Joke Over Problems
Menertawakan Masalah.
Untuk kebanyakan orang, move on adalah hal yang tersulit dalam perjalanan hidup. Mungkin ada banyak orang yang sulit lupa akan suatu kenangan yang membekas. Buruk dan baik. Terkadang banyak pemberi saran cenderung merendahkan orang orang yang punya keunikan ini. Keunikan untuk lupa.
For most people, moving on is the most hardest thing in this journey of life. Maybe there are a lot of people have difficulties in forgetting of moments full of memories that dear to your heart. Whether it’s good or bad. And a lot of friends around you tend to underestimate people with this uniqueness. A unique traits to forget memories (especially bad memories).
Terkadang kenangan pahit bukan menjadi satu alasan kuat utk bisa lupa. Terkadang itu menjadi duri dalam daging dalam beberapa hati yang tersakiti. Ketika seseorang sudah menetapkan harapannya akan sesuatu. Kemudian, harapan itu pupus. Tanpa alasan, tanpa sebab. Tiba-tiba terjadi.
Sometimes, bitter memories are not the strongest reason for us to be forgotten. Sometimes it become a thorn in the flesh in several hearts that were hurt. When someone decides to hope on something and it didn’t work as planned. No explanation, no fucking reasons why. Things just happened!
Like a thunder at noon!
Level tertinggi dari seseorang dalam menghadapi masalah adalah ketika orang tersebut mampu untuk menertawakan masalah itu. Bukan berarti lupa juga. Tapi momen tertawa adalah momen seseorang memanfaatkan / mengalihkan waktunya untuk hal yang lain dibanding bersedih akan suatu kehilangan.
The highest level of someone facing a problem is when that person has capability to joke over the problems. It doesn’t mean he/she forgets it. But a moment when a person could convert his/her sadness to other things than mourning it over and over.
Pulang ke rumah pun terkadang menjadi jerat untuk beberapa orang yang sedang dalam kesedihan.
Sometimes, going home after all activities became snares to those who mourn.
Again, it’s okay not to be okay.
There’s no wrong about it. Be who you are, be true on every feelings we felt.
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But don’t sink inside it too long. Come out to the surface to breathe for a while.
If we’re sad, means we have heart. A heart that was scattered. A hope that failed to happen. It’s okay.
Well, I’m not an extrovert, I’m also bad in keeping my sadness. But, it seems like I tend to joke around. Perhaps, people could think of me as a person without any burden. If you’re that person, it means you’re good in hiding your feelings. Hide your sorrow with laughs.
But things will get real when I’m alone. Indeed, I’m so alone.
In my loneliness, those sadness and disappointments are coming back to my minds. And I tried to embrace it. Try my best, till the pain won’t feel as pain anymore. Enjoy it, digest it, piece by piece.
When I’m home alone, it’s time to recharge myself. I found writing is the best exit for everything that’s pilling up inside. Nobody would understand how I feel over things that I got.
I’m not faking myself when I’m outside. It’s just I want my surroundings feel joyful, make heavy things light. Make huge problems feel small with our ability to joke over problems. Inside, I was so broken and messed up. I hope everybody else won’t feel that way. A lot of sadness hide behind every jokes that we present.
In the end, like what Joker said: Why so serious?
Why so serious?
Why so serious If you can make things simple and fun?
Maybe you are someone like me, not easy to let things go. Not easy to let someone go. It’s bad memories that we should throw to trash, but some of us couldn’t do it so quick.
Time is the most priceless currency ever and only time could make distance between memories and your present day. Take heart, be honest to yourself and live your life.
In the end, be grateful, always… Time will make us understand. It will…
