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  • A coworker once told me a trick for knowing where the line is when referring to marginalised groups.

    (Please remember that this is before the big Hamas attack in 2023 led to the current state of affairs).

    His advice, replace the group you’re referring to with jews, and reread the sentence. His reasoning is that we have a much better feeling for what’s acceptable. So, this would be:

    Is it antisemitic of me to completely filter out jew-related topics from all the media I consume?

    So how to answer?

    If you’re blocking a ton of topics that don’t interest you, to create a highly personalised feed, then that probably wouldn’t seem that weird. If it’s the only thing you’re blocking, then that might be more easily explained by prejudice.

    At the end of the day, though, you’re the only person who knows whether you’re transphobic or not. It’s easy for someone to say that being indifferent to a marginalised group’s suffering is as bad as actually persecuting them, but that ignores the fact that some people are barely keeping it together as it is. We live in horrible dangerous times - your feed is your own business, but I’d suggest trying to keep abreast of the broad strokes of what is happening in the world.








  • This hits the nail in the head.

    I have a friend who grew up in the USSR. From what she’s told me, the social pressure around pulling your weight can’t be overstated.

    For example, her school uniform had a scarf, and the punishment for most offences (being late, not doing homework etc) was to have your scarf taken away for a day or two. Instead of being trapped in detention away from everyone after school, you had to spend the day publicly marked out as someone who’s let the side down. You’d spend the day subjected to disapproving looks, and then when you got home have to explain to your parents why you had your scarf taken away.






  • Both of their orders are wrong.

    The first person’s doughnut (pictured) has a single grain on it, so instead of getting “hundreds and thousands”, they’ve got a “one”.

    The second person’s order has been messed up in a more surreal way - instead of rainbow sprinkles, they’ve received a single sprinkle that isn’t actually any of the colours of the rainbow.

    I think it may have been over-complicated by having two punchlines in the last panel. Either of them could have stood on their own but having both on the last panel takes some of the impact out of the punch. Also, having two separate strips about this shop messing up orders would help establish this location in the comic’s world.



  • It’s probably worth mentioning that this doesn’t just stop at legislation. A lot of things in the UK are the way they are, just because that’s the way they’ve always been.

    What’s the official flag of the UK? It doesn’t have one. The Union Jack was a naval flag that became our defacto national flag. Before WW1, people could have lived their entire life without seeing a Union Jack.

    What’s the official national anthem of the UK? It doesn’t have one. God save the King / Queen is our defacto national anthem. It was a song that gained popularity and people adopted it unofficially.

    OK then. What’s the official language of the UK? You probably guessed - it doesn’t have one. English is only the defacto language of the UK. In fact, the only official language anywhere in the UK is Welsh, in Wales (obviously), where the vast majority of people speak English as their first language anyway.



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    It depends on your chronotype. It messes with PM people much more than AM people.

    If you’re tired in the evenings and wide awake in the morning, then going to bed slightly earlier and getting up earlier is easy.

    If you’re alert in the evenings and tired in the mornings, going to bed early is counter-productive, you just lie there awake getting less tired. Similarly getting up earlier is even harder than normal.

    If you’re an AM person, then you’ve drawn the lucky straw - the world is built for people like you. But there’s lots of PM people who struggle daily, fighting against their body clocks just to show up to school/work on time.




  • True!

    Although, for a clearer comparison, it might help if I described what their normal food was.

    From what I remember (it was about 20 years ago!), and ranked from their favourite to least favourite, the food mix consisted of:

    • Peanuts
    • Yellow flakes and green flakes (which I suspect started off as corn and peas)
    • Scratchy red things (similar size and shape to a chunky watch battery)
    • Scratchy brown things (similar shape but flatter than the red ones)
    • Dark brown stick things

    I guess the closest food we have is dry cereal. If I just had a huge bowl of mixed dry cereal to communally eat from for the entire day, and then one day a whole lettuce was next to the bowl, I’d probably try to eat as much of it as I could before it was taken away too.