The rising sea level is making men move away from their families to higher ground.

Ive had enough experience with parenting to know that this guy is still waiting for his kid to put on shoes.

I set up Bitwarden for my wife and parents. They then only access this stuff via mobile and login with fingerprint. They then change to a new device and don’t remember any passwords at all and come to me to reset all their account passwords and rebuild a new Bitwarden password database. They don’t even know the password for their main Gmail account with their Android phones. I now keep their main Gmail password in my own Bitwarden and set this as their recovery account for everything. It’s painful being the family tech support guy.

My sleep habits got messed up as a teenager and I’ve struggled a lot to fix it over the years, without success. I want to aim to get 7 hours. I end up with an average of 6:30. This doesn’t sound too bad, but it is. At the end of every 2 weeks the sleep deficit is a full night’s missed sleep. Over the past year I have a 90 hour deficit (as if I’ve completely missed almost 13 nights sleep).

I used to live off 4 to 5 hours after my first kid. It’s no way to live. It’s like being on drugs, you might not realise what a bad hole you’re in till you come out of it. It’s one of the biggest determinants to good health. Once you start sleeping well consistently, your experience of everything on life will be so much better when your brain doesn’t have a constant fatigue haze. This takes weeks of good sleep to recover from (not 2 nights of good sleep after months of terrible sleep).

I got it, then saw that its app sucked, then stopped using it for months despite having a valid subscription, then found the Gray Jay app, then found that I can queue all my videos together seamlessly in an excellent player and now slowly I’m watching more and more Nebula content and cutting out more and more YouTube content.

Nebula has a lot of stuff I like (long form, deep dive, factual, analytic videos). Now that my videos across platforms can be in one place, its easier to accept the more limited selection on Nebula. As I find more stuff on Nebula and unsubscribe from more stuff on YouTube, my whole video stream diet is getting better and better. The value of Nebula is slowly increasing for me. I wouldn’t have continued at all or renewed my subscription if I was using their default app and going between multiple apps for my video streams; and if that was the case it had been much easier for me to stick with YouTube and Newpipe app.

Gray Jay with Sponsorblock included is the best.

I was interested in seeing what the wife thought of this and she seems pretty supportive and accommodating.

I can totally see the need to want to be creative. Ive really gone down a creative, DIY, mod, maker community rabbit hole. It has been great.

Most of things I find are very niche interests so it’s not really useful for everyone to know about, but I wish it was easier to find niche communities for my interests to share these with.

https://retrogamecorps.com/ - has been amazing since I started getting into retro gaming last year.

https://mariushosting.com/docker/ - has been the site that got me into self hosting with my Synology NAS and I still use it as a resource regularly even though my docker containers are on a separate Debian server now.

https://ext.to/ - my go to torrent aggregator.

https://alexandrite.app/<your Lemmy instance> - has been the best desktop frontend for Lemmy that I’ve found.

https://drawabox.com/ - I’ve been getting back to trying to improve at sketching and this is one of the best resources I’ve found.

https://gp2040-ce.info/ - made it possible for me to make my own custom hitbox controllers for Street Fighter.

https://github.com/joe-scotto/scottokeebs/ - Joe Scotto’s resources helped me make my own macro pad and I want to make my own full keyboard next.

…and I refuse to elaborate further.

Who the hell spells paratha like that? 🤣

The internet is already mostly bots talking to bots. Now it will be AI talking to AI and training on the shit the feed each other. An AI “human centipede” situation.

I liked Day9’s take on the matter.

As a child then every year is purposefully pointed out. School education years, birthdays, clothes for your age, siblings being older/younger.

As an adult when you stop paying careful attention then time all merges into one mass. Age doesn’t really matter much and certainly isn’t pushed in your face constantly. It’s easy to keep doing repetitive things at work and home and before you know it then another 4 years go by without you keeping track. I did a job with a very extended period of postgraduate training (10 years). Then again there was a constant interest in your year of training and what stage you are at. Even other events in life are better bookmarked (that happened when I was in year 5 of my training).

If you’re more mindful of the time, then it seems to pass more slowly and is better delineated.

It works fine with 2 simultaneous direct play streams. Haven’t tested beyond that.

All that is running fine on 16gb of RAM?

My dashboard says that containers are using 50% of the ram. The server PC itself is using a bunch of ram on top of that because I ended up installing g Debian with the full KDE desktop emvironment. I ended up removing some resource hogs that I didn’t need (Element server, Linkwarden, etc).

The best way to get to grip with how this works is to start using it.

Yup works great. The NAS drive auto mounts as an NTFS drive on the server with read/write access. All works smoothly.

I happened to be driving home at the same time as my wife, but didn’t realise. Was driving a good 5 min while trying to figure out why my podcast stopped playing. Her car was close enough to steal away my phone’s Bluetooth connection. She was just as confused with a random philosophy podcast suddenly cancelling out her music.

You don’t need much to self host and don’t let people online gatekeep or exclude you or intimidate you with complex racks. An old PC repurposed to a home server gets you started and is enough for a lot of stuff. You can always expand as needed in the future.

Here’s my setup:

Storage is on a NAS: synology 2 bay NAS with 8TB (media: photos, movies, TV shows, books, comics) and 2 TB HDD (Kopia backup snapshots). I don’t need RAID configurations. Important data is already 3-2-1 backed up and if an HDD fails then I’ll just replace it when I get to that point.

Server: Headless mini PC with Debian with a 12th gen intel, 16gb ram, 1tb NVME (mostly live data, shared folder, game saves, etc). I’m building a new machine and have yet to decide if I want to replace the server or use that as a gaming machine, but the has a Core 5 Ultra 125H processor and LPDDR5 RAM and is super power efficient and silent.

Docker containers:

• actual (budgeting)

• affine (note taking)

• bentopdf (PDF editing)

• beszel (server status monitoring)

• dockge (Docker management)

• guacamole (server remote desktop access)

• immich (photo application, backup, gallery and Al tagging)

• jellyfin (video and music server)

• jotty (quick notes and task/shopping lists)

• kavita (comic books and ebooks)

• kopia (backups)

• floccus (bookmark backup and sync across browsers)

• mattermost (used solo for sharing text, links, files, etc to myself)

• papra (document scanning and OCR)

• opodsync (gpodder podcast sync backend)

• prunemate (automated scheduled docker pruning)

• samba (file sharing on the local netwrok)

• syncthing (mostly used to keep retro/emulated games in sync across devices)

• tiny tiny rss (RSS platform)

• vpn-torrent-stack (conatining gbittorrent, prowlarr, flaresolverr, radarr, sonarr, all running through gluetun VPN on a VPN server)

• watchtower (automatic docker updates)

Synology Cloud Sync sends the Kopia backup snapshots to my Backblaze online storage and also keeps a local folder synced with my Mailbox.org cloud drive.

Synology also handles the reverse proxy access.

Flawless logic. Instant job offer.