Maybe It’s Just Me
Blog, what’s a Blog?! I don’t even know!!
I just came here to write what I can’t share with anyone.
Honestly, I don’t have a girlfriend(gf).
And that, right there, is the main reason for me to write!
When you don’t have a gf, you don’t have that one person you can share all your experiences with — the positives or negatives, ups, downs, etc..
When I say “negatives”, it’s just my thoughts about society.
People judge you by just looking at your clothes and footwear.
So, how is a person supposed to share their feelings without being judged?
People, they are not supposedly strangers, they could be my friends, My nearest and dearest, per se!!
Sharing your feelings, personal traumas, and confessing your fears is hard when you don’t have a gf.
Yeah Yeah!! I know it doesn’t always have to be a girlfriend; it could be a close friend or a cousin.
But honestly, it’s hard to find someone who doesn’t judge you!!
Maybe unconditional friendships don’t exist anymore.
Maybe they never did.
This, this hits me hard!
And again, I don’t know!! .. Maybe I'm Wrong, maybe it’s just me.
Yeah maybe.
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Oh yeah! Parents,
They are cool, they love us unconditionally.
Spoiler Alert: They judge too!!
I think sometimes, what’s judging anyway?
It’s just a perspective of a person towards us.
Maybe people are free to think whatever they want.
Still, it hurts sometimes.
But you know what?
It’s common to feel not okay.
It’s common to seek someone to share our feelings with.
It’s common to wonder:
“ How do people think about me?”
“ How does society see me?”
“How do my friends judge me?”
After all this, it’s still Good to have Someone who says:
“ It’s all gonna be okay, People will always have something to say. let them”
“Confrontation isn’t always the solution. But ignoring isn’t either.”
There will be takeaways from one or another.
Considering them, I should just focus on myself.
Improve myself as a person.
Grow.
Yeah, it’s not easy.
I’m still figuring it out.
I don’t have all the answers. Maybe I never will. But what matters is,
I’m trying.
