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Cake day: June 21st, 2023

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  • I don’t think this is specific to lemmy. We generally like to hear people agree with us, and social media allows us to a) find spaces with like-minded people b) block people we don’t like from interacting with us

    We put ourselves into echo chambers where our assumptions and opinions are never challenged. You might talk about people with different opinions, but rarely to them. Live in that environment long enough, and you stop to question your convictions, and become increasingly incapable of articulating why you hold them, or to consider the perspective of ‘the opponent’.









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    4 months ago

    Ein Feiertag ist ein Feiertag, ob man frei hat oder nicht. Und ich weiß nicht was verkehrt daran sein soll, jemandem frohe Tage zu wünschen, bzw inwiefern “angenehme” Tage besser sein sollen als “frohe”.

    Aber: you do you, boo. Ist jetzt nicht so als wär eine Phrase in meinen Augen besser/schlechter als die andere.



  • I just went after the first thing that sounded interesting, then the next, then again. It was quite a bumpy ride.

    I ended up with a job that I really like, but that might be more thanks to luck than anything else, so I don’t know that everyone should follow my example.

    I do have some advice though:

    • If there is something you really want to do, try and pursue that first. If you don’t, you’ll always wonder how it would have gone
    • If you have never worked before, try that before going to uni. Maybe try an apprenticeship. I found that the practical experience grounded me quite a bit.
    • Do not be afraid to change career paths. You may feel a pressure to stick with what you chose. And it certainly is necessary to just tough it out at times. On the other hand, you are still young, and will still be pretty young in ten years, so don’t sweat it too much, and try something new if you find that the current thing doesn’t work.

    Some dimensions you may want to consider for any potential profession:

    1. How much do you think you would enjoy it?
    2. How much of a positive impact would it have on others?
    3. How much would you earn?
    4. How easy would it be to find a job? How easy could it be to automate your work in the future?



  • It’s really more of a contract, “I promise to carry and raise your children, you promise to provide the money” That’s why throughout much of history, you couldn’t get divorced, it wasn’t about love, it was about security.

    Nowadays marriage isn’t really as important as before, but still relevant. For women, having a child usually still means making career sacrifices.