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Discovered attack.
I alla fall mår jag toppen nuförtiden. Grejer ordnar sig. Jag reser snart till Grekland för första gång vilket jag ser väldigt fram emot.
Vad kan man säga vad gäller en sådan norrman?
Ja men vad egentligen kommer vi tala om?
Det vill jag också, så ska vi göra!
Hembakad med skinka, tomater, chilipeppar, och ananas.
Helt ledig och utan stress! Inget särksilt. En till normal pizzadag blev det bara.
jbrains@sh.itjust.worksto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•How do you work on internalized fears/expectations?
3·19 days agoI recommend the book The Myth of Normal by Gabor Mate for some possible insights.
I recommend loving kindness meditation, also known as “metta”. There is an old saying that 1 hour of metta for a troublesome person is worth 100 hours of other kinds of meditation. I have used it to help me work through and (mostly) get past my feelings for the troublesome people in my life, even including an alcoholic and abusive parent.
Metta for myself also helps me make peace with how I feel, the constant “on guard” mode, which I know helped me survive, but isn’t needed to that degree any longer. It makes sense that I am this way. It’s not always fun, but I’m also not broken.
There is so much more, but I offer you this as a place to start. I hope that others give you helpful ideas.
Peace.
jbrains@sh.itjust.worksto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Is there a word for this sort of behavior?
6·20 days agoSi quieres más, quieres más. That’s it. It doesn’t have to be complicated. “I want more. Are you prepared for more?” Yes or no. I encourage you to state your needs and ask them what they are willing to do.
Do you worry that you don’t deserve more? Do you worry that nobody else will want to be with you? These are normal concerns. You are young. There is only one way to find out. You have time to find someone else.
Peace.
jbrains@sh.itjust.worksto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Can you also do this with languages that use the Latin Alphabet?
18·21 days agoFrench has verlan, a slang in which words are reversed in a similar way, so that we say them differently, but they mean the same thing. “louche” means “suspicious”, but is often said as “chelou”.
It’s not the same effect, but a similar structural pattern.
It’s not even always swapping syllables. Some people say “meuf” as slang for “femme”, even though the word has only one syllable.
I’m not a French speaker from birth, so I don’t know how common this slang is. I know we find it near Paris.
You can hear it in the TV series HPI, where the lead character uses it quite often and the show is set in Lille, which is about 200 km from Paris.
jbrains@sh.itjust.worksto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Can someone explain the Birds and the Bees to me? I get its related to sex somehow but was never told the story or where it got started or how come a bird and insect?
4·21 days agoIndeed. I could hear the song and I couldn’t place the date.
jbrains@sh.itjust.worksto
Unethical Life Pro Tips@lemmy.world•ULPT Request: Using airlines rewards miles to get cash
3·1 month agoIt depends.
Sometimes bigger companies have more room to hide. They don’t care.
Sometimes bigger companies can afford to hire people to be inquisitive.
A big company that seems not to laying people off is probably not paying attention. Then you could consider trying. I wouldn’t try until I was prepared to be caught and fired.
jbrains@sh.itjust.worksto
Off My Chest@lemmy.world•My mom tells me if I take medications for depression, I'm gonna end up relying on it even in old age... I mean I guess the alternative is being unmedicated and dying young lmao...English
10·1 month agoUntrue. I spent 18 months on antidepressants in my mid-30s and then I didn’t need them any longer. Everyone is different.
jbrains@sh.itjust.worksto
Unethical Life Pro Tips@lemmy.world•ULPT Request: Using airlines rewards miles to get cash
4·1 month agoYou might get away with it unless somebody looked. How big is the company you work for?






Set a timer. Sit. Write bullshit until timer yells.
The secret seems to lie in not giving a shit what you write.