learn to live with them just recognize them and not
02:07get involved and maybe laugh about it a bit. Once you have identified the hot air balloon, the first rule is
02:18keeping calm responding with arrogance is wrong is like putting out a fire with gasoline the balloon
02:27inflated he feeds on your reactions he wants to see you annoyed if you stay calm you take away all his power
02:35Calm is your kryptonite against their arrogance Imagine being a Zen monk Breathe
02:42Count to 10 doesn't mean to suffer but to choose not to participate in their game you are the captain
02:49of the ship if you keep the helm steady you will bring everyone to safety a trick concentrate on one detail
02:57insignificant while they talk helps you to detach yourself and not get sucked into their negativity
03:03Remember, you are in control of your emotions. Don't give anyone the keys to your peace of mind.
03:10calm is a superpower, use it
03:13once calm is reached, he unleashes his secret weapon: humor, not bad sarcasm but a
03:23genuine smile and a light joke humor displaces the arrogance that always takes too much
03:31seriously if the colleague takes the credit reply you are so good that next time
03:38I'll send you alone and I'll go on vacation so you can communicate that you understand the game but without attacking the car
03:45irony is the pro level you're right I wrote it after the third coffee maybe I went straight there
03:52with grappa, humor changes the rules of the game and disarms those who only want to compete. It is not necessary to be
04:00sharp, a light joke is enough to bring everything back to a more human level, sometimes a simple one
04:07ah you're always number one said in a good-natured tone that's enough show that you don't take it too seriously
04:14serious and invites others to do the same, it is elegant and effective and makes you feel like a master of
04:21Try verbal aikido and you'll see the difference
04:25Let's see some practical examples dinner with friends the travelling friend starts with the monologue smile you are
04:36Indiana Jones of our times next time I'll call you as a business meeting consultant
04:43the know-it-all colleague intervenes, answer seriously, you're right, your foresight needs to be studied
04:50I propose to appoint you as the official oracle of the team in the gym. Superman corrects you. Thanks, I'll do that.
05:00you have a flamingo body but I admire your rhinoceros approach casual conversation
05:06you say you ran 10 kilometers, the athlete friend raises wow, after 10 kilometers I have
05:13need a physiotherapist you are from another planet in any case answer with irony and
05:19lightness so you can dismantle the boasting without conflict and bring the conversation back to a more relaxed level
05:26the goal is not to win but not to get dragged into their race use humor to put the situation into perspective
05:33situation and remember the true strength is to remain yourself there is no need to be aggressive just a little bit of
05:42emotional intelligence so every conversation becomes an opportunity to train yourself and maybe
05:49in the end you even have fun, maybe sometimes humor isn't enough or the context doesn't allow it
05:59in these cases the best technique is to change the subject elegantly, don't say enough, just talk
06:06about you but use a keyword to divert the conversation if they're talking about an infinity pool
06:12reply about bars have you tried that new place in the center listen actively for
06:20find the right foothold you can also involve someone else and you maria how is your dog I saw
06:27photos on instagram so you redistribute attention and remind everyone that a conversation is a
06:33exchange not a monologue is an act of inclusion that will make you appreciated by everyone and if the ball
06:39inflated he gets offended patience you saved the evening let's put everything together with a few aperitif scenes
06:51Marco arrives and boasts about the col with New York you smile I imagine with the time zone and everything you are the
07:00our man of impossible missions then change the subject about new york have you seen the
07:07show on baschià office sofia criticizes your project you damn 30 percent you are a bulldozer
07:17then ask for practical advice by narrowing down the family dinner the know-it-all cousin
07:25compare careers you're right each in their own time but tell me do you still play the guitar anyway
07:35you avoided the confrontation, validated the other and moved the conversation onto more serene ground
07:41there is no need to be aggressive, true strength lies in flexibility and emotional intelligence, use their
07:49energy against them but with kindness you're not fighting you're dancing and with a little practice
07:56you become an exceptional dancer every conversation becomes a workout in the end you even have fun
08:03maybe almost the key is not to get drawn into their game if you lead the conversation like that
08:12win without fighting and everyone wins except maybe the hothead
08:18Beware of the trap, responding with arrogance risks turning us into windbags, it's easy
08:28fall into the temptation to relaunch but this only fuels a cycle of negativity the goal
08:35It's not about winning the argument but about protecting your own peace of mind if the answer leaves you with
08:41the bitter taste in the mouth wasn't the right one, the real victory is feeling light and faithful to one's values
08:48every time you feel the temptation to respond with the same coin, stop, your strength is to demonstrate
08:56a different way of being in the world listening empathy intelligence this is the real alternative don't leave
09:05that the hot air of others pollutes yours yes the person that others admire for how you make them
09:11hear here is the final message the real alternative to arrogance is a mix of security and kindness
09:24true confidence does not need to shout or belittle others it is so solid that it can afford to
09:30being generous, kindness is not weakness but a strategic choice, being kind to a ball
09:37inflated is the most rock act you can do it displaces them it neutralizes them because kindness is a
09:45language that arrogance does not understand every encounter with a hot air balloon is an opportunity to
09:51exercising calm humor and intelligence you can be assertive without being aggressive you can
09:59being confident without being arrogant you can be kind and win in fact it's the only way to win
10:06really and this guys is crazy cool
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