26 things I have learned in 26 years
- The opposite of fear is love. When you are stressed, you need confidence, give love to people and see how the reflection of your love warms your heart. You can also ask your close friends to say positive things about you or show you their love because you are down.
- Happiness is not an easy way. The comfortable way is not the one that leads you to happiness and prosperity.
- Love is not enough (to make a relationship work).
- It is not money and work that make you happy. It’s the people around you. Share quality time with people, discover new place and be pushed to the top by people you love.
- Do things thoroughly or don’t.
- If you are alive, with a home, food, money in your account and some savings, you are luckier than many people on earth. You’re doing well and will do well.
- Be demanding while enjoying the present moment and what you have.
- Believing in tomorrow, in beauty, in love, in happiness, will allow you to hold on. Even if it’s out of control, keep believing until it gets better.
- Don’t forget to share with people, with strangers or with associations.
Share your knowledge, share your money, share your food, share your time. - You had self-confidence when you admitted the “no”.
11. You had time! Breathe and enjoy the moment.
12. You are the first role of your life.
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13. If you start comparing yourself to others, change your perspective by comparing yourself to your old self and see how far you have come.
14. You are allowed to be loved, you don’t have to be perfect to be loved.
15. If you have trouble knowing what to do to achieve your goal. Visualize yourself at the top of your goal and walk the opposite way to understand the actions you think you will take to get there.
16. If you don’t know what to say or do, be patient and wait.
17. Learn to receive and accept what people give you.
18. Saving your money is as important as spending it well.
19. You are allowed to feel what you feel. All your feelings are legitimate.
20. If you had a choice in your life, you are lucky.
21. You are allowed to change your mind, life is a constant evolution.
22. Knowing how to adapt and being curious are two great qualities in this new world.
23. When you feel bad, forget yourself in a work of art (movie, music album, art exhibition) and receive the beauty.
24. You deserve to be happy.
25. You have one life and this is YOUR life.
26. Keep a passion for enjoyment, not for work.
