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Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love

Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love

A self-help memoir/dating advice book/singles survival guide.

2023

Treva Brandon Scharf

Treva Brandon Scharf

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Hello, Love

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Sep 2

There’s Nothing Wrong With Wanting a Relationship

It’s not weak or embarrassing. It’s human.

There’s Nothing Wrong With Wanting a Relationship

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Hello, Love

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Mar 2

People Are the Best Thing That Can Happen to Anyone

This is my personal pitch for people.

People Are the Best Thing That Can Happen to Anyone

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Hello, Love

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Jul 29, 2025

Men, Where Have You Gone? I Think I May Know

A conversation single people need to have.

Men, Where Have You Gone? I Think I May Know

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Hello, Love

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Jun 9, 2025

8 Low-Risk Ways to Make the First Move (women too)

Before you lose your sh*t and say no f-ing way, hear me out

8 Low-Risk Ways to Make the First Move (women too)

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Hello, Love

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Dec 19, 2024

AI Is Not Your GF or BF!

I don’t care how lonely or horny you get, don’t fall in love with a romance chatbot!

AI Is Not Your GF or BF!

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Hello, Love

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Sep 18, 2024

Single People, Are You Misbehaving in the Dating World?

Don’t make me take you over my knee!

Single People, Are You Misbehaving in the Dating World?

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Hello, Love

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Jul 2, 2024

Being a Gentleman Is Not Toxic Masculinity

Being a gentleman never went out of style, but somehow it’s fallen out of favor.

Being a Gentleman Is Not Toxic Masculinity

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Jun 9, 2024

Trump Is Making My Job Harder as a Dating Coach

Normalizing bad behavior is bad for business.

Trump Is Making My Job Harder as a Dating Coach

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Hello, Love

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May 1, 2024

Have You Ever Thought the Problem Might Be You?

Because I love you and want the best for you, I’m giving you this gift of tough love and brutal honesty.

Have You Ever Thought the Problem Might Be You?

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Hello, Love

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Feb 12, 2024

It’s OK To Hate Being Single

There, I said it. You can too.

It’s OK To Hate Being Single

Treva Brandon Scharf

Treva Brandon Scharf

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ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, author of "Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer's Guide to Love." Visit www.trevabrandonscharf.com.

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