fix storage and realtime database targets

[bkendall]

Description

--only storage:<target> commands were failing when targets were applied to storage because the handling of the <target> was busted. We were manipulating an object the wrong way and causing undefined to be passed along.

I've updated the logic in storage/prepare to look at the only option and filter/check for targets. It will only deploy targets it understands and fail out if an unknown target is provided.

Debugging this further (and reading https://firebase.google.com/docs/rules/manage-deploy#realtime-database) made me realize that we weren't doing any of this checking/filtering on realtime database either. I've updated logic for that product as well.

Fixes #4752

Scenarios Tested

• storage deploy with a single config value in firebase.json
• storage deploy with a target, using the correct name
• storage deploy with a target, using the incorrect name
• deploy of all targets

tested database deployments in the same ways as above.

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 16.98113% with 44 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 57.65%. Comparing base (ba686fd) to head (7bb4a41).

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/database/rulesConfig.ts	0.00%	24 Missing ⚠️
src/deploy/storage/prepare.ts	9.52%	19 Missing ⚠️
src/deploy/index.ts	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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[tonyjhuang]

Thanks for the fix!