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Slow learning.
I am slowly but always learning.
I am slowly learning that even if I react, it won’t change anything; it won’t magically change their minds. Sometimes it’s better just to let things be, let people go, don’t fight for closure, don’t ask for explanations, don’t chase answers, and don’t expect people to understand where you’re coming from. I’m slowly learning that life is better lived when you don’t center it on what’s happening around you and center it on what’s happening inside you instead. Work on ourselves and your inner peace.
I am slowly learning that even if I react, it won’t change anything. It won’t magically change their minds. It will not help if the other person is not ready to heal from their pains. No one can force someone to change and do things the right way. The only person that you are responsible for is yourself. I control what I think over myself and how I treat others, but this does not mean that I will let you bully me or believe that you are intimidating me because you have not gotten to the level of mental breakthrough that I have gotten to. Most of the time, I am the one walking away from a situation and person because I know that doing so is where I find my salvation.
Sometimes it’s better just to let things be, let people go, don’t fight for closure, don’t ask for explanations, don’t chase answers, and don’t expect people…
