You vs. You
Everyone’s the hero of their own movie.
So treat everyone with respect.
No one is perfect. Everyone has their own flaws. That doesn’t mean you get to judge them or laugh at them.
If you can help, say it politely. If not, just focus on your own life.
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Sometimes I feel the things I overthink aren’t even problems for others.
It’s just how I’ve grown up. I don’t blame anyone, but yeah — I’ve grown up being a little judgy.
When I see someone doing better than me at something, I used to make myself feel better by thinking they were just lucky.
Once, my roommate scored more than me in a subject, even though he studied for less time.
I told myself, “It’s just his IQ, he’s born with it.”
Maybe that’s true. Maybe it was his IQ.
But what was I doing?
Instead of reflecting on what I could’ve done better, I wasted time comparing.
Self-analysis > Self-satisfaction by judging others.
You matter. Your growth, your mindset, your journey.
