Only Fans, More Like Lonely Fans
Creating an Only Fans from Scratch
The foundational set-up stage of any endeavour is such hard work.
The past week I have been researching Only Fans like mad.
There is so much to get familiar with; the lingo, the sexting, the pricing, the platform itself.
It feels daunting when I approach it like this. What can you expect, really. It’s a business at the end of the day.
That’s when it struck me:- this will consume my life for a little while.
Not saying this won’t be fun. It will, most definitely, be a playful exploration of self.
But it’s also a job.
My main concern is making the time and not getting burnt out. I have a five month old daughter after all.
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Most of my days are spent taking her swimming and doing baby yoga, heading to the beach and on coastal walks, napping, feeding and playing with her. It’s a 24/7 non-stop gig.
Then there is my yoga practice, which I take very seriously. I’m a dedicated yogi btw (a decent Only Fans niche to take advantage of, I know). Truly, I consistently look to improve whether that be via teaching at the studio or within my own home practice. I manage to squeeze in a couple of hours a week whilst the baby is asleep or gurgling away by herself in her little bouncer.
So how the fuck do you make time for a secret career in sex work?
With the power of will, I suppose.
So far, it feels like slow progress. I’ve got several vanilla snaps, several nudey ones and two videos that still need editing.
I’ve also got a photoshoot coming up this Tuesday. Wish me luck and send me sexy vibes.
I’m basically making a shit ton of content before I begin uploading anything to my Only Fans. I want to have something to build off. Then it’s a matter of simply keeping up the maintenance of my page and my gazillions of subs.
It’ll take time.
Here’s a link to my new Twitter, X, whatever douchey name Elon decides on next.
Don’t forget the Insta.
Phew, but that’s more or less where I’m at. Feels good to write it out and have something to literally reflect on.
Guess there’s a lot going through my mind right now.
