90 Day Fiance- Before the 90 Days - Season 8 Episode 03- Prepare For Take-off
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00:00:00Oh, Trish.
00:00:02Oh, you're here.
00:00:04Here, baby.
00:00:06I really believe that she's the one.
00:00:09Don't love me.
00:00:10I love you so, so, so much.
00:00:13I know, but I've been very suspicious of Trish
00:00:16after the ghosting incident.
00:00:18But right now, all I want to focus on is our bond.
00:00:22Surprise!
00:00:25Damn!
00:00:26You know what I really like in the States?
00:00:30The Chinese food out there.
00:00:31If you bring that for me, I'll marry you.
00:00:34My boyfriend is just a charmer.
00:00:37He is a famous singer and rapper in Belize.
00:00:41But my aunt hears a lot of rumors.
00:00:44They actually just did a big concert.
00:00:46The first song that was performed was Vicky,
00:00:49and I was getting messages that she was at the concert
00:00:52and that they left together.
00:00:54I hope that Stig and I prove everybody wrong,
00:00:59but there's definitely a part of me that wonders
00:01:01if what my aunt is saying is true.
00:01:06Beer Con is absolutely, like, the hot main character
00:01:12straight out of a romance novel.
00:01:14I'm ready to take the next step with him,
00:01:17but I think my best friend, Michael,
00:01:20has feelings for me that are more than just friendship.
00:01:22You want my time and attention as though I am your girlfriend,
00:01:27but it can't go both ways.
00:01:30You said you'd never leave?
00:01:32I want a man who wants to be a man.
00:01:34I want a man who wants to make me a priority.
00:01:35I'm heading to the Philippines today.
00:01:42But last night, Sheena tells me she has been giving all her money
00:01:46to her parents this entire time.
00:01:49I am not happy, and I don't feel like I can trust her.
00:01:54I'm worried that Molly would try to break up me and Forrest
00:01:58when she's alive here.
00:02:01And I would have the most painful heartbreak in my life.
00:02:05It's a beautiful day!
00:02:12It's a beautiful day!
00:02:14I hate packing.
00:02:29I feel like I'm going to forget something.
00:02:31So, yeah, I don't like that.
00:02:33I'm, like, super nervous.
00:02:34Did not expect to be this nervous.
00:02:37I've never gone on a trip for this long.
00:02:40I've never flown over the ocean.
00:02:42I've never left the continent.
00:02:44But I am leaving for Turkey today.
00:02:47I am so incredibly excited to finally be on my way
00:02:51to meet what could be the love of my life.
00:02:54I've been talking about doing this for so long,
00:02:56for so many months, and now that it's here,
00:03:00I'm, wow, like, way more nervous
00:03:02than I thought I was going to be.
00:03:04The situation with Michael is giving me
00:03:07a little bit more anxiety, too.
00:03:10When I confronted Michael,
00:03:13I really was trying to give him a chance
00:03:17so I could have a clear head
00:03:18before going to Turkey to meet BeerCon.
00:03:22But Michael does not seem like he's ever going
00:03:25to come to terms with his feelings and his emotions.
00:03:28And that's not fair to me.
00:03:31So I'm ready to take the next step with someone else.
00:03:35Michael and I have a really great friendship.
00:03:37We do a lot of things together.
00:03:38We spend a lot of time together.
00:03:40And I know that that is not really common
00:03:45to have that kind of male-female friendship
00:03:47in other cultures, other religions.
00:03:50And so that's scary to feel like I might possibly
00:03:54have to choose between somebody who's my best friend
00:03:57and somebody who could be the love of my life.
00:04:02It's open.
00:04:04Hey.
00:04:05Hey, how are you?
00:04:06Good, how are you?
00:04:06Oh, hi, Laura.
00:04:08Are you excited?
00:04:09Yeah.
00:04:09A little terrified, actually.
00:04:11I know.
00:04:12I'm terrified for you.
00:04:14My parents offered to take me to the airport,
00:04:17which is really nice.
00:04:19But my relationship has felt a little bit strained
00:04:22with my parents since I started dating BeerCon.
00:04:27They are very conservative and very Catholic.
00:04:32And BeerCon is not at all who they would expect
00:04:36to see me end up with.
00:04:38So I've tried not to talk about it with them very much.
00:04:41You're ready for your big adventure?
00:04:45So excited.
00:04:51I can't believe today's the day.
00:04:53I appreciate you guys taking me to the airport.
00:04:55I know it's a little bit of a drive.
00:04:57Oh, well, I wanted you to feel supported.
00:04:59But I'm not in favor of all this.
00:05:03I can't believe you would go clear to Turkey
00:05:08and meet a guy you've never met who is a Muslim.
00:05:12It's not even in my wheelhouse to think
00:05:14that that would ever have been something that was possible.
00:05:17You know what I'm saying?
00:05:20It seems irresponsible to me.
00:05:22But it's not like I'm going in completely blind
00:05:27or without the same concerns and questions.
00:05:32The age thing is the single biggest concern that I have.
00:05:37I mean, how old is he, Laura?
00:05:40He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:05:42Oh, my God.
00:05:46Laura, are you serious?
00:05:47I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:05:51Don't make jokes.
00:05:52That's not funny.
00:05:54What is he thinking?
00:05:55What is he thinking?
00:05:56I'm awesome.
00:05:57What the heck is he thinking?
00:05:58I think he's thinking I'm awesome.
00:06:00No, I think he's thinking he wants a ticket to America.
00:06:04That's what I think he's thinking.
00:06:08Were you ever suspicious?
00:06:09Like, gee, he's a young man talking to an older woman
00:06:13and saying all the right things.
00:06:15Has he told you he loved you?
00:06:18Yeah.
00:06:19Okay.
00:06:19Big red flag.
00:06:20Because he doesn't love you.
00:06:21That's not what love is.
00:06:24You haven't even met this guy yet.
00:06:26You've had a conversation with an unknown entity.
00:06:32Right now, it's not love.
00:06:33It's some infatuation or some...
00:06:35To me, I will not be convinced it's nothing but...
00:06:39That guy wants out of Turkey.
00:06:42I don't...
00:06:43Like I said, it's a concern.
00:06:45I agree.
00:06:46A concern?
00:06:46It's more like ten giant red flags.
00:06:52My word in heaven.
00:06:54You actually think that there's a possibility
00:06:57that this could work
00:06:59and this could be a lifelong commitment?
00:07:02Yeah, I do.
00:07:04You do?
00:07:05If I didn't think that there was a possibility,
00:07:07I wouldn't be getting on a plane and flying to Turkey.
00:07:10My...
00:07:10My God.
00:07:12Oh, my God.
00:07:18We're just pointing out all our concerns.
00:07:21You know?
00:07:22And all I can hope is that you make the right decision.
00:07:25I feel blindsided.
00:07:30I knew that they didn't really approve.
00:07:34I just didn't know that they felt this strongly.
00:07:39I just...
00:07:40Honey, I disagree with the whole thing.
00:07:42All of it.
00:07:45I want to be happy for you.
00:07:48But I can't.
00:07:49I'm already so overwhelmed.
00:07:53I'm feeling every emotion possible.
00:07:56And for my mom to unleash all of these concerns on me
00:07:59at this point,
00:08:01it is just messing with my head.
00:08:05It keeps me awake at night,
00:08:06thinking about you going over there and doing all that.
00:08:09Don't sell yourself short.
00:08:11Don't ever settle.
00:08:19I got a funny feeling
00:08:22ain't nobody gonna understand.
00:08:25No trouble in the elements.
00:08:27We have to make a pit stop.
00:08:28Why?
00:08:29Because your mother is picking out condoms.
00:08:34Are you sure you don't want to come in with me?
00:08:36Yeah.
00:08:37Yeah.
00:08:37No.
00:08:37That's...
00:08:38That's what I'm showing up.
00:08:39But no.
00:08:40Yeah.
00:08:41I'm gonna do it once.
00:08:43Do it twice.
00:08:44Take the cake, not just a slice.
00:08:46I got a funny feeling
00:08:47ain't nobody gonna...
00:08:48What did you tell me earlier?
00:08:49You're how old?
00:08:51I'm 52.
00:08:53And you said you're an adult?
00:08:55I am an adult.
00:08:57You don't need my help picking out condoms.
00:09:00My name is Lisa.
00:09:02I'm 52 years old
00:09:03and I live in King of Prussia, Pennsylvania.
00:09:05I thought you would feel better
00:09:07knowing that your mother's taking precautions.
00:09:10I mean, he did say he was a playboy, so...
00:09:12I said a lot of women seem to like him.
00:09:15No, you said he used to play the field a lot.
00:09:18Is that not a playboy?
00:09:20Playboy's somebody who's like, um, a gigolo.
00:09:24He didn't say he was not with a lot of women.
00:09:25No, gigolo and playboys are way different.
00:09:28Gigolos are male hooker.
00:09:29No, that's not.
00:09:30That's what a gigolo is.
00:09:31That's a pimp.
00:09:32A pimp is the one who takes out female hookers
00:09:36and gets the money.
00:09:38Okay.
00:09:39I live with my daughter, Faith,
00:09:41where Faith lives with me.
00:09:43We live with each other.
00:09:44And she is the apple of my eye.
00:09:47We talk about everything,
00:09:49whether it's the topic of sex
00:09:50and masturbating to dirty dishes in the sink
00:09:56and who's going to do the laundry tomorrow.
00:09:59I don't know what I'm looking for.
00:10:01What if I buy the wrong one?
00:10:03How do I know what size it is?
00:10:06Has he ever told you in inch...
00:10:09Well, I guess I wouldn't be...
00:10:10In kilometers?
00:10:12No?
00:10:14I have never used a condom before.
00:10:16Every male I was with, I married.
00:10:18I have been married five times.
00:10:23Husband number one, I was young, I was dumb,
00:10:25and it led to an annulment.
00:10:28Husband number two, he was my very best friend,
00:10:31and it led to my daughter, Faith.
00:10:34But after a few years,
00:10:36I realized he made a better friend
00:10:37than he made a husband.
00:10:39Husband number three,
00:10:41he was actually my favorite of all of them.
00:10:43He was a really good guy.
00:10:46So why did I leave him?
00:10:48I realized I was a lesbian,
00:10:51and for the past 21 years,
00:10:52I've been with women only.
00:10:54Let's go with the flow.
00:10:58Relax and watch what happens.
00:11:01Women are nice and curvy and soft,
00:11:05and I've had one wife,
00:11:06and then I've had another wife,
00:11:08but neither of them worked out.
00:11:11But I forgot about men,
00:11:12to be quite honest with you.
00:11:13I wasn't even thinking
00:11:14that I'd be interested in a man after 21 years.
00:11:17But sure enough,
00:11:18Daniel came along,
00:11:20and...
00:11:20Yeah, Daniel came along.
00:11:27Hi, beautiful.
00:11:28You're my everything.
00:11:29You're the light of my...
00:11:31my soul.
00:11:34He is 39 years old,
00:11:36and he lives in Oweri, Nigeria.
00:11:38He's not built like a woman in any sense of the way, shape, or form,
00:11:44so I don't know what it is.
00:11:47He messaged me on social media.
00:11:50We didn't know each other from Adam or Eve.
00:11:52So, at first, I thought,
00:11:56this is a scam artist.
00:11:57I said, I'm not talking to you.
00:11:58You're not real.
00:12:00But he kept trying to talk to me,
00:12:02and you know what?
00:12:03He is a smooth operator.
00:12:05He says the sweetest, most charming things I've ever heard.
00:12:08I just fell in love with him.
00:12:16He is so sweet,
00:12:18it hurts my teeth like a bad candy bar.
00:12:20I love you, Lisa,
00:12:22and I will continue to love you.
00:12:24Daniel says,
00:12:25I'm exquisite,
00:12:26and I'm beautiful and gorgeous daily.
00:12:29And he better,
00:12:30because this damn thing is itchy as all hell,
00:12:34and it's uncomfortable.
00:12:35Can I take it off?
00:12:46How did that feel?
00:12:48Oh, my God, it feels so much better.
00:12:51One of my exes had me cut off my hair really, really short,
00:12:54and I miss my long hair so much,
00:12:57so I wear wigs.
00:12:59Daniel saw me in my natural hair first,
00:13:01and then he saw me in my wigs,
00:13:02and he was like, damn.
00:13:06So now I wear wigs every day,
00:13:07and I plan on wearing my wigs the whole time
00:13:10when I go visit Daniel in Nigeria in less than a week.
00:13:14Okay, here goes nothing.
00:13:17Try a flavored one.
00:13:18You might like it.
00:13:18No, I'm not getting flavored.
00:13:20Get me ripped.
00:13:21No, I don't know.
00:13:24Growing up with Mom was in a roller coaster.
00:13:29My mom is somebody who's always fallen in love so quickly,
00:13:34at least what she thinks is love.
00:13:37She's been through a lot of relationships.
00:13:40We've moved so many places.
00:13:42I've been to 15 different schools,
00:13:44if that tells you something.
00:13:46Part of me is surprised she's switching over to men
00:13:49after 21 years.
00:13:51I didn't see this one coming.
00:13:54Oh, gosh.
00:13:57Oh, it's a very small selection.
00:14:01Oh, there's different sizes.
00:14:03Holy crap.
00:14:04Daniel and I, we've had video sex.
00:14:08We've sent pictures to each other,
00:14:09and I am attracted to Daniel.
00:14:13But the idea of laying with a man after 21 years,
00:14:17I can't even think about it.
00:14:19They have different body parts than women.
00:14:21The smells, the taste, the feels, the cleanup.
00:14:27I mean, I remember 21 years ago,
00:14:30just walking to the bathroom
00:14:32to have to take care of myself and still dripping.
00:14:35That's disgusting.
00:14:36You don't have that with women.
00:14:37It's a whole different ballgame.
00:14:41Oh, I'm going to be sick.
00:14:44Um, sir, if you have a moment,
00:14:46could I ask you a question, please?
00:14:48I'm not going to help you.
00:14:49It's so embarrassing.
00:14:50I'm sorry.
00:14:50This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:14:52Okay.
00:14:53They have to be latex-free.
00:14:55I'm allergic to latex.
00:14:57I'm...
00:14:57Oh, gosh.
00:15:00When it says thinnest,
00:15:01does that mean that you feel more like it's a natural skin?
00:15:05Yep.
00:15:05When it's just, it doesn't feel like there's plastic going in you
00:15:08or, I'm sorry, I'm crying.
00:15:10No, you're good.
00:15:11I'm just really, really embarrassed.
00:15:12No, no, it's good.
00:15:13I'm buying the condoms myself
00:15:15because I'm worried that I'll get there
00:15:17and there won't be a latex-free condom.
00:15:20But this is incredibly overwhelming and emotional for me.
00:15:25This is not just about the embarrassment over the condoms.
00:15:30All I can think about is Daniel
00:15:31and how he has no idea that I live my life as a lesbian,
00:15:35for 21 years.
00:15:37Thank you so much.
00:15:38I appreciate it.
00:15:40A couple of months ago,
00:15:41I went into Tessa Waters
00:15:43to see if I could come out with my whole truth.
00:15:46And I told him in the past
00:15:48that I had a fling with a woman.
00:15:52Daniel said to me,
00:15:53how could I do that to myself?
00:15:55How could I do that to God?
00:15:56God doesn't believe in same sex as being together.
00:16:00And he was disgusted.
00:16:03There you go.
00:16:05Yeah, no problem.
00:16:05You can hide them in my purse.
00:16:07I plan on telling Daniel the truth in person
00:16:10because I am not ashamed of who I am.
00:16:13But I'm terrified to tell him
00:16:15because of how he responded to the fling.
00:16:17I'm terrified.
00:16:18I'm worried that he's going to say
00:16:23that this is a mistake and walk away
00:16:26and I'm going to be left heartbroken.
00:16:30Okay, that's all we're done with.
00:16:32Thank God.
00:16:32So you're really serious in this girl, bro.
00:16:43Yes, I am.
00:16:45I was a player for most of my life.
00:16:48Now, I actually want a family.
00:16:49I want somebody to be here for me.
00:16:51So you want to stop all the parties?
00:16:53I stop all the parties.
00:16:54That's part of my life.
00:16:55That's part of my life.
00:16:55How do you think she's going to react?
00:17:00I have a check-in flight and I landed.
00:17:03But I'm worried since he's not texting me.
00:17:07You're going to need your passport.
00:17:10Let's get through here.
00:17:11I don't know.
00:17:11I left him somewhere.
00:17:13What are we doing now?
00:17:14Oh, God.
00:17:14I'm rushing to my next gate right now.
00:17:39I don't want to miss my flight.
00:17:41It's a good thing that I've been keeping up in the gym
00:17:44because I am having to run to my connecting flight to Belize
00:17:48to meet my boyfriend, Stig, for the first time.
00:17:51Stig, you better be worth it
00:17:52because running through the airport is really embarrassing.
00:17:56Stig's a famous musician in Belize
00:17:58and the women there love him.
00:18:01So the last thing I want to do is look like a sweaty mess
00:18:05when I meet him for the first time.
00:18:06But I don't really have a choice right now.
00:18:09Four minutes.
00:18:10I'm just getting to my gate.
00:18:14Oh, I made it with perfect timing.
00:18:18Thank the Lord.
00:18:20Next stop, Belize.
00:18:23After waiting for so long,
00:18:25I'm super nervous to meet Stig.
00:18:27But I cannot wait to get my hands on him
00:18:30and start a future together.
00:18:32It's my second plan to believe.
00:18:36I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:38I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:46Listen.
00:18:48They've got the rules.
00:18:49Watch me, bro.
00:18:51And you've got some magic, bro.
00:18:52I'm not going to be here.
00:18:53Ladies.
00:18:55Ladies.
00:18:56Go on, let's go.
00:18:57Go on, let's go.
00:18:58I see, see, see, see, see.
00:19:01Let me get in here.
00:19:02This is my mother.
00:19:02I am one of you.
00:19:04Body, love me.
00:19:05I can take you off my mind.
00:19:07Yeah.
00:19:08I stick it in.
00:19:09What's up? I am Erlin Dwayne. I go by Stig the Artist.
00:19:24I'm a musician from Belmont, Belize, Central America, and I'm 30 years old.
00:19:29You know the vibes.
00:19:31I think I'm a cool guy, you know. I'm just chill for the most part.
00:19:36But when I'm performing, it's just a different feeling.
00:19:40I just get alive.
00:19:41I love what I do. I love music. I love singing for the ladies, them.
00:19:46And the girls, you know, they can get pretty wild at my show.
00:19:52There's this one time, this girl was literally trying to get in my pants.
00:19:55She was front stage. I'm like, yo, chill.
00:19:58But if that's what my music gives them, that kind of joy, then I'm doing the right job.
00:20:05About 10 years ago, I put out my first song, my first music video.
00:20:09I recorded every single day in the studio.
00:20:11I grew my fan base, and now I'm at the highest level of Belize as an artist.
00:20:17So everybody recognizes me, and I am very grateful for the love and support that I get there.
00:20:22There can only be one.
00:20:24One you, one you.
00:20:25I'm very proud of what I've become, but I couldn't have done it by myself.
00:20:33Perf is my producer. He produced a lot of my biggest songs.
00:20:38Richie is my manager.
00:20:40Six is my G.
00:20:42He's one of my best friends.
00:20:44They're still my homies since we started everything, and I know they're always looking out for me.
00:20:49I have a special toast.
00:20:51My gallery tomorrow.
00:20:53Cheers, yeah.
00:20:55World, world.
00:20:56World, yeah.
00:20:57You really like the American girls, bro.
00:20:59You really like them.
00:21:00Farina.
00:21:00Yo, Farina, Farina.
00:21:04I just straight, Farina, we are dead.
00:21:09Listen, my friends, they could joke around as much as they want and tease me,
00:21:13but I'm very serious about my girlfriend, Aviva.
00:21:17Two years ago, I started talking to Aviva on social media.
00:21:22At first, we were both in a relationship,
00:21:24but when we both became single, it was way beyond friends.
00:21:28Aviva's super hot.
00:21:31She has the most beautiful blue eyes.
00:21:34But one of the most attractive things about Aviva is her personality.
00:21:39She has a beautiful heart.
00:21:41So humble and gentle, and she has a cute little laugh with her.
00:21:46I don't have to be stick to artists, you know?
00:21:48I don't have to impress her.
00:21:49I can be Erling Dwayne.
00:21:51And that's why I feel like she's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.
00:21:54So you're really serious in this girl, bro?
00:21:58Yes, I am.
00:22:00You think you'd have settled down really with this woman?
00:22:02Start a family, just getting married, just have kids.
00:22:06I don't know.
00:22:07I might want to be a baby.
00:22:10You want to bring them?
00:22:12You want to bury your girl?
00:22:13Hello?
00:22:13I mean, woof, woof, woof, woof, woof.
00:22:17Damn.
00:22:18I mean, you know, like, I plan to take her to San Pedro for the show.
00:22:44You're taking her to San Pedro for the shows.
00:22:49You ready for that?
00:22:49Yeah.
00:22:50I mean, I hope she's ready.
00:22:52You know the car is San Pedro, right?
00:22:55Temptation Island.
00:22:56Yee-haw!
00:22:57So what if you fix her San Pedro when a hundred girls jump out to you?
00:23:01I could bet you had you reached San Pedro.
00:23:03I want to bury your.
00:23:04Hey, hey, hey!
00:23:05Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:23:08My personal relationship, I tell him, like, you're going to get jealous?
00:23:11No, no, no.
00:23:13You always trip, so I told Aviva, we're going to say, I hope you don't trip.
00:23:18And she's like, no, I'm not like that.
00:23:19I'm not jealous.
00:23:20But I don't know.
00:23:23I want somebody by my side, you know, to sit up and worry about all that kind of stuff.
00:23:29Yeah, but everywhere we go, people always say, you have XYZ girls.
00:23:33How do you think she's going to react?
00:23:35I hope, I hope and pray I can be the best version of myself.
00:23:41This time I can do things a little bit different.
00:23:44No disrespect, right?
00:23:46I heard that song too many times, bro.
00:23:50I can't control that.
00:23:52I can't control that.
00:23:53A lot of my relationships in the past have failed because of this very issue.
00:24:01You know, I was a player for most of my life.
00:24:05Now, I actually want a family.
00:24:06I want somebody I can go home to at night, and they're there to listen to me, to be there for me.
00:24:12I hope Aviva can be that person, and that I can be a faithful partner.
00:24:17You guys are going to love Aviva.
00:24:20You know, I love her.
00:24:21So, let's see how it goes.
00:24:23I have 20% feet.
00:24:26God damn.
00:24:28We're stuck.
00:24:28We're stuck.
00:24:34So, update on the food.
00:24:36Ooh, that shrimp.
00:24:38Look at that.
00:24:40That's good stuff.
00:24:42She and I get good airline food.
00:24:45Let me take a flight back home.
00:24:47Oh, I'm good.
00:25:04I'm going to get nervous.
00:25:08Oh, so much.
00:25:09Forrest is arriving today with his parents, and I feel, wow, like, super happy and excited.
00:25:24I'm on my way to the airport now.
00:25:27We rented a bigger apartment where we can all stay together.
00:25:30So I'm carrying quite a few bags.
00:25:33Also, I am bringing jackfruit.
00:25:41I want Forrest and his family to taste the local goodies here in the Philippines.
00:25:49I'm really quite nervous, and I don't know to react.
00:25:56It's possible that I would kiss him before him, or not.
00:26:00I would be quite too nervous to kiss him for the first time.
00:26:03Honestly speaking, we will both enjoy with each other.
00:26:09But I'm worried regarding with Molly that she would say bad things to me.
00:26:16So I'm trying to get rid of my nervousness, especially meeting the first time with the love of your life.
00:26:23It's once in a lifetime, so why not enjoy with it?
00:26:28Forrest, this sure is a long way to come traveling for a girl.
00:26:50Yeah, but she's not just any girl.
00:26:59All right.
00:27:04We are exiting, like, after 30 hours of being on an airplane, I finally made it to the Philippines.
00:27:24I'm feeling ecstatic.
00:27:28I feel like I drank, like, six energy drinks.
00:27:37Mom.
00:27:38It's in there, right?
00:27:45I don't know.
00:27:48Great job, though.
00:27:49It's in the ground?
00:27:50Yeah.
00:27:54Yes, I happen to check-in flight, and it landed.
00:27:57But I'm also worried, since he's not texting me.
00:28:04I really calm down.
00:28:09There's...
00:28:10God, with your impression, you're gonna need your passport.
00:28:13Please get through here.
00:28:14I don't know.
00:28:14I left him somewhere.
00:28:16Oh, my God.
00:28:19What are we doing now?
00:28:20I don't know, Dev.
00:28:21Look.
00:28:22Dev, stop.
00:28:23Oh, God.
00:28:23I'm starting to fall more in love with Trish, but I think it's important that we're completely
00:28:38transparent with each other.
00:28:41I wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly you were doing for those five days,
00:28:48and why you weren't in contact with me.
00:28:53Do you sleep good?
00:29:15I sleep great, baby.
00:29:17I sleep beautiful in the morning, babe.
00:29:19Keep dying.
00:29:24Keep dying.
00:29:27How do I do that?
00:29:31I was really tired from what we did.
00:29:38So was it everything you expected it to be?
00:29:41Even more.
00:29:42yesterday night we had sex two times
00:29:49he's older and i didn't think like he can do all of the stuff he didn't like for the second rounds
00:30:01it was oh my god
00:30:03you're good yeah you're here wow so this is the market
00:30:24i only gave trish a little sample of what i could do i i have some more uh tricks up my sleeve
00:30:32if it were up to me i'd just stay at the hotel all day but this is our first day in madagascar
00:30:39together and trish wants to take me to explore her city what is that fried fish right there yeah
00:30:45this is so different from anywhere i've ever been in my life
00:30:48today i want to show him everything around in antanana river
00:30:54first i'm taking him to the market and a la kelly
00:31:03the butcher shop right here huh
00:31:06and they just leave the meat out like this without refrigeration
00:31:13yeah big face yeah oh my god what is that babe what is that
00:31:22that's the stomach of the cow the stomach yeah yeah and then it is also like intestines or what
00:31:29yes i think i see a heart over there yeah let's see it oh my god i'm feeling like trish deceived me
00:31:38i mean this is our first date all this raw meat is gonna mess up the sexy vibes we had going this morning
00:31:44morning so this is all the leftover stuff that people usually don't eat
00:31:50oh no we don't see that
00:31:52in my culture we eat everything we don't waste something in the in the cow
00:32:00oh my god
00:32:01even the feet the head intestine the heart liver everything
00:32:07break it just food relax baby i i know that's not a brain right it's brain
00:32:15oh yeah why would you eat that of course
00:32:20well baby don't put that in those stew that you cook for me
00:32:24please don't
00:32:26i hope somebody's gonna enjoy it wow big what a view
00:32:44you can see all that i got scared here wow i can see the whole island yeah oh my god
00:32:53you don't know how to taste like this
00:33:23i know how to tap dance but this is not tap dance this is something foreign to me i've never seen
00:33:52this style of dance before but i'm realizing that there's a lot that i don't know about trish
00:33:57just from talking to her over the phone like she's an amazing dancer
00:34:01every minute i'm starting to fall more in love with trish but i think it's important that i get to know her better
00:34:18and they were completely transparent with each other
00:34:23wow that was uh was that your traditional dance
00:34:26no that's not mine i just dance like that
00:34:29you like it oh it's beautiful
00:34:33the name of the place is uh rufa that means uh a palace
00:34:39oh okay now where's the palace is it
00:34:42yes sir oh that's the pal okay yeah it's beautiful
00:34:45oh i'm tired even
00:34:48this is so beautiful baby i'm having such a great time with you
00:34:56but um you know there's some things that i want to talk to you about
00:35:02so i wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly you were doing for those five days
00:35:14i said why you weren't in contact with me
00:35:17i already told you like you wanna you want me to explain to you everything happened
00:35:25you know that all of these things that you're telling me you know kind of sounds unbelievable
00:35:31in a way i would like you to be open and honest with me right now
00:35:38i promise i will tell you everything but promise me that she won't get mad
00:35:46you sent him money right
00:35:58is that not part of a romance scam
00:36:02my mom and i have been having a lot of hard times right now financially
00:36:07she's in so much debt
00:36:09i think this topic needs to be over because this is ridiculous
00:36:12now we got entertainment
00:36:27uh-oh
00:36:30and we have fire
00:36:34what we gonna do
00:36:35gonna break that heat
00:36:36what we gonna do
00:36:37gonna break that heat
00:36:39sell the competition
00:36:40oh go for it
00:36:41what we gonna do
00:36:43gonna break that
00:36:44oh i can do it
00:36:46oh that was so close
00:36:49let me try
00:36:52that was way over my head
00:36:55that was on me
00:36:56oh yeah for sure
00:36:58i'll give you a good one
00:37:00hot in like a baseball
00:37:02oh my god
00:37:03that looks delicious
00:37:06what kind of food do they have in nigeria
00:37:09well daniel has showed me pictures of some of his meals
00:37:13he's always eating rice
00:37:14is it like a fried rice thingy thing
00:37:16i don't know
00:37:17i have no clue what their food is
00:37:19where are you going again
00:37:21i am heading to africa to nigeria
00:37:23wow
00:37:24why
00:37:25why
00:37:26i am going to meet a man that i have not met in person yet for the very first time
00:37:32wow congratulations good for you
00:37:34thank you
00:37:35thank you
00:37:36but it's crazy
00:37:37yeah
00:37:38slightly a little crazy i would agree
00:37:40but you know the heart wants what the heart wants so go for it i say
00:37:44thank you
00:37:46i'm leaving to nigeria to meet daniel for the first time in just a few days
00:37:51i can't believe i'm doing this i must be insane i really must be
00:37:57i'm very very nervous so i wanted to take the edge off by having a night out with my daughter faith and my friend juna
00:38:04oh my
00:38:06there's a volcano here it comes
00:38:08i have q q cream
00:38:10woo
00:38:11juna is my very best friend
00:38:15i swear to god if she was a lesbian juna would be my ideal woman
00:38:20juna knows the ringer i've been through in past relationships and she is supportive of daniel's
00:38:27i'm hoping this is finally my happy every hour
00:38:31i'm gonna hold you to it
00:38:32what because this is my happy every hour
00:38:34yes
00:38:35this is the last time
00:38:37my issue is saying it's the last one as she's said every other time which we know
00:38:42right
00:38:43he's always talking sweet to me
00:38:45he's always trying so hard to do things
00:38:47he just makes me feel so good and so wonderful
00:38:51it's a good thing that he's treating you well but that's part of what concerns me
00:38:57the love bomber right away
00:38:59it's part of a romance scam
00:39:02they go for single and i don't mean this ever older women who have been hurt and who are desperately looking for somebody and want someone to give them all the compliments all the love
00:39:17no stop hold on
00:39:19hold on
00:39:20do i look like an old vulnerable searching for somebody woman on the internet
00:39:28no i was minding my own business not looking for anybody
00:39:32but you sent him money right
00:39:34is that not part of a romance scam sending money
00:39:39even though i live paycheck to paycheck i send daniel money almost every two weeks
00:39:45i give daniel money for food i have bought him clothes i give him money for fuel for electricity
00:40:02this is my generation
00:40:05daniel has come straight out and asked for money around two maybe three times
00:40:10but i give daniel money more for myself because i want to feel that he's safe and i want to feel that he's secure
00:40:17all i know is within the first two months you sent two thousand dollars total and that was two months ago so how much more is it now
00:40:30i don't know
00:40:32how did he do it before he met you does he not have a job
00:40:39yes he has a job but lately he's been sick and he's missed work because of the malaria and other things that he has caught
00:40:47and that's not a red flag to you he meets you and now all of a sudden he's getting sick all the time
00:40:53my mom and i have been having a lot of hard times right now financially
00:41:00she borrows from juna a lot she's in so much debt and it has me feeling more on edge
00:41:08you were telling me is juna gave you money to help us with bills
00:41:13she has
00:41:14haven't you
00:41:15so she's been giving you how much in debt now are we
00:41:18you already know i hate that you're asking for money all the time
00:41:21but it hasn't been the amounts that it has been
00:41:24it's so bad
00:41:27daniel seems to be a really really nice person
00:41:31i see how happy she is
00:41:33so i have given her money to send to him
00:41:37and i gave lisa the money for the visa to go to nigeria
00:41:42i do have some concerns
00:41:45because if he's scamming her then he's scamming me
00:41:49this was between juna me and daniel it had nothing to do with you and me and your bills
00:41:57it had to do with juna and i and daniel
00:41:59and you're still not seeing any red flags about this
00:42:03juna has talked to him does he seem like he's a real bad man from texting
00:42:07no he doesn't but you know texting and talking to different things
00:42:19there's no point in me trying to talk to you about anything
00:42:21that's fine because i know things that are inside and out more than you do because you're not in the relationship
00:42:29and this may be the best relationship i've ever had
00:42:35you've said that every time
00:42:39this has all been an emotional wreck and we have not had one positive conversation together
00:42:45and it's breaking my heart as much as it's breaking yours
00:42:49and i think this topic needs to be over
00:42:51because this is ridiculous
00:42:53it always has to be over
00:42:55i'm done
00:42:57i'm done
00:42:59i'm done
00:43:01i'm done
00:43:15this might be the start of the rest of my life with one girl
00:43:19we would say one burner
00:43:21that mean you have one partner
00:43:25never always been a one burner i used to be full of gala
00:43:29i need to make some changes in my lifestyle
00:43:31but i'm nervous
00:43:33to handle all that
00:43:35oh
00:43:37this is crazy
00:43:39super excited super nervous
00:43:45probably
00:43:4734 minutes until i land
00:43:49let me rephrase that
00:43:5134 minutes until
00:43:53me and the shrimp
00:43:55land
00:43:57and they actually landed on my pants
00:43:59i have
00:44:01greasy
00:44:02smelly thoughts
00:44:03all over me
00:44:04the things i do for you today
00:44:05the things i do
00:44:06you're welcome
00:44:07i was getting warm in here
00:44:11as the beep beep crack into the atmosphere
00:44:13come on let's switch gears and the power spit and go
00:44:15let's go
00:44:17uh
00:44:23uh
00:44:24so today
00:44:25my girl is coming
00:44:26i want to give her a belizean welcome
00:44:29beautiful flowers for a beautiful lady
00:44:33today
00:44:34i'm meeting my girlfriend aviva for the very first time in person
00:44:38i have butterflies i feel like a kid again
00:44:50this might be the start of the rest of my life
00:44:55with aviva with one girl
00:45:10we would say one burner
00:45:12one burner
00:45:13that mean you have one partner
00:45:16never always been a one burner i used to be full of gall
00:45:20but i need to make some changes in my life and my lifestyle
00:45:24so i can be the man that i've always envisioned that i would be
00:45:27uh
00:45:31am i driving around
00:45:32yes sir
00:45:33all right
00:45:35oh baby
00:45:37minutes away from picking you up
00:45:39i'm nervous
00:45:44i'm about to meet my man please
00:45:51after two years of talking and six months of dating
00:45:54i'm finally meeting stig for the first time
00:45:57we're here we made it
00:45:59i'm super super nervous and it's making me nauseous
00:46:03the flight just landed
00:46:13i'm ready
00:46:14i'm ready
00:46:16you're not bro
00:46:18this is my alex
00:46:19like a musical
00:46:20i appreciate it bro
00:46:21this is my alex
00:46:22like a musical
00:46:23i appreciate it bro
00:46:24this is my love
00:46:25thanks my bro
00:46:26blessings
00:46:28release
00:46:30okay i'm going to the bathroom to crush him up
00:46:35i'm super nervous
00:46:37i know he's outside waiting
00:46:39i just want to make sure that he sees me and he's attracted to me
00:46:45i'm so tired and it's stressing me out
00:46:48i know he's around beautiful women all the time
00:46:54and deep down there's things i'm worried about
00:46:59i'm so nervous
00:47:01my biggest fear is that i'm going to go in with this big loving heart and it's just going
00:47:08to get crushed
00:47:10here we go this is what i've been preparing myself for
00:47:14oh
00:47:16oh
00:47:17this is crazy
00:47:21oh my
00:47:27i'm gonna throw up
00:47:31i know what i'm gonna throw up
00:47:32okay
00:47:34oh
00:47:37oh
00:47:38oh
00:47:40oh
00:47:41oh
00:47:42oh
00:47:44oh
00:47:45oh
00:47:46oh
00:47:47oh
00:47:48oh
00:47:49oh
00:47:50oh
00:47:51oh
00:47:52oh
00:47:53oh
00:47:54oh
00:47:55oh
00:48:04oh
00:48:05oh
00:48:06oh
00:48:08oh
00:48:10oh
00:48:11She's she's a good kisser, you know, it felt good. It felt natural. It felt good.
00:48:18Did you get a red? You're blessing. You're blessing. I love it.
00:48:26Yeah, I know
00:48:28Very beautiful. Thank you. You look really good, too, and I'm super happy.
00:48:33Love that blue day
00:48:35I've even got a fat ass. I had no idea. I know she's been in the gym a lot, but I like it
00:48:47Hello, I was like
00:48:49Oh, I brought you Chinese food since you asked and no way
00:48:58Don't eat that. Don't eat that. Please don't just throw it away
00:49:01You did say that if I bring it to you you'd marry me, so I mean I brought it
00:49:08I brought it. It's here. It's a little. I bet. I'm a man of my word. Ask anybody. Ask about me. Okay, okay
00:49:16Ready? Let's go. Let me get that one for you
00:49:22I definitely feel a spark right away. I couldn't have asked for a better first kiss
00:49:31It was very magical moment
00:49:34He definitely smelled better than
00:49:36Chinese food I was carrying
00:49:38Please throw this away now. I'm gonna eat it
00:49:41You'll get sick. We're throwing it away. It's going. It's going. It's going. It's going. It's gone
00:49:46Today is just making me feel really special and I know I only just got here
00:49:51But it just seems like the rumors and spring brought up that he hasn't been
00:49:57Exclusive with just me seem a little silly and not true
00:50:02You're actually here. I know what are we to do? Well, I did bring some lingerie
00:50:12Laura is coming to turkey and it makes me feel excited. Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaking out
00:50:19I know that's something that I should tell her
00:50:30But I don't know how she's going to react
00:50:34I'm about to head to turkey so I can meet beer con
00:50:47In person for the very first time and I'm trying not to think about all of the things that my parents were saying
00:51:06All right, love you
00:51:08Bye
00:51:18There's an absolute possibility
00:51:20This is gonna blow up in my face and everyone that was naysaying against it will tell me that they told me so
00:51:27But I feel like life is a series of calculated risks and if I'm not willing to take a risk for love
00:51:34Then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:51:36I have about 13 hours until I get to meet the love of my life
00:51:50And I need to decompress from just all of the negative energy from the car ride with my parents
00:52:01With a good smutty book
00:52:03With some really steamy moments
00:52:14This is the best part
00:52:16It's darkness, you know
00:52:18It's what I love about Nietzsche
00:52:20He lighten the people around him, but he's the darkness himself
00:52:26He was the part of the reason I wanted to find the light
00:52:29I am into philosophy because life is deep, but we are living on the surface
00:52:37I am trying to learn lives that I never lived
00:52:42I discovered Nietzsche on my toughest time of my life
00:52:47I had the chance to have a professional career of football player
00:52:51I was on the training
00:52:53And my knee collapsed with other one's knee and my AC had crashed
00:53:00I knew it was over
00:53:01But I still play football for fun
00:53:05You know, I love the game
00:53:08Just have to keep moving and embrace the pain
00:53:11Life is like this
00:53:13One part is struggling and one part is surviving
00:53:21One shot
00:53:22After I ruptured my ACL, it was just the end of everything, you know
00:53:30Everything I dream of and now I rebuild it from the bottom
00:53:34And what's helping me the most is finding Laura actually
00:53:42It was destiny
00:53:45I met Laura in Snapchat
00:53:48We started talking and joking around
00:53:53She was so supportive, so optimistic
00:53:56She made me believe that dreaming is okay
00:54:01That's the point that I realized she was perfect for me
00:54:05I am in the darkness
00:54:07But I can see the sun
00:54:11It is about third or four weeks
00:54:13I told her I love her
00:54:15And now Laura is coming to Turkey
00:54:17And it makes me feel excited
00:54:21Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaking out
00:54:23I want to move things to the next level
00:54:29And maybe propose
00:54:31I don't know yet
00:54:32I'm waiting for just meaning
00:54:42Memo and Jugo are my best friends in Izmir
00:54:46But I'm not close with my family
00:54:49So, they are the closest people I have
00:54:53We didn't come to the door, my brother
00:54:57I saw the door
00:54:59What are you doing, how are you doing?
00:55:00Good
00:55:01Good, what are you doing?
00:55:02Laura will come tomorrow
00:55:04But we will die with the excitement
00:55:09You have the excitement of your first time
00:55:11You have the excitement of your first time
00:55:13I heard the voice of your voice
00:55:16Hello
00:55:17Hello
00:55:17But I didn't see you
00:55:18But I didn't see you
00:55:22How old was you?
00:55:2445
00:55:2545
00:55:2545
00:55:27This problem is not possible
00:55:31So, you think
00:55:32When you came to 45, he came to 65, he was 65, he was 65
00:55:36You know when you were younger, you didn't see you?
00:55:41I don't know if you were younger
00:55:42I don't know if you were younger
00:55:46She's old. It's okay because I dated older woman before.
00:55:52The thing I'm attracted with older woman is they understand, you know, not childish.
00:56:00Laura looks good when you consider her age, she looks young.
00:56:07You told me about your life, right?
00:56:10No, she doesn't know. She knows. She knows. She knows.
00:56:17She knows.
00:56:18She doesn't tell you about your life.
00:56:21Yes.
00:56:23But she doesn't have to talk about things from the phone.
00:56:26Yes.
00:56:31When my football career is over, I opened up a couple businesses.
00:56:36Eventually, everything is failed and I couldn't find a proper job.
00:56:42She knows that I have some troubles, but she doesn't know how much.
00:56:48I know that's something that I should tell her, but I don't know how she's going to react.
00:56:54She's going to react.
00:57:24But I don't think about it.
00:57:25She doesn't understand the same person.
00:57:27I want something.
00:57:29I don't know how she hates it.
00:57:32I don't know how she's going to attack him.
00:57:33She knows that the guy knows that he knows it.
00:57:34But I don't trust Michael.
00:57:38I don't feel good about Michael at all.
00:57:42They're doing your reactivity together.
00:57:43But you think that you're just friends?
00:57:46Then don't buy it.
00:57:49I'm not comfortable with this friend she has.
00:57:51she has and if she doesn't cut michael out of her life i don't know this relationship is going to
00:57:58work i'm supposed to be your cop now i thought that you were with somebody else
00:58:07now that we're face to face i feel like i can see the truth in her eyes i didn't tell you
00:58:15everything but um oh man i'm scared now
00:58:20i'm done i'm done
00:58:30hey you okay i can't i can't
00:58:44now i'm looking at her i don't know what to do at this point because it always ends up being a
00:58:51fight every time i've tried she voiced my opinion she doesn't want to talk about me she doesn't
00:59:00want to hear me or she told me i'm not allowed to feel that way and see if we can find her see if
00:59:07we can fix this
00:59:14let me talk to you for a minute
00:59:22i really don't want to no look at me look at me please look at me i love daniel and i know that
00:59:31you're worried that i'm in another bad relationship and things are gonna go sour and you're trying to
00:59:36save me from that but i don't want you to feel like you're being second choice i will always choose
00:59:41you before somebody else look at me i will you said do not marry daniel while i'm in nigeria i promise
00:59:48you with the bottom of my heart i am not marrying daniel while i'm in nigeria
00:59:52i'm not just give me the opportunity to do this if you break this promise i'm not going to break
01:00:01this promise if you break this promise again i can't do this anymore no because that would be toxic
01:00:08and i'm not a toxic person anymore okay so just please give me a hug i really need some space right
01:00:15okay okay i'll do that
01:00:18this was an awful lot for her today
01:00:26i have been in so many relationships and moved around so much on this poor child when she was little
01:00:35but at that time i was searching for who i was
01:00:40i want to show her that this is different i'm i'm a grown up
01:00:45i'm not this young mom who is trying to take care of a young child and have a relationship
01:00:50after relationship i want my happily ever after i want this to be forever
01:00:55and fink doesn't see that yet
01:01:00can i talk to you for a minute
01:01:11i'm trying to understand your feelings and i'm trying to not fight about it
01:01:20is your biggest fear that i'm going to marry him without you knowing him
01:01:24and that i'm going to choose him over you
01:01:27you never listen
01:01:31i'm telling you
01:01:33to think about
01:01:35us
01:01:37first
01:01:38listen i'm understand your point of view i'm listening to you and i'm going there to get to know
01:01:46him better i'm going there to see if we are compatible i'm not going there just to
01:01:51run off and get married i'm listening to your concerns and i am going to voice them
01:01:55i promise you i will okay can i have a hug now okay come here i love you i will start listening better
01:02:06i'm proud of everything you do you are wonderful and kind-hearted and loving and sweet and caring
01:02:12and you have been good to your mother regardless of what i've put you through and i'm proud of you
01:02:17and i will listen to you more okay all right i understand where faith is coming from and i understand
01:02:25that she has been down this road with past relationships over and over again i i hold her
01:02:32opinion deeply in my heart but i think daniel's different i think he's the real deal i think he's
01:02:39a very precious man who is very rare and i would be a fool not to go after him
01:02:47can we go home now
01:03:00welcome welcome
01:03:02sig is everything i thought you would be he looks super good there is definitely some chemistry
01:03:09but that's a bit scary i mean i definitely want to respect your lifestyle and i don't want to be
01:03:15super jealous they're crazy but i hope that you haven't been seeing other people
01:03:23just breathe you got this you're a man she and i have been waiting seven years to meet up with each
01:03:29other and i'm hoping my mom will not fight with sheena i just don't know how to feel on this whole
01:03:35situation yeah there's still some things that have to be discussed before we can proceed
01:03:52it's a boy no way i love it celebrity status okay can i take a picture of it yeah sure lovely lovely girl
01:04:11so where are we going i don't even know where we're going i don't know
01:04:25i don't know you don't know no i don't yes the driver you know where we're going the driver's just
01:04:28taking us if you don't know where we're going to meet her whatever so i don't know but i can't tell
01:04:32you though we're gonna spend the night in village city at a hotel tomorrow we're gonna go to the
01:04:38islands i do have a show out on the islands okay um some new songs i'm excited to perform those
01:04:45and hopefully i'll kill it no okay a lot of people are gonna be there yep are you ready to be there
01:04:52are you ready for that i do want me there even of course i want to do okay
01:05:02i know stig can't stop working while i'm here i would never ask him to do that but i'm really
01:05:09shocked to hear that i'm seeing stig perform already in just a couple days we're here
01:05:17i've been a little bit nervous about having to watch him on stage with girls and having him
01:05:23interact with fans in front of me and now i'm going to be thrusted into it right away and it's a bit
01:05:29scary okay welcome welcome i'll leave you here for now so i have an extra prize for you okay since
01:05:40you said that you love the flower i got you some more flowers oh those are so pretty thank you this
01:05:46was to show you that you're my one and only and this is to show some gratitude that you're here oh
01:05:52thank you i like them they're so pretty check them out stig is everything i thought he would be
01:05:59he looks super good there is definitely some chemistry what are you gonna do with those
01:06:05i'm all over you we've been touching each other kissing each other so i hope the night continues on
01:06:15sexually let's get comfy that sounds good to me i'm attracted to her even more in person but i'm a
01:06:24gentleman i'm not gonna just push up on her and try to get some the first night we'll see how it
01:06:30goes i'm gonna let it play out the way it should play i'm gonna get more comfy so what about you at that
01:06:40like a flower sorry it's not a rose what's it is a rose what are you gonna get steak on your forehead
01:06:48could get it only if you get aviva there leave my ass and i have a viva big on my neck or something
01:06:55same how do you think i would feel i'm gonna leave you um unless you make me leave you
01:07:01what what would make you want to leave me oh that's a good question if you um you can't understand
01:07:10what i do for work and how i you know my lifestyle because of what i do who i am yeah i mean i
01:07:17definitely want to respect your lifestyle and i don't want to be super jealous or crazy but but i
01:07:23also want to be like respected too just like i hope that you haven't been seeing other people
01:07:30because i feel like we've been talking seriously but
01:07:35why you roll your eyes like that i don't know because like you don't trust me
01:07:40i mean i know your lifestyle there's a lot of beautiful women around you always so they're not
01:07:46you though okay mr charmer oh i got to okay i do have one more thing for you that's not
01:08:03a spell of chinese food okay yeah steak makes me feel really comfortable he just knows the exact
01:08:10right thing to say and saying i just feel right together it's just a spark a connection
01:08:16uh uh happiness all wrapped together with a bow i don't know how to explain it
01:08:29hi hi hi
01:08:39hey that's how you feel
01:08:46yes man that is it she's fine as
01:09:03i will be soon aviva just might be the one but i don't think she understands the extent of my
01:09:11my lifestyle as a performer sometimes girls go on stage dance on me you know girls be in my dms
01:09:18some pretty girls i don't know if she can handle all that she said she will but we'll see
01:09:25all right
01:09:34all right my mom lost her passport left on the airplane
01:09:38i don't know but we found it but we found it got to figure it out here we go
01:09:54she's texting me he's already here it's feeling so happy and floating and lighted feeling
01:10:06all right here we go
01:10:10i actually have to go freshen up in the bathroom
01:10:11yeah oh man i gotta find it this way oh man i just don't know how to feel on this whole situation
01:10:20yeah it's just i mean i think that i have these ideas of what i want to say
01:10:25because the emotions get there the feelings get there settle down while we settle down
01:10:38just breathe this is gonna be good
01:10:42everything's gonna be at peace you got this you got this you're the man keep moving forward
01:10:48my mom did not take kindly to sheena lying about the money again she sent text messages to sheena
01:10:55that made her really upset and hurt so i'm hoping that my mom will not fight with sheena
01:11:06hey mom she and i have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other
01:11:10and i just want everything to go smoothly you look good let's get this fixed up a little bit here let
01:11:18me get this little there you go you look good thank you are you ready yeah i'm ready this is your moment okay
01:11:28i'm so nervous
01:11:30let's do this thing here it comes you got this she will do fine you tell her hello you say you
01:11:42we'll just do whatever you feel okay you got this go for us go thank you i love you guys
01:12:00oh my goodness
01:12:17no no
01:12:30Our journey is about to start, and we're going to go to the next level.
01:12:44God love you, too.
01:12:45Oh, I love you, too.
01:12:51Meeting you, getting to be with you finally, is my world.
01:12:57My everything.
01:12:57My everything.
01:12:58Oh, Papa Bear.
01:13:01Sheena.
01:13:02Oh, I'm just with you, baby.
01:13:04You're the best nogal bear ever.
01:13:06I love you.
01:13:08It feels like heaven.
01:13:11It's the best I have ever felt.
01:13:15Oh, no.
01:13:16Sheena, can I kiss?
01:13:17You kissed.
01:13:19Sure.
01:13:24Oh, my goodness.
01:13:25I love you.
01:13:26Oh, my goodness.
01:13:27Kissing you.
01:13:28Oh.
01:13:30It was ecstatic.
01:13:32She has some really good, like, perfume or something on.
01:13:35Actually, I put some a lot of flavor, like, flavored perfumes in it.
01:13:40Oh, I know you're going to love it.
01:13:41Oh, I'm loving it right now.
01:13:42I think I got it all over me.
01:13:43Oh, really?
01:13:44I got mom and dad here, too, with us.
01:13:53I want us to be a big family.
01:13:54Hi.
01:13:55Hi.
01:13:55Hi.
01:13:55Hi.
01:13:56Hi.
01:13:56Hi.
01:13:57Hi.
01:13:57Hi.
01:13:58Hi.
01:13:59Hi.
01:14:00Hi.
01:14:01Hi.
01:14:02Hi.
01:14:03Hi.
01:14:04Hi.
01:14:05Hi.
01:14:06Hi.
01:14:07Hi.
01:14:08Hi.
01:14:09Hi.
01:14:09Hi.
01:14:10Hi.
01:14:10Hi.
01:14:11I've got to be crying for shit.
01:14:12I know.
01:14:12Yeah.
01:14:13I'm having the same issue with her.
01:14:17Oh, boy.
01:14:18Seen Sheena cry, seen Morris cry.
01:14:22And then the big trigger was just death.
01:14:24And then the water works.
01:14:26You're all right, Sheena.
01:14:27You're OK, OK?
01:14:30I was surprised that it got to me like that.
01:14:34I don't cry very often.
01:14:36And right there, I couldn't hold them back, you know, and it kind of felt good, I guess.
01:14:42Sorry.
01:14:43I hopefully apologize for everything that has happened.
01:14:46Well, I thank you for apologizing, but let's make this a happy moment, all right?
01:14:51Yes.
01:14:51Because we're going to be, today is a happy day.
01:14:54We are all together, right?
01:14:56I'm so glad to see you guys.
01:14:57It's been like a family.
01:14:59We're family now.
01:15:01We're family.
01:15:02You're with family now, Sheen.
01:15:04Seeing her face-to-face with him, face-to-face with me, this whole thing is just so overwhelming.
01:15:13I love you, Sheen.
01:15:14I love Baby Bear.
01:15:16And he got the softest lips ever.
01:15:17Oh, really?
01:15:18And he tastes like candy.
01:15:21But apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed and talked about before we can proceed.
01:15:31That's just how I see it.
01:15:34I would call you, you would press decline, and then I wouldn't hear back for hours.
01:15:44I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
01:15:47During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days, I had made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:15:56I promise I will tell you everything, but promise me that she won't get mad.
01:16:16I can promise you that I won't get mad, but I can't promise that it won't hurt.
01:16:36About months ago, I had a lot going on in my life, and for five days, I didn't answer Rick's call.
01:16:48He was really, really upset, and it caused a huge problem for us.
01:16:57My ex-boyfriend got robbed.
01:17:00Right, yeah, you told me about that.
01:17:02Yeah.
01:17:02And you said that he blamed you?
01:17:04Yeah, he blames me, like, I was complete for everything, so I was really nervous and upset, and also, I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
01:17:16Oh, man, I was scared, man.
01:17:24After my ex-boyfriend got robbed, my brother got an accident.
01:17:30He hurt someone, bumped someone on my scooter.
01:17:34We did a lot of process, like going for the radiographic, and the guy at the hospital, we're paying for his food, and paying for everything he needs.
01:17:46Then we went to the police to pay for the comments.
01:17:51Baby, why didn't you tell me that?
01:17:54I mean, I would call you, call you, you would press decline.
01:17:59I didn't press decline.
01:18:01Or you would just not pick up.
01:18:03I didn't pick up.
01:18:03And I would text you, and then I wouldn't hear back for hours.
01:18:08I thought that you were with somebody else.
01:18:11I didn't even really care about my phone.
01:18:14So, I didn't even want to talk to anybody when I came back there, because I was nervous and really upset.
01:18:22Baby, I'm not just anybody.
01:18:23I'm supposed to be your confidant.
01:18:25We have to work together.
01:18:27But I didn't see you yet, Rick.
01:18:28So, it's scary to tell all my problems.
01:18:31Maybe just say, that's not true.
01:18:36I don't believe.
01:18:37Maybe she just wants money.
01:18:40Maybe you will judge me.
01:18:44But, yeah, I was wrong.
01:18:46I'm really, really sorry to hurt you so much.
01:18:55But, it's different now, because I see you.
01:18:58I see who you are.
01:19:00So, I can share, like, everything happens to my life.
01:19:07You okay?
01:19:08I'm okay.
01:19:15I completely understand what you're saying now.
01:19:19Thank you so much for explaining everything to me.
01:19:25I just didn't know what to do, baby.
01:19:26What she was telling me before just wasn't adding up in that moment.
01:19:35But, now that we're face to face, I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes.
01:19:41And, I feel a little bit guilty for not trusting her.
01:19:47Here she is going through all these things.
01:19:49And, instead of being there for her, I made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:19:54What did you do?
01:20:03During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days, I talked to my ex from Colombia.
01:20:12And, she said that, you know, why don't you, you know, come down here?
01:20:17I'm missing you.
01:20:18And, so, you know, I decided to book a trip and go spend time with her.
01:20:27Even though Trish started talking to me again, in my heart, I believe that she cheated on me.
01:20:34And, so, I still went to Colombia.
01:20:39My ex stayed with me for the week.
01:20:42We were acting as a couple once again.
01:20:46Did you have sex?
01:20:47We had sex all the time, the whole time.
01:20:52Multiple times a day, every day.
01:20:56I feel, I feel bad for that.
01:20:59So, I know that I need to tell her.
01:21:02But, I'm extremely scared that it'll be something that she can't forgive me for.
01:21:07And, uh, it might be the end of us.
01:21:15Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:18This is it?
01:21:19I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
01:21:22I'm really proud of the progress that I've made.
01:21:24But, I am nervous.
01:21:26BeerCon won't be as attracted to me in person.
01:21:31Oh, my God.
01:21:32Here we go.
01:21:32Here we go.
01:21:37Enough, listen.
01:21:39She's thick.
01:21:40She has butts.
01:21:42But, as an evil man, I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
01:21:47We don't accept that.
01:22:02We're here to go into the Philippines.
01:22:06Yes, I'm going to see my wife.
01:22:08I've never even met my wife yet.
01:22:11This would be, actually, our first meet.
01:22:14Oh, okay.
01:22:16Me and Anna, we've been married two years.
01:22:19He said that?
01:22:21No.
01:22:22We have been in a relationship for six years and married for almost three years.
01:22:26Okay?
01:22:26Did you guys do the old nookin' nookin'?
01:22:33You're pushing too far.
01:22:37It's in the right time, poor place.
01:22:38Yeah.
01:22:40Sheena already has that control, that thumb on him.
01:22:43Let's not forget, she was giving all of her money to her parents instead of saving for their future.
01:22:48You haven't given me a direct answer as to why you lied.
01:22:55The pieces aren't lining up.
01:22:57I don't like that we were fighting yesterday, but there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
01:23:09What?
01:23:10What is this?
01:23:10What's happened?
01:23:11I really want to tell Zian about my last engagement because I think it's the only way that we could move forward.
01:23:22No.
01:23:23I don't know what I'm gonna do.
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