pixelmeow

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Cake day: July 12th, 2023

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  • pixelmeowtoMental HealthUnderstandable fear of anger
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    2 months ago

    For me it’s communication, honesty, openness, willingness to listen, and acceptance of where the person is coming from in their reactions and emotions. This is a result of childhood trauma and any long-term traumatic experience. CPTSD (complex PTSD), if you’d like to read about it. This kind of thing is learned below a conscious level so you can’t just logic yourself out of the reaction, it’s almost hard coded. Working together helps both of you figure out how to handle it, unfortunately there is no trick. It takes time and work and patience and love.








  • pixelmeowtoOff My ChestStill attached to my "friend"
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    4 months ago

    It’s very common that scammers request pictures you’re uncomfortable with so that they can threaten to send them to everyone they can connect to you unless you give them money. They string you along trying to get you to become attached enough to give them the pictures, then they demand money or they’ll send them to everyone you know. This scam has ended in at least one teen taking his own life that I’ve heard of, and very probably more.

    There is no friend who is a 15 yo sophomore, and the person you’ve been communicating with is very likely one or more people working in shifts and also could be men or women. This is their job, or they are being forced to do this, and they are very good at it. They are working on many people at a time so don’t feel bad blocking them. It’s all part of the job for them.

    You can do this :)













  • I’m gonna have to try it again. I couldn’t continue once he got into 12 step programs and religion, but most of what he wrote made sense to me and what I experienced. It could be that I just didn’t pick up on the wording and concepts that the article talks about, but that’s probably because I’m older and still trying to recognize those things when I see them.

    I much prefer Pete Walker’s books.