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PinnedBarbarella Speaks·Sep 29Why Modern Men Are Lonely (Hint: It’s Not Because of Feminism)As a reminder, men built much of the world we’re living in.A response icon7A response icon7
PinnedInBitchybyBarbarella Speaks·Jan 13Female Loneliness Isn’t Loud. That’s Why No One Cares.Double standards, again. Girls, it’s time for another revolution.A response icon4A response icon4
InHeart AffairsbyBarbarella Speaks·Oct 11The Dating Pool Is Full of Creeps. Except It Isn’t.The creeps are doing all the swimming. The decent guys stay on the side, overthinking.A response icon10A response icon10
InILLUMINATIONbyBarbarella Speaks·Sep 11, 2025I Saw Sex Like a Man for One Year. Here’s What Happened.Testosterone rewired my brain and gave me a crash course in male desire from the inside out.A response icon8A response icon8
Barbarella Speaks·Aug 5, 2025Bathroom Selfies & Dick Pics: The Weird Science of Male Brains on Dating AppsAncient wiring, porn-brain impulses, and zero feedback: a messy safari of male desireA response icon8A response icon8
InBitchybyBarbarella Speaks·Jul 15, 2025Two Million Swipes, ONE Date, and Zero Self-Awareness: What’s Wrong With Men on Dating Apps?Why do so many men never think: “Maybe it’s me”?A response icon24A response icon24
InBitchybyBarbarella Speaks·Jul 10, 2025How ‘Therapy Bro Summer’ Could Finally Save Love (and Women’s Sanity)We’re just tired of dating grown toddlers and being everyone’s unpaid shrink.A response icon5A response icon5
