PinnedImi Lo·Aug 16I Thought Everyone Meant What They SaidYou were not being difficult; you were following rules that you had assumed everyone was following.A response icon6A response icon6
PinnedImi Lo·Aug 4Intense and Gifted People Struggle in TherapyMost gifted and intellectually intense people struggle with conventional therapy. Perhaps, those who can explain their own pain most…A response icon13A response icon13
Imi Lo·Oct 31Please Do Not Ask Me Why I Am DepressedWhen you are gifted, emotionally intense, and highly sensitive, even the most ordinary expressions of concern from the people who love you…
Imi Lo·Oct 8The Exhausting Project of Being YourselfMost of us spend the better part of our lives constructing a self. We build it out of preferences, convictions, roles, relationships…
Imi Lo·Sep 4Some People Don’t Have a Life Story. Nothing Is Wrong With ThemThe philosophy of the unstoried lifeA response icon1A response icon1
Imi Lo·Jul 15Waiting Mode: Anxiety, Intolerance of UncertaintyWaiting mode describes the inner experience of being unable to do anything because something uncertain, or a future event, is pending.
Imi Lo·Jun 25On Old Age and Closing DoorsSometimes, when we dread something, it is not the thing itself that we dread, but the prospect of a shrunken future. What hopes and dreams…A response icon3A response icon3
Imi Lo·May 24When Therapy Misreads Neurodivergent PeopleOn the limits of interpretationA response icon1A response icon1
Imi Lo·May 18Why You Feel Guilty About EverythingMany neurodivergent, intellectually excitable, and gifted adults struggle with the feeling of being haunted by a kind of extreme guilt that…A response icon4A response icon4
Imi Lo·Apr 28Gifted Adults and High-Functioning Depression: Not Waving but DrowningWhy Gifted Adults Are More Prone to High Functioning DepressionA response icon3A response icon3