Lola·Apr 1, 2022Stepping off the Relationship EscalatorBeing able to accept many loves into your life with polyamory, including multiple romantic loves, has changed the way I view relationships.
Lola·Dec 29, 2021Your Emotional Bill of RightsThis list is about defining and respecting the space between yourself and other people — what your rights are versus what theirs are, too.
Lola·Oct 12, 2021Trusting My Boyfriend’s WifeThe hardest part about dating married men is being able to trust their wives. For starters, I don’t date or sleep with anyone that is…A response icon4A response icon4
Lola·Oct 6, 2021Overlapping LovesWhen we started our adventures into non-monogamy, my husband and I had ideas about how other relationships would fit into our world. My…
Lola·Sep 29, 2021Are you a Bonsai or a Wild Rose?The deepest question you can ask yourself is “Why?” Inside that question is the seed of all your actions that will grow into your life. Is…A response icon1A response icon1
Lola·Sep 10, 2021Digital Dating with an Analog BrainWhen we opened our marriage in 2019, I found myself back in the dating pool after a 17-year hiatus. The last time I dated was when I was 20…
Lola·Sep 3, 2021Open Marriage and Family: What About the Children?!Having an open marriage with young children is interesting, to say the least. The thought leaves ladies clutching their pearls and wringing…
Lola·Aug 22, 2021Sex and Fire: Human NeedsI wrote a post a few weeks back on several platforms and it caught fire in a way I had not anticipated. I honestly didn’t expect the kind…
