

Happens with many Asians as well (in Canada, in truth also at least for some in Asia... can speak for ASEAN anyways).
Part of the western influence is creating this false dichotomy across the entire globe- social progress, for instance decent treatment of women and LGBT+ people is painted as "westernizing." Not abusing one's kids is "westernizing," technological and economic development is "westernizing," etc, etc... Somehow also for too many people/in parts of the world this view is somehow held alongside a view of the west as "godly (or historically so and now 'corrupted by secularism/etc')" thanks to the long and ongoing history of western evangelizing.
The amount of damage this has done... well, I can't say for sure on the frequency of it vs. healthy mixed-race relationships with white people (perhaps half or a third, maybe less? hell if I know) but it's certainly visible in many communities (and- from a outside view looking in, in many others like with yours). Anecdotally the scars of it have left a deep and ongoing trauma and issue in my family and upbringing... let's just say that somehow both my mom and my aunt have this sort of mentality and it doesn't pair well at all with mental illness
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Honestly I can't claim much, if any sympathy. Maybe she was born there and w/o any other prospects for citizenship- if so, then I'd feel otherwise- but otherwise, for those living in the genocidal settler-colony established less than a century ago? lmao