a small fair comparison
Feeling like a loser? What are you actually competing against?
Do you keep recalling the regrets you have? Feeling bad about how you didn’t do enough during that time?
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The past is finished. Forget about all the times you’ve lost. Just think about that one time ahead of you WHERE YOU CAN WIN!!The more you fall, the more you rise. Keep all your regrets aside and work hard for the goal ahead of you.
Comparison is only good if you compare yourself with yourself. But if you’re comparing yourself with anyone else, that’s not a fair match. People might laugh at you, there will be times where you are the most embarrassed person in the room, but it’s just one bad moment. If you focus on yourself completely, cutting out all the noise and the overthinking, you will definitely get to a day where people forget all the times you’ve lost.
People only remember what you show them very recently. So before you think about what others think of you, remember you can always change how they think about you.
So don’t care about your losses or your embarrassments, they’re common. Focus on yourself, improve yourself day by day, face the losses and only think about that one moment where can win, until you achieve what you want.
