Okay… Sending it to him cause he loves making fun of me for being american :/
Kaity
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Sending this to my new british friend asap
Kaity@leminal.spacetoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•I, for one, welcome- well... you know.English
14·1 year agoI for one welcome my new butt overlord
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Why haven’t we seen a peer-to-peer (P2P) social media platform yet?English
12·1 year agoHonestly sounds like a disaster, what stops someone from controlling information by aggressively seed-boxing their chosen agenda?
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196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•"Nah I don't want to go. You have fun though" ruleEnglish
17·1 year ago😭
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196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•"Nah I don't want to go. You have fun though" ruleEnglish
31·1 year agowhat do they call it, “Get stuck in impossibly tiny hole upside down and die”?
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196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•"Nah I don't want to go. You have fun though" ruleEnglish
1221·1 year agoSpelunkers are crazy, out of every stupid thing you could do that has a high chance of killing you of you if you make a tiny mistake you choose spelunking?
It’s funny cause even if someone is transphobic, on some level they do see you as valid which they’d never intentionally admit. But they will unintentionally admit it with their misandry/misogyny.
Yeah, I can totally see that being why the trope is super prevalent.
Me too, I had a non-gendered nickname based on my dead name, and was going to just have my middle chosen name be a lovely name that fit that nickname. But then I decided I hated the nickname and got sour on the idea of “making it easy” for my parents to dead name me in their heart, while using a chosen name.
Ended up not having a middle name, which is cool because I get to “legally attest” to not having a middle name sometimes which I thought was interesting.
That’s fair, I never intended to invalidate anyone’s decision to have any sort of chosen name.
But see, that’s a really great chosen name so I totally get that.
Never would judge any real person for their chosen name, I just find it silly when it’s like this in memes and stories.
that’s true
why does every trans meme assume we change our name to just the other gendered version of our dead names lol. It’s a trope at this point, but speaking as a trans woman that would be dysphoric af.
I guess, to be fair, I actually considered making my middle name similar to my dead name as a way out for my parents from the “it’s just hard for us” but I realized I hated that idea and screw them if they think respecting me is too hard for them.
Edit: btw 2 years post come out and my dad finally used my chosen name for the first time. They can change, though my dad keeps misgendering, which shows me his heart isn’t in the right place. He’s thinking “appease” me as in his heart I’m still a guy, even though he definitely glanced at my chest… guh
Money makes things possible, people will do things they love for the passion of it, but without enough money it isn’t feasible. It’s capitalism, folks
99% of them are delusional, and the 1% who aren’t, deserve it.
idk wth ishtu ats?
No guesses? y’all aren’t fun
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Linux Gaming@lemmy.ml•Gamers Nexus might start including Linux gaming tests in their hardware reviewsEnglish
31·1 year agoTo provide some additional anecdotes to support jul’s comment. I’ve personally been experiencing better performance than windows even with nvidia. Though it does vary per game, with the occasional workaround especially when going outside the realm of plug and play to mod games.
I’d say most games are great, the “10% low” games are still good, and the “1% lows” where things just don’t work are pretty rare but sometimes there is a fix. Proton.db is a good resource for those instances.
And being honest… windows has those moments too, people just ignore them because windows is the ubiquitous gaming OS.
It’s a lot better than when I had last “tried” and it may be more impactful to bring up that this time I haven’t gone back even once, and I actually went ahead and pulled the plug on my windows partition.
Linux is just better now, there’s one thing windows had but I gave it up. Linux is just better for most things now and to make that win even better… windows has increasingly been becoming worse than itself.


I was not technically a newbie since I had previously used ubuntu in the distant past (as if ubuntu would truly prepare someone for a more advanced distro), and probably a few others I can’t remember, but I came back with EndeavourOS and I’m having a great time. I did have a few challenges though I am fairly tech savvy and I knew what I was getting into so I was definitely not a regular novice.
After a single serious oopsie that bricked my system but I was able to fix I’ve been running a very stable system. I’ve kept with it for nearly 2 years now on my initial install with practically no issues, at least none I wasn’t willing and able to solve. I troubleshot an issue I was having with a package installation the other day without finding any help online and that made me proud of myself.
I would have considered myself a decent power user on windows, and I feel like a sub average arch user, but hey I get to learn and improve more now.