Yep, the males are easy to identify.
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I had a doctor once who suggested the same thing.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why is the first thing the internet says whenever a relationship post comes up is: "Red Flag"/"Break Up"/"Divorce"/"Don't Walk, Run"/"Go No-Contact"/"Let them die in a nursing home"/etc...English
41·4 days agoHow much of your life do you want to spend around people who make you unhappy? Generally, you can’t change other people, so if you’re unhappy enough to be posting about your relationship online for random people to comment on, you should at least consider cutting your losses and freeing yourself to find relationships that you actively enjoy being part of.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do you hallucinate (without drugs)? What is it like for you?English
1·5 days agoUsed to, because of a sleep issue. Very normal stuff, despite being full sensory. Not really alarming.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What does someone say or do for you to consider them intelligent?English
1·5 days agoThey have the ability to think about an issue from different perspectives.
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Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•Need advice: undefined relationship by M choice, F got another number when outEnglish
1·6 days agoThere’s nothing wrong with texting other people, as long as you’re not violating the boundaries of your relationship. Usually that would mean sexting or sending nudes. Since you aren’t in a relationship with this guy, I would say anything goes. And he definitely shouldn’t be looking through your phone.
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Humanities & Cultures@beehaw.org•What 100 Million Volts Do to the Body and MindEnglish
1·6 days agoSomeone I knew got zapped while meditating under a tree at the park. He was totally fine. I was like, OMG.
You don’t need to reveal much about yourself to strangers who you want to stay strangers with, but if you want any type of closer relationship, at some point there has to be a give and take.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Would you keep seeing a doctor that required to you agree to the use of AI in your treatment to continue being a patient?English
2·8 days agoMy dentist started using this. Not the same service, but automatic AI-based visit recording, transcription & record-keeping. She’s experienced with a difficult issue I have, so I’m staying with her for now but this is definitely a minus.
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birding@lemmy.world•The fluffiest White-Throated Sparrow having a splashEnglish
1·9 days agoSo cute!
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Linux@lemmy.ml•Are you using systemd or an alternative, what do you recommend?English
4·11 days agoAs someone who didn’t know anything about either a short time ago, I found cron easier to learn and use. Systemd timers look more visually clean, but the way cron works is more simple and straightforward.
I’m always surprised by how rare some achievements are that aren’t so much difficult to do, but more a reflection of the decisions a person makes within a game.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•People over 30, how are you taking care of yourselves?English
6·11 days agoIt feels harder, where I live now. It feels like I’m getting so much older so quickly.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Does anyone else feel like websites nowadays feels very broken compared to apps? Like you try to do transactions on the mobile site (eg: ordering food), and payments mysteriously declines...English
1·11 days agoSome financial institutions are much worse than others. I think it depends on what system they’re using for fraud detection.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Does anyone else feel like websites nowadays feels very broken compared to apps? Like you try to do transactions on the mobile site (eg: ordering food), and payments mysteriously declines...English
1·11 days agoIf I have to use ID.me for something, I just don’t do it.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Does anyone else feel like websites nowadays feels very broken compared to apps? Like you try to do transactions on the mobile site (eg: ordering food), and payments mysteriously declines...English
2·11 days agoSame here. So many websites are now virtually unusable. It doesn’t seem to happen with Chinese sites, though.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do you feel about a 25 year old dating a 46 year old?English
4·11 days agoWhen I was in my 20s, I viewed people in their 40s-50s as parental or even grandparently figures. As an older person, I would be open to dating someone in their 20s if we had a great connection, but I wouldn’t make a move unless they expressed an interest first because I wouldn’t want to be creepy or make them uncomfortable.
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Cooking @lemmy.world•(Question) what should I do with this? Any ideas? (Preferably vegetarian suggestions if possible)English
2·11 days agoI love black truffles with pasta in a dressing of mayo, onions, garlic, and black pepper. It’s a great quick meal.






I agree. This is what I do, too.